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I thought she would find out if I tried to change.
I know the answers to these. No red flags, I’ve never been scared to confront him if something is wrong (we spoke about it for example and his reaction wasn’t negative) and I think we are compatible: same hobbies, similar tastes in pretty much everything, same values etc
I thought this for awhile but an addict I knew’s drug of choice was molly. Maybe less of a physical addiction, but can still be very psychologically addicting. Also some addicts don’t only use one drug, but they’re addicted to getting high no matter what it is. They just need to have their mind altered
No they're not really affectionate, especially his mom isn't.
Marisa literally committed a crime against the two of you. As well as being a breach of privacy both her recordings were illegal in any jurisdiction I can think of.
I think it's reasonable to set a hard boundary that you will not be attending any events Marisa is at. She is highly toxic and targeted you both.
Personally instead of “going off” I would try to calmly say that the situation has gone too far and crossed a line and that you are unwilling to be disrespected or have your partner disrespected. They need to remove Marisa from the family christmas.
I would also file a report with the local Police. Even if you can't prove anything it should give her and your family all a reality check that this is not an acceptable way to treat people.
Finally, for the sake of your relationship if there is any hesitation at all from your family then you need to take Max somewhere else for Christmas.
Even if she didn't fuck anyone, having a condom shows that it the opportunity presented itself, she would have cheated.
Life’s too short for games. Reach out. The worst he can do is say no.
This is not normal. Its manipulative and she's guilt tripping you into not living your life the way you want to. Tell her that she's being manipulative and you want the suicide talk to stop.
He didn't want to cheat on her. He wanted physical intimacy.
It doesn’t even have to do with that though re: hypocrisy
OP’s wife ignored OP’s one wish, and instead put her own interests and desires above her husbands on his birthday.
She should apologize to OP
There's a difference between being friends and being friendly. You can certainly tell her that you can be friendly but you can't be her friend because of the dynamic of your relationship and that you're not comfortable with it. I think she somehow likes manipulating you and keeping you off balance.
It’s an insecurity. If only they were as easy as ‘just get over it’.
Fuck man, I should be a therapist. Someone comes in with social anxiety ‘just get over it’. Depression ‘ just get over it’
Dude I think you’ve just single handed my cured mental health. Well done!
You know, I help him out in his projects and even in some of his business matters. So we do have a business relation as well. But I think that is it.
Is it not normal to leave the tag on in case the clothing item doesn't fit so the person you're giving it to can exchange it for the right size?
I'm stuck on how leaving the tag on was interpreted as this horribly lazy thing.
So you guys been together for 4yrs. You should know by now if you want to marry her or not. If not, break up. If you do, what’s stopping you from taking the next step? If aren’t ready for marriage after 4yrs and you want different things. Leave.
Not even going to bother reading all of this. I can understand the 16-year-old you having a hard time with their polyamory. But at age 22, f*ck you for not accepting them as they are.
You should be pressured to go against what you feel. They traumatized you with their behavior. If you have cut them out and that’s what’s best for you then why allow them to come? This is yours and your future wife’s day.
You do not want to be involved, as an accomplice or a witness, in any of this. Heck, you might even have to testify as a character witness. Get out while you can and stay away.
I don't get it. Financial domination is a consensual kink right? They were giving you the money, seeking out somebody to give their money to.
I don't see it as evil on your part. At some point, if you are an adult, you are responsible for your actions. If you want to throw all your moner on someone, be my guest. They literally would have found someone else. Is your boyfriend hellbent against casinos too?
In the future, disclose the parts of your past that may be dealbreakers, like extreme actions.
But i really don't get the issue here. It's his problem and it may be a dealbreaker for him. I never did that kind of thing, but i wouldn't feel ashamed if i did
If you're not actively trying to have a child, birth control (be it a condom, pill, IUD etc) needs to be involved. Otherwise, you are actively trying to have a child.
If my wife landed at mandating condoms for the sole reason of not believing my fidelity, the marriage is over. Not because I have a problem with condoms, but because there is not trust and without that everything will inevitably crumble.
Acknowledging this is just one side of the story, your description doesn't sound like people who love each other interacting in a healthy marriage…
Ohhh shit…is there anything I can replace it with? That can help with the weight gain please
“Out of all your friends, your dick is in the top ten.”
I don't need to defend my parents, I was explaining my experience. I honestly don't know why you're getting angry on OP's behalf when she hasn't said it's what she expects. You're the one who obviously has some kind of issue with your parents not supporting you.
He's gay. You must divorce him and move on with your life. You hv wasted 6 years. And at 30, you are not getting younger. Please be selfish.
Updateme!
I am your wife in my relationship and my boyfriend is you, except I know I do not want kids and he isn’t sure yet. The difference is that we refuse to get married unless he makes a decision. You 100% needed to make a decision before you got married and if you were willing to take that risk of getting married without a decision, which you did, then you needed to be okay with not having kids because that will always be the default – you can’t force her to want them just because you do. And she is trying to tell you that she does not want them.
Religion is the most well-known reason but there are others. In this case (and it's not the only one I've seen) OP wants to trap the guy into a dead bedroom…. she promises him sex once married but she's not attracted to him ie she wants the security or resources of marriage, a provider for her child but not into him. Some women I know are “born again virgins” after meeting a lot of men who just want hookups. They believe this strategy will weed out the men who are only looking for sex, weed out men who lose interest after sex by being already married to them, or make themselves look more high value by not being easy.
I need to unfollow this sub
If she can't be physically affectionate with you now (short of full-on sex), what makes you think anything will change if and when you ever DO have full-on sex? Intimacy is a lot of things and starts outside the bedroom. It sounds like she is going to struggle with all kinds of intimacy and it's not fair to either of you to keep whipping a dead horse.
If you want to drink, then drink. It not like you're an alcoholic trying to stay off it.
If she leaves you, that's her call. You can't give into ultimatums.
You seem obsessed with the fact they haven’t had sex yet. So what, because you swooped in and slept with him first, you somehow imprinted on him? Not how it works. She clearly liked him, even if they hadn’t had sex yet. You ruined that for her.
You’re so awful, and your justifications are the worst.
No, a large age gap doesn’t automatically mean abuse of power, but increasingly controlling behavior does. Which is what is happening here. Why do you find yourself so annoyed at those women? Why aren’t you willing to consider that a lot of age gap dynamics are unhealthy and usually lead to grooming/ abusive behavior? This doesn’t absolve anyone of their individual behavior, women included, but it’s relevant information when considering the situation holistically and I don’t understand why you’re applying negative feelings about women not taking responsibility to it instead of seeing that.
Sometimes people say things to be mean (or perhaps in this type situation to put someone off wanting to have sex with them) without meaning it or it being true. Drunkenness doesn’t always equal honesty like some folks believe. Drinking to blackout levels very much removes you from reality.
I have really tried to ask him to work on his communication and regulation of his anger, because for me, no matter what, the way he reacts to stress/fits of anger doesn’t work for me. I don’t like the feeling of walking on eggshells when there is something wrong with him. I have tried to ask him to go to individual therapy, couples therapy— it’s usually the same thing of “there is nothing wrong with me. therapy is for people who have issues, I don’t have issues.” I have tried to grow with him and try to figure out what is wrong, but it feels like a really complicated puzzle.
I will check out the book you suggested. Hopefully it gives me insight.
I'm sorry, am I the only one confused by the fact that you guys only moved in together a year after your baby was born? What happened during that year? Did she pay everything for herself? How were things before the baby?
Have you guys considered a shared account for household expenses? My parents have only one bank account where both their paychecks go and my dad makes a lot more than my mom does. However my mom hardly ever buys anything that isn't a necessity..
Another point here would be that her spending habits could have an emotional root, it could also be an addiction. Have you considered counseling?
Either he likes the woman or he's obsessed with his childhood home and can't get go.
What did you say to him?
Hey all, sorry if I don’t reply. Your comments keep getting deleted here lmao.
Thanks a lot ? for your advice
I did choose to cut her off completely and said if hes around im not around and I find out that when I’m saying this she ditched work to go to his house because his girlfriend wasnt home and she laughed at me over the phone in front of him. She was never like this and it sucks. But thank you, this really does help
Look, dude, your gf has serious gender issues. Bad ones. Ones you shouldn't keep dating around.
This is only going to get worse, until she becomes one of those people who accuse you of flirting with every cashier and waitress. I bet if you ask her who bisexual people can be friends with, the answer will be hilarious.
Run.
She needs to put herself in your shoes. I’m sure she would be upset if it was the other way around
If your main concern is being near your parents, is there any chance they would be willing to move closer to you? I’ve oddly seen quite a number of friends that moved away from home a decade ago where now their parents have retired and moved closer to them.
I think there are two issues here. The first is that you absolutely need to get back into therapy. That series of texts would put most people off. The second is that he is full of shit and was probably only looking for sex with someone 12 years younger than he is. He thought you could hook up a few more times and was scared off when you got really emotional and clingy.
He’ll cheat on her, too eventually.
Honestly I love my husband so much, I’d be so jealous knowing his secretary was spending more one on one time with him than me.
I'd say it's over. He refuses to change and my guess is it's the same in every relationship. It sounds like he wants a mommy and not a wife which is all too common. Once the new wears off the sex isn't as fun.