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Date: October 20, 2022

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Agreed with this. My ex wife had an affair which I discovered through sleuthing (legally) that included going through her phone once I was 99% sure what I would find. This was something I had never done in over a decade of us being together.

I started dating a new girl during my divorce, and about 6 months in, I got a weird feeling and went through her phone one night. I did find that she was hiding that she was spending time with her ex (which I had said was ok and she had said wasn't, so she wasn't violating a boundary I had set).

My reaction was to talk with her about it, then get myself into therapy. Because clearly I still had unresolved trust issues. She had given me zero reason not to trust her, and I genuinely believe she would have told me about it when timing was better (was dealing with frivolous lawsuits from my ex). And we established some healthy boundaries that everyone is comfortable with.

But the fact that I defaulted back to not trusting someone was my trauma to deal with, not hers. And she has told me she's happy to share her phone with me if I would like to see it, just please ask first. But I've told her if I ever feel like that, I'll just ask her questions directly like a normal, healthy relationship. Reading someone else's messages isn't ok unless they share them with you or you're 99% sure something is wrong IMO.

You can't trust her. She did it already. If you stick around you are condoning it.

Well, in her defense she has been forced fed a bunch of stuff about how Susan’s ex was “completely normal”. It must be scary af for her.

This of course does not excuse her for accusing you of being a threat. That would crush any person who thought they were trusted.

Ironically, the controlling behavior that Susan’s ex displayed is exactly what your ex is beginning to. Demanding you to go to therapy and conduct a background check, without you ever causing any harm to neither yourself nor your surroundings.

Hopefully, your gf will calm down and apologize. The trust you’ve felt has been severely damaged, but it can be rebuilt. People become irrational when afraid.

Oh OP.

You kept reposting the same posts because you didn't get a more favorable responses b4?

You ask if she's a bad person, but you practically wrote reddit an argumentative essay about why she is. Rightfully so, but regardless. In other words, it sounds like you already know she's a bad person. Why ask reddit?