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1. Im a pushover so even tho I dont want this I feel like his mom and dad getting in my face will make me rethink things because I would feel like I had to keep it for them.

   You're going to limit your entire future for people you barely know, if you do that.

   Your life will never be the same again.

   Don't tell them when or where you're getting the abortion. Tell them after it's done.

   If you need to lie to them in the meantime, do it. They don't own your body. You owe them nothing here.

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2. Side chick or not, this is the type of relationship you want?? Hmmm

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3. Go to the damn party, let insults roll off your back, and stop being a baby about this. Support your wife! She doesn't want a big family estrangement.

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4. Seems very risky to me. I think the most I would even consider doing is saying, “Let me know if you'd ever like to hang out sometime” and leave the ball in her court to ask for your number if she's interested. If she has half a brain, she'll understand that a store employee can't just openly hit on customers or hand their phone number to them.

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5. To sum it up: Meet Amber, ask her our and she says no. Still stay friends and don't pursue any romance ever again. Amber's new BF hates you because you asked her out in the past. Meet Cara. Ask her out and she says yes but I am ending my relationship and getting divorced. Meet friend Lynn and she asks you out but you are in a “its complicated” with Cara. Tell Lynn no but stay friends. Cara has some personal issues and dating doesn't work out. You begin to date Lynn. Now Amber wants you to come hang out with her and her BF that hates you, so you setup a dinner that you will pay for. 2 days before the dinner, BF that hates you texts that he hates you always will. You say “Gee Amber, dinner with someone who hates me seems like no fun, I'm going to have dinner with just Lynn.” Now Amber is mad at you.

   Amber needs to grow up. BF that hates you doesn't want to hang out with you, so don't try. No matter what you do he will always interpret it in the worst possible way, because he hates you. You can be friends with Amber or not, but stop letting her force you and her BF that hates you together.

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6. Yeah I felt the same way. At the time I thought since I didn't put out that's why he ghosted ? but I always wondered “what if” and now that I'm not seeing anyone I've just been thinking about things

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7. You need to tell him.

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8. To be honest, I'm not optimistic that you'll get any change out of him. But it's worth a shot.

   I'm basing that prediction off the common stereotype of how many lazy manchilds there are out there and the likelihood that you're with one. But I don't know him or the specifics of your situation so there's always a chance.

   But you may want to prepare yourself for the possibility that he simply doesn't see a need to lift a finger to do anything differently, ever. And prepare yourself to recognize if/when that quality of his becomes certain, and brace yourself as to what kind of decision you want to make with that knowledge.

   Or, maybe you'll get through and he'll have an epiphany.

   Oh! I have more advice I forgot to mention: Body language, focus, and attention.

   When you have this conversation, look him in the eye, facing him with your entire body, and speak calmly and clearly. No background TV or messing with a phone. “I need your full attention for a few minutes to talk about something. If not right now, can we schedule a time later, like perhaps 6pm tonight?” or something.

   Make sure you have the full attention for this conversation.

   My Aunt and Uncle have a happy marriage but there was one tiny thing he was doing that bothered her, something to do with the radio in the car, I forget the exact details, but the point was she would ask, he would say sure, but then he wouldn't ever actually do it. She'd drop it until it bothered her too much and she'd ask again, and the cycle just kept repeating.

   To break the cycle, she got his full attention and really had that heart-to-heart of “this matters to me” and he finally got the message and actually put effort into adjusting his habits for her. Because after all he loved her and didn't want her to be upset… mostly he just didn't get that 'vibe' that she was actually as upset as she actually was…because she kept dropping it.

   Above all you need to communicate that this is hurting you, not just at the time you're talking about it, but constantly. He either cares about not hurting you or he doesn't. That will show you what type of man he is and his opinion about your relationship and you. But you really gotta drive home the actual problem and that it's bigger than he's treating it. Even though the original problem itself is (relatively) small, the dismissal of the problem is the new problem that's the big problem.

   (And don't forget, you're a team vs the problem. Not you vs him. But he has to show he's joining that team.)

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