Yeah, she's been emotionally abused and is looking to see if this is new behavior on the boyfriends part or if this is a pattern of behavior for him. Telling him about it is a step in the right direction because now he knows that someone else knows what he's been doing to her, and that is how she can protect herself until she can get out completely.
I do always make her a priority. I sacrifice time with friends and to myself to see her every weekend. Often buy her spontaneous gifts to make her feel special.
But whenever I can’t pull through in some situations because of extraneous circumstances, she gets pouty and acts like she forgot all that I’ve ever done for her
Imagine how exhausting it will be for the rest of your life having to pat him on the head every time he acts like an adult. And I bet he doesn't take time to notice all of the little (or big) things you do for him.
Call the cops. Get a paper trail started. Get in touch with local domestic violence hotlines or support groups. They can help with networking or connecting to other organizations that can assist.
OP, has the thought occured to you that maybe, juuuust maybe, your wife doesn't respect you because you let her walk all over you?! Why should she respect you? She can do whatever you want and you'll apparently acquiesce to her whims and demands!
Of course it’s cheating! How are you even asking this?
Yeah, she's been emotionally abused and is looking to see if this is new behavior on the boyfriends part or if this is a pattern of behavior for him. Telling him about it is a step in the right direction because now he knows that someone else knows what he's been doing to her, and that is how she can protect herself until she can get out completely.
Because she doesn’t want to marry him she just wants to be married.
I do always make her a priority. I sacrifice time with friends and to myself to see her every weekend. Often buy her spontaneous gifts to make her feel special.
But whenever I can’t pull through in some situations because of extraneous circumstances, she gets pouty and acts like she forgot all that I’ve ever done for her
Imagine how exhausting it will be for the rest of your life having to pat him on the head every time he acts like an adult. And I bet he doesn't take time to notice all of the little (or big) things you do for him.
You wouldnt be an asshole, I wouldnt watch someone I love kill themselves either.
Call the cops. Get a paper trail started. Get in touch with local domestic violence hotlines or support groups. They can help with networking or connecting to other organizations that can assist.
OP, has the thought occured to you that maybe, juuuust maybe, your wife doesn't respect you because you let her walk all over you?! Why should she respect you? She can do whatever you want and you'll apparently acquiesce to her whims and demands!
If your sex life is good otherwise I wouldn't get too hung up on this.