Dating other people is one way to get your mind off an ex. I get it, you still want to remain friends, and that's OK, but you have to terminate your romantic interest in her. And finding someone else that you really dig is a great way to do that. Don't just take up with the first available person but find someone you really like.
Sounds like you have depression and that the LDR is part of the problem. It’s taxing to emotionally connect and depend on someone, but then go long periods with out them. Ending the LDR and reconnecting to yourself and your needs and finding reliable consistent relationships close by is probably the long term solution. How to get there, whether either therapy, meds, working to build a better social support network near by, moving to the same place as your partner or them moving to you, is up to you.
STOP going on about this gym membership. The details and the past don’t matter. Remove your credit card from her account. Or remove it from both your accounts and put only your account on a different card if you’re worried about the gym charging you for both. I would seek a restraining order against her if you have any grounds at all to do so, and then the onus would be on her to avoid you. Cut her off and never engage with her again.
Ive had a child go thru the system and then back to my care. Everything has to go thru the courts and it never happens in a week. Im not saying shes outright lying it just doesnt seem like the whole story to me.
We've argued about it. The times he gets mad, and he gets snappy, I've snapped back and told him to initiate or “show me you want it.” But we've had talks too, problem is he is very stubborn and doesn't really see how this area is a huge one that needs improvement.
I’d first be asking that if you were holding a friends phone, and so chick was texting and your wife saw, how would she react? Would she sleep on the couch?
You're two grown adults that won't “allow” or need permission to be independent from each other. Does that sound like a healthy relationship?
If you’re not going to shower everyday, at least wash the important parts. I would aim to shower at least every other day.
She says he doesn't really post much, so, no.
Dating other people is one way to get your mind off an ex. I get it, you still want to remain friends, and that's OK, but you have to terminate your romantic interest in her. And finding someone else that you really dig is a great way to do that. Don't just take up with the first available person but find someone you really like.
Sounds like you have depression and that the LDR is part of the problem. It’s taxing to emotionally connect and depend on someone, but then go long periods with out them. Ending the LDR and reconnecting to yourself and your needs and finding reliable consistent relationships close by is probably the long term solution. How to get there, whether either therapy, meds, working to build a better social support network near by, moving to the same place as your partner or them moving to you, is up to you.
Did you cheat on him? Your post doesn’t say whether you have or not.
I am.
STOP going on about this gym membership. The details and the past don’t matter. Remove your credit card from her account. Or remove it from both your accounts and put only your account on a different card if you’re worried about the gym charging you for both. I would seek a restraining order against her if you have any grounds at all to do so, and then the onus would be on her to avoid you. Cut her off and never engage with her again.
Ive had a child go thru the system and then back to my care. Everything has to go thru the courts and it never happens in a week. Im not saying shes outright lying it just doesnt seem like the whole story to me.
We've argued about it. The times he gets mad, and he gets snappy, I've snapped back and told him to initiate or “show me you want it.” But we've had talks too, problem is he is very stubborn and doesn't really see how this area is a huge one that needs improvement.
That's cool! I wonder what would be the next game he suggests 3 AM
Among other things. I’m sure his missionary sex once a month on a full moon will be fun!
I’d first be asking that if you were holding a friends phone, and so chick was texting and your wife saw, how would she react? Would she sleep on the couch?