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Birth Date: 2001-08-17
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: October 16, 2022
I am really pushing you because I get the impression that you tend to be passive and just let things happen to you.
Think carefully about your sister's situation. It is fine to be friends with her but I am not certain that she is on a great path. Given her income level and age, it is scary that she has less than $20K in savings. My child is a college student and has more than that.
I urge you not to share any of your financial information or career goals/status with her. There is no reason for her to know that and we know that she is not interested in helping you with your job. That is a good thing – you need to do it on your own.
One thing you can do is to proactively invite your sister to do something that you can afford in your city. Then you will know that you have made the effort to see her. If she does not accept, try a few more times. If she consistently declines your invites, then you know that her invitations are not about seeing you. They are about having you around for things that suit her. That is OK too but you have to be honest about what the relationship is and what it is not.
You need to learn to say No to her and one of the best ways to make that change is to always wait 24 hours before you respond to an invite, give a clear, lighthearted No, and suggest a different activity at a different time.
Sister: Do you want to come to dinner at Expensive Restaurant in My City on Friday night?
You: Sorry, I can't. How about you come for brunch at mine on Sunday. I'll make omelettes and mimosas.
How do you think she would respond to that?
Do you think his culture's spirituality (that he is not involved in) will help you establish roots? Why do you think you are more drawn to his family's culture and traditions than your own? (Nothing wrong with that but why do you think his culture (that you admit to being “decently ignorant” of) is the thing that will give you roots that you are desperate for? Note: you can't “convert” to being Native American, no matter how much respect you have for their culture.
Are there events near you you could easily attend? Are there family members of his that are more involved in his cultural traditions you could ask about it?
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