Be careful, you know this can turn real ugly. She sounds unstable. If you are serious about your moral code then you need to maintain it. Otherwise you will loose respect for yourself for the rest of your life over a few moments of meaningless sex. That's just you, but then who knows what complicated turmoil could unfold. Listen to your gut, back off and put her in her place.
Not sure what kind of advice you need, you're doing the right thing by not allowing your mom to meet your child, and frankly, if I were in your shoes I probably wouldn't speak to my dying mother at all.
Your mother is a real piece of shit and so is the rest of your family for turning a blind eye to her abuse of you. She is currently suffering the consequences of her actions, both for what she did to you and what she's done to her own body. The fact that you're even willing to speak with her demonstrates how kind and not cruel you really are.
Allowing your mother to meet your child would only cause your real family pain and the only person it would bring joy to is the one person who doesn't deserve it.
Be careful, you know this can turn real ugly. She sounds unstable. If you are serious about your moral code then you need to maintain it. Otherwise you will loose respect for yourself for the rest of your life over a few moments of meaningless sex. That's just you, but then who knows what complicated turmoil could unfold. Listen to your gut, back off and put her in her place.
sounds like she might be talking to someone her own age
Thanks for the advice!
Dude no.
Dump her asap.
To be fair, your reply is worded in a confusing manner
Not sure what kind of advice you need, you're doing the right thing by not allowing your mom to meet your child, and frankly, if I were in your shoes I probably wouldn't speak to my dying mother at all.
Your mother is a real piece of shit and so is the rest of your family for turning a blind eye to her abuse of you. She is currently suffering the consequences of her actions, both for what she did to you and what she's done to her own body. The fact that you're even willing to speak with her demonstrates how kind and not cruel you really are.
Allowing your mother to meet your child would only cause your real family pain and the only person it would bring joy to is the one person who doesn't deserve it.
Just mind your own business. Why people care what their exes do is beyond me.
So you just insult your partner when your drunk?
File.
File NOW.
Stop wasting your fucking time.