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Keep me happy [310 tokens remaining]
Date: October 9, 2022
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He says you're brainwashed, but he's the one who drank the Kool-Aid. Is this someone you want to spend your life with?
LOL wow, she took it to the extreme. that's like Charlotte from sex in the city, the rabbit episode ?
My question May Sound stupid but it is relevant.
Did you ever Tell him you don't want him to habe auch content? Die you ever Tell him that being with you would mean he had to delete things from his past?
And now I'm getting into why it's so relevant:
Most relationships struggle with one simple thing: unfullfilled expectations due to a lack of communication. From your perspective this May be crystal clear and obvious – maybe it's not for him. Talk about what exactly are the committments in your relationship and be clear about what you expect.
Then there are clear boundaries. If he crosses them you are able to confront him.
Anyway, I know how much you have been hurt. I would try to talk it out with him. It takes a price, I know that. If you feel Like he is still into his ex you should think about leaving him.
I feel like it’s weird that he has been in other woman’s vaginas. That feels very dirty to me. I know that sounds bad but I don’t want him to touch me for that reason and I hate thinking that way.
He told you what he needs, you don’t like the answer.
Didn't say you did, just mentioning it in the context of the conversation.
Didn't say you did, just mentioning it in the context of the conversation.
I don’t blame you for feeling angry.
Neither that co worker or your gf did a damn thing to put any temptation in check when it all first started. In life, there is always going to be unexpected temptations, loyal faithful people learn how to spot the signs and immediately stomp it out. These two clowns went ahead and took to complaining to each other about you and his wife, escalated to texting off work hours and personal, to allowing this to develop full bloom. And now their ingenious plan was to confess this to you and his wife because they have some kind of romanticized ideology that it will better their relationship with spouse and bf? Life is not that simple and that’s almost as stupid as folks who think opening the relationship or taking breaks will fix things.
Yeah, I am sure you and his wife feel sooo much better and stronger in your relationships now that these two clown shoes came forward and shared just how much they really suck at maintaining boundaries and stave off temptation. This is the huge concern right here really. What about the next temptation, and the one after that that comes her way?
If there is even a little chance of fixing this,she or he will need a new place to work. She will need to learn not only how to set boundaries, and not allow anyone to to cross lines with her, but how to spot temptation and squash it, as well as not putting herself in situations like this. I am not sure you could ever be confident that she can do that.
Advice?
Be the “bad guy” and explicitly state “I'm covering the bill for people I invited!”
You don’t have a drug problem to tackle head on! You saw a person who needed to fix themselves and decided your penis would change her. It won’t! This is very sad.
Fine, deflect with snarkiness, and do what you want. I doubt you'll come back to admit it all went to shit anyway.
Your husband has told you his boundary on this issue.
You are not going to change his mind.
So you need to chose.
Your friend, who is a complete idiot, and should have left him while he was in hospital, or your husband.
Unfortunately for you neither option is easy, or straightforward.
He’s the unreasonable one! Red flag! Take your cat and go. You’re a package deal and that’s it. You’ve made it clear from the beginning. If wants the cat to leave he wants you to leave, too.
His wife could have died, his infant daughter could have died – op is very much TA
This just means she's been sleeping with multiple men throughout 10 years
Have the freaking conversation. Is anyone trying? You can’t try or do better if one spouse doesn’t know the other spouse isn’t happy. You don’t have to shared interests just talk about them with each other. The kids are grown that when the fun begins with travel, bars, festivals, cuddle, binge watch shows together. What have you been doing the last couple of years? Who’s the homebody?