You failed a female 'Crap Test' you didn't know you were taking…
This is VERY common, those irrational shit tests where you are the asshole no matter what you answer…
If you say abortion, then you get crap for being anti-kids, you answer keep the kid, you are controlling and forcing her to have a baby she doesn't want.
It's not what YOU think it is… you are exploring options, trying to think it through logically, pick the best options… To solve problems, fix issues.
She's overthinking everything, there isn't a 'Right' answer, and anything/everything will be someone else's fault…
Here is something to think about, do any of her fiends have babies recently? Maybe it was wishful thinking rather than a pregnancy scare… Or it was a shit test outright.
Baby Brain is VERY real. Their friends/family members get pregnant, the woman gets TONS of attention, suddenly they want a baby… For the wrong reasons, the attention…
He isn't ready to tackle his issue yet. No amount of pestering will do that. You have to wait for him to start acting right but until he does, wich might be never, you have to protect yourself. He will continue to lie, steal and waste money on his addiction. To protect yourself, you have to separate and divorce him. He can destroy your life in the same swoop as he does his. Think about the potential financial repercussions: jobloss, maxed out creditcards, maybe even in your name, remortaged home, eviction. You do not want to be liable for his debt and don't get me started on the emotional suffering you will go through.
'In sickness and in health' should only apply if both are willing to pull that cart, right now he is dead weight.
I'm so sorry the person you married went down the toilet.
He doesn’t think they’re a problem. He says I don’t know everything and I’m just assuming. Also that the problems we are having is because I react poorly to him. There’s no convincing this guy that he’s making bad decisions.
You failed a female 'Crap Test' you didn't know you were taking…
This is VERY common, those irrational shit tests where you are the asshole no matter what you answer…
If you say abortion, then you get crap for being anti-kids, you answer keep the kid, you are controlling and forcing her to have a baby she doesn't want.
It's not what YOU think it is… you are exploring options, trying to think it through logically, pick the best options… To solve problems, fix issues.
She's overthinking everything, there isn't a 'Right' answer, and anything/everything will be someone else's fault…
Here is something to think about, do any of her fiends have babies recently? Maybe it was wishful thinking rather than a pregnancy scare… Or it was a shit test outright.
Baby Brain is VERY real. Their friends/family members get pregnant, the woman gets TONS of attention, suddenly they want a baby… For the wrong reasons, the attention…
Just something to think about…
Hi, I graduated high school in 2021. That is absolutely not the case anymore. Seniors who date freshmen are creepy as fuck.
Oh jack and your fiance are getting dirty, honey.
He isn't ready to tackle his issue yet. No amount of pestering will do that. You have to wait for him to start acting right but until he does, wich might be never, you have to protect yourself. He will continue to lie, steal and waste money on his addiction. To protect yourself, you have to separate and divorce him. He can destroy your life in the same swoop as he does his. Think about the potential financial repercussions: jobloss, maxed out creditcards, maybe even in your name, remortaged home, eviction. You do not want to be liable for his debt and don't get me started on the emotional suffering you will go through.
'In sickness and in health' should only apply if both are willing to pull that cart, right now he is dead weight.
I'm so sorry the person you married went down the toilet.
He doesn’t think they’re a problem. He says I don’t know everything and I’m just assuming. Also that the problems we are having is because I react poorly to him. There’s no convincing this guy that he’s making bad decisions.
Ask stupid questions…be a stupid person.
You’re literally surveilling what tweets she likes. This is deranged behaviour.
I enjoy reading dystopian future novels where people worship a god-emperor, but that doesn’t mean I’m interested in a fascist feudalist theocracy.
This is really just on you.