The first thing I thought was she took away your consent because she's trying to baby trap you. You said wait, tried to physically remove her from you, and she didn't stop. Do not sleep with this woman again unless you're looking for this to happen again, because it will. Do you know if she's on birth control? And also, go get tested immediately. I hate saying this about another woman but if that clock is ticking that bad where she raped a 23 year old, who knows if she's trying this with other guys too, and just seeing which one gets the job done. I realize it's an extremely negative outlook, but unfortunately this happens more than you think. If you were a girl and she was a guy, people would be screaming “rape” from the rooftops. Just because you're a male it doesn't mean you get to have your consent taken away.
Boundaries are your reaction to people's behavior, you can't control what people do, but you can control your reaction to their behavior. So he can say that he won't date women that to go to bars.
May I ask if it was out of nowhere or if she gradually stopped until it came to that situation?
The first thing I thought was she took away your consent because she's trying to baby trap you. You said wait, tried to physically remove her from you, and she didn't stop. Do not sleep with this woman again unless you're looking for this to happen again, because it will. Do you know if she's on birth control? And also, go get tested immediately. I hate saying this about another woman but if that clock is ticking that bad where she raped a 23 year old, who knows if she's trying this with other guys too, and just seeing which one gets the job done. I realize it's an extremely negative outlook, but unfortunately this happens more than you think. If you were a girl and she was a guy, people would be screaming “rape” from the rooftops. Just because you're a male it doesn't mean you get to have your consent taken away.
Yes tell him. It’s not fair to lead him on. Let him be with someone that wants all of him.
100% yes, I hope you used protection
He fucked someone else thinking it was you
Boundaries are your reaction to people's behavior, you can't control what people do, but you can control your reaction to their behavior. So he can say that he won't date women that to go to bars.