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Date: December 12, 2022
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This is very strange that he still talks with his ex while he is with you. Let me give you some advice as you are really young. If I were you I would set a boundary and explain to him how you feel about him texting his ex. Believe me when I say he will go as far as he can get away with if he feels that he can take advantage of you. Same thing happen to me when one of my girlfriend would talk to her one night stands. Look, if he doesn't respect your boundaries, he just doesn't like you or you are a rebound and its up to you if you want to leave him or not. But yes I don't feel like he should be talking to his ex specially if she wants to get back with him.
Congratulations! I’m so happy for you. It sounds like you are doing great. My advice would just be to keep being awesome. You got this!
You do what you feel is appropriate. You are, after all, the host.
He seems like a sick person, you might need help and also revealing intimate pictures without authorization is a crime, tell him you will file a complaint to the police and lawyer, that his actions will have consequences.
Call police and fuck the hell out of there. And never talk to him ever again. He could be danger to your life.
You already answered your own question. Dont second guess your self. Kick him out of your place. He is emotionally abusive. Please do not stay with him.
Yeah I just don't want to say something wrong and make things worse because as far as I know he didn't take our breakup very well (I forgot to mention this in the original post) but yeah I think I should text and be in touch.
Why do you want me to get out so fast 😉
Sometimes it takes people a long time to get over it, and sometimes they just don't. No matter how hard you try to make it work, he broke something and it sounds like it did permanent damage. 🙁
So it’s been almost a year and you still talk about it ? Feels like you won’t be able to move on from it
Of course. You are so welcome!
I’m sure someday things could change or take an unexpected turn. Until then, I’m glad you’re okay with the prospect of nothing happening in the meantime. (I’m one of those people who tries not to get my hopes up for anything haha, so I’m like until it happens I’m not getting excited)
Just know that if it doesn’t, you’ll definitely find someone closer to you who is willing to invest in a relationship and will give you the love and happiness you deserve. 🙂
I know. It just sucks thinking about it too much. I'm torn if i'm gonna go w the flow, check if we really vibe or just completely cut it off knowing that maybe i do wanna get married in 3-5 years and he just graduated from college.
Any chance your wife is suffering from a brain tumor or something? It could always be that, if this is really sudden and out of character.
Have you ever thought about someone you’ve liked while masturbating?
Get couples counceling – this is something you'll hardly solve on your own. Trust your instincts and also trust a ten year long happy relationship. Don't throw away what you have lightly because some people from Reddit tell you to do so.
Contrary to the general advice I wouldn't recommend breaking up with her right away. Yes she cheated. And allthough this feels like a very fresh betrayal to you: It was ten years ago. She also didn't lie to you – except if you ever asked her if she cheated on you and she said No. But according to your post she came clean right away when you asked her. That is a difference even when people here try to tell you otherwise.
Tbh. I'm with a lot of couples coucelors on this one: If you cheated and truly regret it and never will do it again and it is very unlikely that it will ever come out: Take it to your grave. This is your guilt, live with it but don't ruin your partners life with it.
What you should ask yourself is: Why did this guy come forward now, after TEN YEARS! That is not guilt. This is an attempt to destroy your marriage. Why, after ten years? That takes a lot of work to find the person he had an affair with ten years ago. Also: Anyone with two brain cells would come to the conclusion that you either know what happened back then and reconciled with your then girlfriend or that you don't know but are in a happy relationship with your now wife that they only will bring down.
She is accusing me of cheating on my current SO by saying that I was single. Let me just say I have never so much as seen this girl naked, let alone actually cheat. I was going to block her when she messaged me again but I was depressed after getting some bad news and definitely talked way more than I should have. I could see how my current SO could feel I cheated by lying about my relationship status and continuing to talk with her. I know I messed up but I didn’t cheat.
“Babe, I’ve been doing something I’m not proud of and I want to be honest about. I love you and I want this relationship to be my forever relationship. Unfortunately, I’ve never orgasmed. I was embarrassed about it and faked it every time. I’m really sorry—this wasn’t honest of me. However, I’ve never even orgasmed on my own. I do enjoy sex, but as I’m getting older I realize I want to actually orgasm. I’m wondering if you’re willing to help me figure this out? I know I also need to try on my own. If we can’t figure it out are you willing to go to a sex therapist with me? Again, I’m sorry I basically lied to you—it was immature and I was embarrassed. I hope we can figure it out together—and have fun trying.”
the issue isn’t with them hooking up… it’s with the fact that my friend is posting something that seems like a sub right after we had a conversation about it. also it’s perfectly normal to want to know who your partner has been with? my boyfriend wanted to know my history so i told him. anyways you obviously don’t understand my point of view here so i suggest you pick your battles and just move on instead of being rude thanks
This. ^
Get out of this relationship asap but ensure you delete all the videos first. And any back up copies he has!
It’s really shitty to listen to someone’s therapy session. How is dude supposed to ever feel safe getting help if he’s not even granted basic privacy? Fucked up.
You're 26…
Oh my god.
Cut your hair, take a shower, and move out of Mommy's house!
Not sure where you live. But where I live, there’s an agency that works with victims of domestic violence. They have counseling to support you whether you decide to stay or leave him. For those who decide to leave, they have a shelter where women can live and connect with others in the same situation as they try to make a fresh start. Maybe there’s a group like this in your community. If there’s a safe time for you to find out, I’d look for them and reach out.
I would love to see this post
Just because you said you weren’t sleeping with anyone else doesn’t mean she’s not going to. It doesn’t work like that. She brushed it off because she was uncomfortable that you said that. You weren’t dating, you really shouldn’t be upset. Until you are exclusive, it’s really none of your business if she’s sleeping with other people.
You’re in your 30s. She’s halfway to 40. We literally just drop all these made up rules because we realize we can do whatever tf we want and we don’t have to wait around for someone to be ready to date us.
If someone doesn’t want someone they just met to sleep with anyone else while they are going on dates, but not exclusive, that needs to be communicated. You can’t make up rules she doesn’t know about, then get upset she isn’t the perfect, celibate woman you made up in your head.
What a childish way to think.
It’s also really horrible to say to someone that they will always be second to someone who is dead. Regardless if that’s how you feel, out of respect you don’t say that. Yikes!
She’s not attracted to you any more. The new relationship energy faded. You guys are young. Move on.
You two seem to be toxic people, having toxic behavior and making toxic choices regarding oneanother. You don't even seem to behave like a person your age, more like a 15 year old or something.
If I was you, I would accept a break up and start working on myself.
I mean that's exactly what I'm trying to figure out.They're shameful of sexuality, they want to force you to birth children, and they have no respect for women in general
She doesn't want to be involved with either your husband nor with you. I would leave her alone.
If you are suspicious of your husband, then talk to him, not her.
My limited knowledge opinion tells me this is more temporary for her than you.