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So in other words, you haven’t.
Those sound perfect, well done and thought out.
Wrong. As the poster you replied to wrote, he was clear from the beginning. When someone embarks on some project to change the other person's mind as their own personal project but they are not clear about what they want, it is not about “he thought he could change her mind”. There's no need to change the story and try to change very clearly written words to shift a narrative.
How can I best approach her without it coming off standoff-ish?
You don't. Instead, you stop interacting with her altogether. You stop letting her speak to you. Stop letting her humiliate you. She enjoys seeing you down. So give her nothing.
I read all of your other posts; and stopped at this one and said… okay I have to comment now for the safety of this girl.
And get an abortion
Stay calm and think carefully. When people get upset they say things which they don’t mean to. Do you love him? Does he love you? Was that the first time him saying you all these hurtful things? First talk to him, then to see a couple counseling. Please don’t do anything with an anger and sadness. You sound like a wonderful person and I m sure you will come to the best conclusion for your future.
Your marriage is over. Your husband is a piece of shit and is trying to move onto another relationship before he ends the one with you. You need to stop trying to salvage this and realize that it’s not this woman’s fault. Get divorced and find new happiness.
No.
That letter is batshit crazy. Just stop.
You're not happy that they are together. That's OK. Sit with it and then move on with your life.
Idk what are you trying to achieve here. If OP is bilingual, and her boyfriend is a foreigner who speaks the native language as a second language, the boyfriend may have hard time with native speakers.
You’re certainly not reading what I was saying. Being intimate is off limits. But meeting a friend 1 on 1 doesn’t suggest any form of intimacy.
Ofc you don’t have to be ok with your partner having female friends, that’s a you thing. But I will still say it’s because of insecurity. 🙂
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he broke it off
This “man” needs to be a part of your past as well. I know it's easier said than done, but you are still in an abusive cycle and you need to leave him. He doesn't respect your boundaries and he is manipulating you into questioning your own sanity.
About the condoms though, it is not about inconvenience, he felt insulted because we are married and I have IUD. He is very careful with protection because I know that he is scared of diseases.
And about me getting more action, he should be very assured that I’m not. It took me months to even accept the idea and he seems to have a few. He is home late 1-2 times a week at least.
I have discussed mid life crisis in the beginning when he suggested but he dismissed it and I believed him because he was happier the first period of our marriage. Now he dismisses it because “he just misses me” whatever that means.
I’m happy with what we have now. I don’t know what to do to make him happy
There will be people who will find your emotions to be a weakness… these are not your people and you should leave those people alone to their bullshit.
The one thing that I wished my partners would do was be emotionally vulnerable with me. I've dated many a macho guy who thought emotions were for women or weaklings and they always put up a wall that I could not get through, no matter how hard I tried. It got to a point where I checked out because it was too much.
If a man is vulnerable enough to show his emotions, I take is as a sign that he trusts me enough to lower his walls ans show me his whole self.
A woman who cares about you as a person, will not think you're weak for it.
And just so you know, women like to be protectors too.. especially of the people we love.
It’s been 6 years man. You are both in your 30’s. If that’s what she wants and you don’t, stop wasting her time.
I don't do anything to them. I give them a ride and talk to them.
But he’s not gonna be when he realizes that he’s going to marry someone who is doing something he didn’t sign up for. Stop assuming they are happy—he doesn’t deserve to get lied too, you should let him know what he’s dealing with at the very least.
Love is not always enough.
Ikr! When abusers disguise abuse as “juSt jOkinG” or “juSt spEakinG bLuntLy” or wtf ever gaslighting shite + When abusers play the victim & guilt the actual victim into feeling guilty and apologising to the abuser – for NOT ACCEPTING & TOLERATING THE ABUSE.
OP, do NOT apologise. Block her. “MisUnderStooD her inTenTions” BOLLOCKS! You called her out on the abuse. Google 'Reactive Abuse' – it’s when someone who’s been abused finally cracks and lashes out at the abuser. She’s not a friend, she’s not even a frenemy – she’s a shitty person. Sorry that happened to you, congrats on yr marriage & studies!
It’s that simple. Just tell him what you told us. That you love/like him, but this issue is a showstopper and it should be addressed if you want to stay together. Communicate a timeline and proceed accordingly.
Not necessarily. A therapist can help them work towards an amicable divorce and have a good co-parenting relationship.
not wanting your spouse to fuck other people is not abusive you imbecile
So like it’s so much more complicated than what I wrote tbh. In retrospect it’s not that I want her to be clingy. In fact, I like that she isn’t.
I know she loves me because the intimate moments we share are golden. Like it’s a totally different love than what I felt before and I have asked her what she wanted and she wanted time away from me to see if that helps. Which I don’t think will.
In regard to ghosting her, I don’t mean it maliciously but if I keep contact with her she might just resent me or think I’m trying to sway her which I don’t want to do.
Also she didn’t outright compare me to her ex but it definitely felt like she has been because she’s gone back to saying that she felt like she’s babysitting me at times which I don’t see.
He finally opened up to me tonight and said he has a intense pain in his prostate everytime he gets an erection. More so when he tries to pee after erection. Your right it was an issue I just do not know why he didn’t tell me sooner. I want to help him get to a Dr. I’m scared for him
Run.
Your example isn't a subjective statement, it's you criticizing him + dismissive.
If that's the pattern he wants changed, that's valid.
I agree we need more examples.
I've dealt with your situation. I will not mistreat my children's mother to make someone else more comfortable. That said, that relationship needs more and stricter boundaries when you have a partner. Open phone policy and you have to let your ex know that if it's not about parenting, she should not do it. Ignoring it works sometimes but she should not be sending it.
GF needs to chill and accept that you have to coparent. It's not always going to be perfect where she can police your thoughts and speech, but she should have input on boundaries. That you initiated the divorce is an Ace for sure.
Finally, you need to come to peace with the idea that you may not be successful dating until your boy leaves home, but even then this kinda stuff is still going to come up.
Done!
That’s what I think. I’m not anticipating a response from him. I just felt so bad for that and it was weighing on me. I got really terrible advice from a hot headed person and I shouldn’t have listened. So, therefore my apology to him. Yes, I’m guilty of that as well.
No, I know. What does my message say to you?
He read it but that’s all he’s done. I would think he’d have ignored it all together or blocked me or unfriended me or something.
I really do want/hope he responds
i’m not sure exactly how she feels as we aren’t close, i can only assume from the few interactions i’ve had with her. it’s clear she looks up to him and values him as a friend, she doesn’t know he likes her
He's addicted.
And the one part of him that changed how you feel about him?
A dick did.
He is wasting his dick on easy porn, because being intimate with you involves work, and commitment, and honesty, and sharing intimacy.
At 28 you should be in the throes of thrice-nightly lovemaking and scaring all the neighbours.
This could be a dealbreaker. But it can be fixed.
You need to talk to him. It's not cool that he is wasting his dick on the internet and not inside you.
I hope you don't take that as being crude or rude towards you.
He needs to break his addiction, and he needs to realise that it is hurting you that he chooses fake xxx videos instead of you.
You deserve better. And I bet you can find better too, if he can't drop the porn addiction.
cut them off. these are not the type of people you want to be friends with. if and when you do in fact have sex with them, they will talk shit about you in private or to other people.
So it’s ok to get divorced solely because you don’t want to be a stepmom, but also still be a stepmom.
You’re right. I should have said every future relationship. Girl Friend has definitely ruined this one. But it doesn’t sound like OP cares all that much.
Why on Earth would you want to raise children in a place where they will have to go through active shooter drills? You haven’t thought this through.
When you're unblocked, block her completely and move on