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You've asked this repeatedly. You're still with her? Wtf?
You've asked this repeatedly. You're still with her? Wtf?
FYI When your partner is constantly accusing you of things that you're not doing 100% it's because they are. Dump him.
Convert from what to what type of Christian?
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I don’t think so. I met a girl in my last town and it definitely didn’t make it more bright and rosey.
You are right though. It is me. I want to do all these things but when it comes to it I get too scared and can’t
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The comments are spot on in terms of not dealing with your stress with alcohol. Yea sometimes I’ll have a little wine with dinner. But I also will do yoga, journal, meditate or go to the gym. You need effective outlets.
Also OP if you’re working all day and doing most of the chores that’s the other issue. You don’t have an equal partner. You need to balance that back out because you have a bf problem too
Just be thankful no kids involved
Will make things way easier when it’s over
Unless she can explain why it happened this time, she can’t reassure you it won’t happen again.
Please don’t get back together without serious discussions and ongoing therapy.
Fool me once . . . You should tell her to stay gone unless you want to be abandoned again when things get tough.
Well we've both overshared quite alot of stuff. It seams kinda dumb but she seams like a genuinely nice girl who hasn't tried to play any games and has been straight with me.
but if she wanted to hide then why she posted those pictures?
Because you two weren't together at that point and she wouldn't look like the bad guy when obviously there was someone else in the picture long before you two split.
Going through a recent break up here but it was a healthy one. We just weren't compatible with each other.
But my breakup with my first ex was because I found out he was cheating on me with his girl bestfriend. You have every right to be mad and be hurt because of their choices and actions. Break up with her. It might not be easy but think of it as an opportunity to find better, someone you deserve.
He sounds like a dumbass, i feel like he gonna get his ass handed to him one day. You better get full custody lol
Same. Joint account for joint bills and joint expenses like holidays and car repair. Food we take turns buying the weekly shop depending on our paychecks – me the first two weeks of the month, him the last two weeks (I get paid 1st, he gets paid 15th)
The rest stays with our seperate accounts and we spend it on what we like.
If you need any proof that people in this sub are nothing but homewreckers here is the post for it. This guy did nothing wrong to her in the context of the relationship to warrant a breakup. I think the solution here is for her to issue an ultimatum that he eventually pays her back the money not necessarily immediately. Why would she leave someone who makes her happy because of one mishap? Makes no sense
I wouldn't call breath play one step up from vanilla. And he was tough on purpose. He's shown you who he is. Believe him.
Did you confuse it with your own turkey sandwich with a moist maker ?
Don’t do it. If he’ll walk out on one wife he’ll walk out on another. Never mind how much he “loves” you. He doesn’t.
Inform her that she is failing as your life partner. Her behavior is emotionally and physically abusive (by not helping you in an emergency). Love is not a solid reason to tolerate abuse. You deserve a better life partner.
Yea things do change. But I find that men that change their opinions on things once they have daughters are generally shit people. Their mother, sisters, wives weren’t enough for them to see women truly as people. But that’s another topic
Do you even need to hear our advice?
Your bf just told you that he thinks less of you than when he makes you feel talked down to. So that’s him being nice about how little he thinks about you.
Love comes and goes, but that man isn’t really in love.
No one deserves to be with someone who pretends to love them. I say pretend, because if he really thinks those things, he doesn’t think very highly of you, it isn’t very… loving. Let me ask you: do you look down on him, belittle or think low of him? No? Why not? And if he does, he isn’t worth it.
There are plenty fish in the sea.
Calendar reminders for every important day in your relationship (birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc) that have a reminder a week in advance so you can plan something. Google “Spontaneous Romantic Gesture for Wife” or something like that and write down the 20 or so that you like and think your wife would appreciate (examples being buy her flowers, get her favorite chocolates, run her a bubble bath with a lit candle in her favorite scent next to it). Set a reminder in your calendar every 11-15 days (or however often you think would be appropriate). Use Google to roll a d20 (or whatever number of romantic things you wrote down), and then do whatever number it landed on that time so you're mixing it up.
You don't need a special app that's more than a calendar and Google. Just do a little work at these beginning and it'll work fine.
Uh huh. Friends with benefits maybe. Your fooling yourself. Stop being naive
I hyphenated my child last name. That was the only compromise, and it wasn't up for discussion. It was yes or no.
because someone needs to tell you…
might as well ask if you can watch if you’re not gonna stand up for yourself.
Your narrative is baloney. You have grass is always greener syndrome.
This isn’t being your friend. This is being a “nice girl” and what she’s doing is ignoring your very clear “no” and hoping to wear you down. I’d straight up ask her how she would feel if a guy kept harassing her and not taking no for an answer. She’s young, and may not realize the harm in what she’s doing yet, and so if you really do consider her a friend, you need to explain it to her, even at the risk of ending said friendship.
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Get her back to her parents and walk away for her sake. Today.
Same especially if you ruin my bed, mattresses are fucking expensive
Yeah, you're right. We share a child, and i still have to grieve the loss of love, and the good things we had, of which there were many.
You did the right thing. Block this asshole.
I don't know, I've never been in this situation before so I'm really not sure what the right thing to do is. Should I just drop it?
My roommate went through this vetting process with his legitimate wife. They would study everyday for the questions. They would randomly quiz each other, 'what is my favorite toothpaste?, what do I eat for breakfast?, what kind of toilet paper do we us?'
I've been married 15 years and I would probably fail this test.
You think her behavior seems fucked up out of all of this? You convinced this woman to move to a new extremely expensive city,. You completely isolated her from her social and family support systems. You nagged her to get a job, then when she finally got one and had all this excitement for being not just locked in your apt all day and making her money again.. then back to a life of nothing with someone who thinks she should be thankful he's gracious enough to support the partner he moved to a brand new city with where they have no friends or family to turn to.
really dude, you can't understand why this blowing up in her face after the new apt lease and your reaction to her depressive episode made her dysregulated? You can't understand how poorly your words here come out when read?
You're basically like, I emotionally abused this girl during a depressive episode she had because I convinced her to move with me to a new city without giving her time to find a position ready for her when she got there. Then when she found a job and subsequently lost that job and the freedom and purpose it provided you not only shoot down therapy (most therapists have sliding scales for situations like this. My couples therapist charges us $50 a session) you shot It down of course over money, like you couldn't hammer out $100 a month to save the relationship with the woman you love. Or at least look into community based programs that provide services like mental health care. Research it at least not just say it's too expensive.
He always will and I am guessing you have heard every reason in the world why you make him act like this but he is never going to be different and you know that is not what love is about. I thought at the beginning it was amazing to have someone love you so much and then I couldn’t breath anymore he loved me so much – love letters and cards telling me how amazing I am and how wonderful it is to be together and how important it is for him to have met me yet the happy times got smaller and the ‘other’ times got bigger. Walking on eggshells on case you say anything to set him off and you will never know what that will be.
This relationship is over. I wouldn't even be in the same room with her alone after she makes such a wildly false and serious accusation.
I think that the request has less to do with you and more to do with your girlfriend's fears. It sounds like what happened with Susan really scared your girlfriend because both she and Susan were unable to tell that the guy was going to be abusive and then things escalated suddenly and quickly to assault. She might be feeling really anxious about being vulnerable because she doesn't trust her own judgement.
However, her request was inappropriate because it (reasonably) hurt your feelings, and it's not something that you can even resolve. She is the one who needs to go to therapy to work on these fears and regain her confidence in her judgement. She wants the screening and background check because she wants an authority to confirm what she already knows–that you're not abusive–but that would also continue to erode her trust in her own judgement because instead of accepting that she is a good judge of character and what happened with Susan was a fluke, she'll be feeding the narrative that her judgement is not good enough to stand on its own.
It seems like you did everything right in this situation. He may just need some time.
One thing to consider is your BF may hate this other guy, and not actually be friends. I've played on teams where we are all “friends” but in reality individuals had beef with one another.
If I foundout a girl I was seeing had a one night stand with someone I can't stand, I would probably have to break up with them. Imagine if you found out your BF had sex with your highschool bully, its is going to bring up complicated feelings.
Holy shit this is a case if I’ve seen one. The girl has admitted to liking the attention and drama. She has again and again proven she cannot be held to her word and has little integrity. She doesn’t want to put effort into the relationship and like picking fights because she is bored.
You deserve better, give her an ultimatum to either do better or dump her. No one deserves to be played around for someone else’s gratification.
Report yourself to HR for sleeping with a subordinate.
Get fired like you deserve.
Go tell Lyndsey’s boyfriend in person that you were fucking her knowing full well she was in a relationship.
Get your ass beat like you deserve.
Pick up all of Lyndsey’s shit and throw it in your trunk.
WTG! You’ve got new income after deciding to toss yours by fucking someone who was completely off limits.
Go back home with your new roommate and start applying to jobs.
Don’t get hired anywhere you’d want to work because you’re a workplace sexual predator.
Apply at McDonald’s or Taco Bell.
Find out you’re too old to be considered for any place where you have to stand up all day.
Live off of Lynds until she kicks your butt out.
Enjoy your choice to be homeless.
You are. Op will be unhappy with a partner who hates her, not only will her daughter pick up in it she will grow up thinking that this is acceptable Behaviour from a spouse. The daughter will love her father even when he and op divorce
Ok that wasn’t clear originally…sounded like you were saying his reaction was justified because it’s just like he walked in on her cheating.
You just gave us 11 reasons this man isn't right for you. That's a lot. Take your own advice and end this for good. It's natural to miss someone after a breakup, but that doesn't mean you made a mistake or should get back together.
Hahaha WTF? How “not cheating” needs a previous conversation when you're going to marry someone? GTFO with your bullshit. I'm amazed this is even a rational thought.
Responsibly. Follow the golden rule.
I will mosty bang all the acohol of this place then my head before
Get off your high horse karen
You’re just enabling his alcoholism at this point. He might say he loves you, but he loves alcohol more. Why do you think you deserve a sad and frustrating life? How old do you think you will be before you finally leave him?
I met my husband on MySpace almost 16 years ago when we were 19. I was up and couldn’t sleep and he worked nights. He messaged me. We went on a date the next day and the rest is history. . A few years in after we were married, I find out that he had messaged multiple girls that night but I was the one who responded first. I have this amazing life with my husband cause I happened to be the one to respond first. It doesn’t matter how it started, she chose you and still chooses you almost 10 years later. Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s an action. She might have had a crush on this other guy, but she fell in love with you.
Bad people do good things all the time. Doesn't mean they're not bad people.
I have nothing more to say. Her behavior speaks for itself. Good luck.
He didn’t cheat, he betrayed my trust and was an idiot. He was 18/19 and she was crazy manipulative and emotionally abused him. I get it
I flew back to ga to get my stuff like clothes because I decided to stay and wait for him to get out because my life in ga was less than desirable. He wouldn't hurt me. In general i don't actually have anything physical that's too important besides my clothes phone and cat.
That mustard post blew my mind. It was so not about the mustard it was insane!
Fucking awful man sorry
He projecting his own behavior on you. He’s cheating.
I believe there js a way to add links to pictures
She’s a hater
Touché, I will admit that it’s an odd situation. It’s like once in a lifetime odds that you and your brother quit their jobs and goes to South America for 2 months.
I believe that I should settle on more reasonable times like 2-4 weeks and talk it out with her.
My wife is caring, loving, beautiful, talented, everything.
I’m only 23 and I might be kind of immature. I just thought it’d be fun to live more in the moment.
Are you asking for advice on how to stop having a crush?
Then posts pics on every social media platform and tries to sneak her volunteer trips into every convo for the next 2 years.
I had a coworker like this, just absolutely insane and narcissistic. Then she showed up to work basically black out drunk and was fired. I didn’t see her for years, but she came back to work one day to visit. It was such an awkward visit.
She also would try to get people she didn’t like, fired. Very manipulative person. She was scary.
Women have the power when it comes to sexual activities. You're anger should be mostly towards the person responsible for it happening at all.
Yes….he did you wrong, but he couldn't have done it if one small word was said.
She was lying to you and had an affair. Even if you were ok with poly relationship with her friend in these circumstances it's a recipe for disaster. If you validate her cheating, she will feel free to cheat again.
If you consider getting back with her you should ask your wife to come clean with everything. Explain that since she has cheated and lied to you, you can't really believe any of her words and her fidelity.
Whether you can be poly sime time in the future is one thing, the fact that she needs to ends her relationship with her friend is another. Keep in mind, I mean entire relationship. You can't trust to be platonic friends with her can you?
Maybe after a year of proper fidelity you can come back to polyamory question.
What does that actual mean to you? Would you treat you dead wife in this manner? You're treating this woman horribly.
It’s from rug burn and it’s very painful l, it’s happened to me and I’ll never have sex on carpet again. Suggest a romantic night , movie night. My friends pull their mattress downstairs watch a movie, dinner in bed lol and sec. and they sleep down there too. Or get a futon that can be pulled out. You just have to think outside the box how to help her feel comfortable
NGL, my first thought was getting you to pay was her plan the whole time, and you didn't take the bait. Whether it was malicious or not, she is now attempting to emotionally blackmail you by “being pissy” for a week. Cut her loose.
Trust me. You'd rather be single than trapping yourself in a sinking ship. One of these will result in temporary sadness folloeed by healing. The other is permanent sadness, that is if it lasts in the first place. That's too much resentment for a person to handle.
Just the tip… of the ice berg.
You don't deserve abuse, but you can do better. Hopefully you learn from it. If you are unsure what to do,do nothing now.Tske your time before you make a move.
I would assume it's a case of waiting until the right time, realising you iffy it too late and then feeling to ashamed to say anything and just putting it off until shit hits the fan.
But “she doesn’t want to break up a family”!
She may have cheated with him for the entire duration of their relationship and let the wife build a family and deep rooted trust with him but God forbid she ever want to break up a family!
I confronted her this morning via text and she says she has nothing to say and feels terrible, and deserves to be dumped for it.
That about sums it up.
Can you cut to the chase for us search-challenged redditor's? what's up?
Keep the dog. It's unfair for your bf to give you this ultimatum. Your dog isn't a normal gift, she's a living breathing creature who loves and needs you and your bf's an ah for wanting you to abandon her just so he can feel more superior to your toxic ex. You've only been with him a year and he's already acting controlling towards you.
Your girl “friend” tricked you into thinking Saturday was your birthday to get you to attend an event she was going to, and then your girl “friend” requested to spend the night at your place…?
You don't see the red flag there? Why do you think your girl “friend” went out of her way to trick you into a situation where your actual girlfriend (if you're exclusive) wasn't present?
I would see her getting her things as a sign she wasn't willing to put up with that kind of shit, not an insecurity. I know I would've done the same thing, personally. Your own boundaries are the issue here, not her insecurities…as this doesn't seem like insecurities, it seems like a full stop.
Because the “story” is fake BS and made to fuel the exact narrative you are also putting forward here.
Time to change the locks. Keep going about your business and and plans as they currently are
He knows what he’s doing. You don’t have to excuse his behavior, he’s completely aware he’s making you uncomfortable. He likes that. I’ve crossed paths with many guys like him working in male dominated fields. What I’ve learned is that they believe they can “break you down” and that eventually you’ll give in to hanging out and whatever else.
The only way to get the point across is to be very stern, ignore him completely when he makes comments (stop the jokes and making light of the situation, giving him any response is what he wants), only speak to him when it pertains to work, remove him on social media and make your accounts private, if he attempts to questions you about it say “we are co-workers and professionals, that is the only setting in which I’ll communicate with you.” And if he still doesn’t let up you have to report him.
You may be able to get through this but imagine the next girl he does this to, she might not be so lucky as to set it aside and she could end up hurt. What you’d be doing is not just beneficial for your safety but the safety of other women. We gotta look out for each other.
Something tells me your husband isn’t who you think he is. He proposed after one year after bombarding you with love THEN told you about his kids. I think he’s waiting for you to finish college and have you to himself 24/7 before showing you completely who he really is and I don’t think that’s going to end very well. I suggest researching him more, asking the important questions and ultimately doing what you think is best for yourself
Exactly, I will give you her number so you can help her
It’s all about reassurance. When my fiancé and I got together he used to make jokes about having a skinny member. It quickly became apparent that he did not, well above average length and a really good girth also above average. I later found out, over 10 years ago someone made a comment to him when he was a teenager and he never got over it and then had the mind set it was skinny. This small comment had affected him all this time.
It took about 3/4 months but he stopped making jokes about it as I kept reassure him and saying things like ‘if it’s skinny, how come I can’t get my hand to close round it?’ Or ‘you’re so big, think we need more lube’ both of these things were true so I never lied to him. Eventually one day after coming out the shower he went ‘it’s actually not skinny, is it?’ And we both kind of laughed and that was it
This was helpful. It’s true, he’ll never get help. I don’t need his toxicity controlling my life or impacting my child.
This. All of this.
I’ve been through almost the exact situation. My ex was having car trouble and as I was off work for a bit, she took my car to work and I took hers to the shop. Before dropping her car off, i made sure to check the console and glove box to make sure nothing of value was left. That’s where I found lingerie and a box of condoms with a few missing. I confronted her of course and of course, she denied it. Had some really wild stories to explain it all. I knew it was bullshit. A few days later, I awoke in the middle of the night and had to pee. On my way to the bathroom, I saw her cell phone on the end table in the living room. I was curious…so I picked it up and went to the text messages. That’s where I found very explicit messages from her married coworker. I called her coworkers house later that day and got his wife. I explained who I was and what I found. No clue what happened there but I went scorched earth. All this to say, where there’s smoke, there’s almost always fire.
u/Silva2099 yes I will talk to her again and try to tell everything I can, I only hope she notices it too.
I don’t have to be right, I never made any assertions.
Electricity can also bleed to the lampshade.
This must bu very hard. Shame is a miserable emotion. Your lack of intimacy, physical,separation, and approach to your relationship issues are painful and may not improve.
If I understand your post correctly, you understand some law basics. Time for a legal separation.
Do not commingle finances or move in together. .
Do not be blackmailed. If she tries to blackmail you, go no contact. Divorce is not my go to solution, but it is a strong possibility. You marriage is making you both unhappy.
I seriously recommend reading a book called Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft . Ur is a guide to how domestic abusers think and the signs you are in a relationship with an abuser .It's readily available as an ebook or free download. There are usually free phone services you can access who will offer you free no judgement advice as well
I seriously recommend reading a book called Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft . Ur is a guide to how domestic abusers think and the signs you are in a relationship with an abuser .It's readily available as an ebook or free download. There are usually free phone services you can access who will offer you free no judgement advice as well
Why the fuck post on relationship advice if you’re going to be rude to everyone giving you advice
when you say you still have non penetrative sex, do you make an effort to get her off via oral or is it just kissing/she goes down on you? she will probably never want to have vaginal sex again because it is extremely painful for her. do you attempt to make non vaginal sex exciting for her or do you just make her feel bad for not wanting to have vaginal sex?
That’s a solid nope from me. I’ve always struggled with my weight so being with someone who treated me poorly while I was actively trying to better myself…just…no.
“But honestly anytime I question him about anything he gets mad.” Let’s drill down into this a bit more because that is a waving red flag. If you calmly tell him something he did or said hurt your feelings, how does he react? Does he immediately get angry and defensive instead of apologize?
Why is this even a question? They’ve kissed. They like each other but are suppressing their feelings which will only increase with more alone time and intimate situations. You’re correct in that it’s up to him on what he decides but if your boundaries are crossed or if you’re not comfortable with this then he should respect your feelings. Respect and honesty are the bedrock of a good relationship.
Divorce him and get therapy
Right like the friend said he was going to report the assault to the police if the boyfriend told OP, but he just let him walk away with his journals.
I was just giving an example. I think all of us have a threshold of something that would shock us.
This is a blessing. ?and don’t think otherwise. It’s not about you at all. It’s all about his ability to control her and the kick he gets out of it. She will end relationship after relationship bc of him. When she’s older and still single and reflecting on prior relationships trying to figure out why things never work out she’s going to snap out of it and realize what has happened and how wrong she was.
Do you know how many women in my day that put their husband through medical school to have him leave and get nothing from it. You are 20 years old, do not sugar daddy any guy in college. He is a grown man he’s even older than you are. So I would tell him no sugar daddy you have your own journey, but you would be more than happy to have a relationship with him.
What was his reaction when she did that? Did he stick up for you against his mom or did he tell you it’s not that big of a deal?
Read about someone who stank no matter what and the only thing that worked was dove deodorant.
Say nothing. You have to prepare yourself and get a new job.
I was in a job with the most experience in my division. I asked for. Salary adjustment. I was told by a former manager if you want to make what others are making in our field you basically have to leave the company. There is nothing that will on paper justify them giving you that kind of huge increase unless you get a huge promotion. So I left.
Btw. They will probably make a miserly counter offer. Don’t take it!!! If you stay they know you are not a loyal employee- even though you are not loyal to you…
Well when you date a kid what do you expect? Someone with the same amount of money and in the same place in life? If you want to date a man maybe stop going after teens.
To him. Yes, you are asking too much. He wants a mother/maid/babysitter, not a partner.
You didn’t even talk to him???
You were in the wrong, and you need to be very, very sorry. Ask him to talk and apologize, admit you were wrong. Talk about what you should have done, which is tell him about her messages and move forward together. Assure him something like this would never happen again
She says his gums bleed when he brushes his teeth even gently. Possibly that’s why he avoids doing it at all. In fact, he needs to brush more frequently and more thoroughly because he has gingivitis.
How these people respond tells you everything about their own issues with weight.