So you can do two things. 1. Leave him you guys differ on fundamental values. 2. Pose it like this ask him what he would do if you got rapped and got pregnant. That will really show his true colors because as another person pointed out a lot of people are pro choice if it happens to them. Or you can just tell him you think that's really messed up to think like that because rape is a horrible crime and then figure out how to proceed.
Meh, no problem, bruh.
Hope you'll put at least some of that wage you're constantly flaunting into therapy and some basic education. It hurts to read.
So you can do two things. 1. Leave him you guys differ on fundamental values. 2. Pose it like this ask him what he would do if you got rapped and got pregnant. That will really show his true colors because as another person pointed out a lot of people are pro choice if it happens to them. Or you can just tell him you think that's really messed up to think like that because rape is a horrible crime and then figure out how to proceed.
Genuine question.
If you’re not attracted to him now, will that change when you’re married?
He knew of your boundaries previously so yeah he’s wrong for pushing
BUT
You also knew sex was something he wanted even if he was willing to wait for it
If you decide once you’re married that you still don’t want to have sex with him then that will make you a huge arsehole considering he does want sex