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Date: October 16, 2022
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It’s time both of you to move on
Did you just admit you you have actually left the house? You told him you haven't left the house. It means your reason was bad. Leave this poor soul, he deserves someone better and his distrust is completely natural.
A man that isn’t sure about you is a man you don’t want to be with
He's 32 and still prioritising his mommy over you? This isn't going to change. You have to decide if you can live with that.
the fact she was a side chick for a married man
This is something that you really need to dig deep and decide whether you can move past. You probably need to discuss with her how it makes you feel, how it affects her trust, and get a better feeling of how she feels about this now. If she thinks it's OK to be the other woman, and that conflicts with your values – that's a dealbreaker.
the fact she was basically some guys sex toy
You reaaaallly need to reframe how you think about this relationship. As far as I can tell from how you've described what she told you, this was fully consensual. A consensual dom/sub relationship, or dd/lg specifically like this, is absolutely about the sub or lg's pleasure as much as it is about the dom or daddy's. Although the dynamic might involve 'being used', she was not 'basically some guys sex toy' – she was actively engaged and seems to have really enjoyed it! That is totally, totally valid and you should not judge her for this.
However, it's also valid for you to feel confused about why she hid this from you, why she behaves differently in your sex life, and whether or not you are sexually compatible. That's something that you need to have a really open and honest conversation about with her, but please do that without judgement.