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Date: October 13, 2022
I have yet to see a happy relationship where one or both parties had to ask permission for any and all contact…..seems both of you are wasting each other's time.
Oh girl, you have to leave. He is effectively having his cake and eating it too. Moreover, he doesn't care about either of you. You need to realize that you are worth far more than he is treating you.
Girl He does feel bad, sure Because you found out, that is Come on – a year and a half? Out of three years?
Do yourself a favor and move on.
It's a lot more than you not sharing your food and it all got to him . Leave him be and move on
Sounds about right… guess it's good I figured that out early on
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You cant talk to female friends but she gets to do whatever she wants with a male coworker? Nah man thats some grade A bullshit, shes a massive hypocrite and you need to call her out for this. Her hiding what happened at the dinner is suspisous as well, talk to her but honestly id consider leaving if she is fine living with a double standard
Sometimes Snapchat GPS can be off. When I was living with my parents, my sister thought I was still at work only for her to come in the kitchen and see me on the computer. But her getting this upset about a seemingly small issue if she was at work seems sus, assuming you didn't straight up accuse her of cheating. If you're like “why did the Snapchat GPS say you weren't at work at x time?” And she responded the way she did, then that would be even more suspicious. But if you immediately accused her of cheating then her response can be more justified.
I don’t understand what the point of this comment is. I understand my worth should come from me, but I also deserve equal energy put into any sort of relationship. I don’t think most people go longer than a week without talking to a romantic connection, so it seems reasonable to wonder if something is amiss.
It was a hyperbolic example of a drastic change a man could make that might go against the preferences of some women. Nothing more.
Like if you could get shorter and then grow taller at will.
Don't mistake sex for the relationship. This whole thread just wants to give up as fast as possible.
Try talking to her first and see what she was intending. She may just have wanted for you both to have some fun, not become some poly group relationship.
Don't take this “I'm a victim” tack when all she did was talk to you.
Sounds like she could be depressed or burnt out, maybe in part from being a teacher. Not saying it as an excuse, but if you're putting in the effort to maintain the relationship and there are still issues, it could be coming from an exterior force, like a job.
Good luck with the marriage counseling discussion. As long as you make sure to frame it as “I want us to find a solution to this issue together” more than “this is an issue with you that I want fixed”, you should be fine, but good luck nevertheless.
Yeah you've said a lot about what sort of person you think OP is but I'm struggling to see what you're basing that on, other than maybe not liking men very much?
I agree OP shouldn't neccasarily end his relationship over something that she's said while pregnant. But he also shouldn't stay if the situations untenable.
Why can't you just sleep separately?
Lots of couples do, and this (snoring) is one of the biggest reasons why.
When I say “shaved head,” I mean like a buzz cut, not totally-bare-bald. I feel they are pretty much the same…long hair vs buzz cut…beard vs no beard…both a style/appearance choice ? (in most cases)
You do realise that by not being willing to compromise and do year about, or half days or anything like that, you are forcing her to do what you want.
Your relationship is not going to last much longer if you don’t get your head out of your arse.
But it won't sting too bad because you have beard padding !
and paid nothing to raise affair baby.
Did we read the same post bro?
I’m 40. You’ll realize 26 you were so young. Don’t wait until you realize that.
You’re still very young. Don’t rush and settle for the wrong person
Your dad made an immoral agreement and your mom was a party to that agreement that cost a little girl her father her whole life because your dad screwed around. What kind of woman tells a man to abandon his daughter? They both deserve whatever fallout they suffer. The only victims are you and your sister.
Get your shit in order and get divorced. This is beyond over. That’s a very big lie she told and there’s no coming back from that. Hurting her feelings every chance you get is not okay to do either.
Well then communicate it and grow from it. Lying is no bueno but it may come from an underlining issue, some people lie when they are scare based off of reaction. They may be scared to tell the truth because in the past when they did it followed in a negative reaction.
Relationships over. She pretty much told you this. Leave with ur dignity intact(ish) my dude.
bruh what
Ah, I see.
Yeah, that's some pretty important info and I get why you're feeling conflicted rn.
Honestly? I learned later in life that actions speak a lot louder than words. My partner isn't much of a PDA or super lovey dovey type but I learned to notice that he shows his love by making sure we have everything you need and/or bringing me treats I like home when he's at the supermarket when I'm feeling low.
I know he doesn't make you feel loved enough (I guess in the conventional way) but does your current bf do things which show that he's thinking of or being considerate of you? Because small gestures and actions like that are also a form of love/affection.
But now I do think that if you do talk to him about this stuff that you're actually a bit more clear on how the lack of whatever it is you need is actually starting to feel like a deal breaker for you cause it's always good to start with then it goes back to how it was before, and that's not a cycle you want to be in where you have to regularly remind him to be affectionate.
I want you to avoid mentioning your ex for the reasons I said earlier and because it'll seem like you're already half packed and just looking to blow things up for an excuse to leave.
But if you're really feeling starved of what you need from a partner to feel happy, and changes on his part don't feel like they stick even when you talk about it, then I would actually say it's fair for you to consider whether this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with (as I assume marriage is one of your life/relationship goals) as if he's not willing to do his part to take your feelings and needs into account now, they're not suddenly going to get better the longer you stay.
Change the Wi-Fi password. Call an attorney. She is getting lost on those stupid a** podcasts and you tube video rabbit holes and FB. She is applying their rhetoric to her life. First you need to detox her and tell her she needs to be professionally evaluated and help for her mental health issues for the sake of your family and relationship. If she says no, then time to call the attorney again. She is living in a false reality.
The way that he's telling you that he's going to resent you for an entire year and then maybe, possibly consider forgiving you all because you hooked up before you agreed to be monogamous seems really manipulative. I suspect he'll come up with other things to resent you for before the year is over. He might be telling you that he'll resent you for a whole year to test how willing you might be to submit to other “punishments” or forms of control that he'll devise for you. Not only that, but he's telling you “that's just how I am” and refusing to take responsibility for his emotions.
IMO, this is a major red flag and totally breakup-worthy.
Life is short, so why waste a year dating a man who's just going to resent you for something that wasn't even morally wrong and is showing signs that he might be prone to unhealthy and controlling behavior?
THAT’S EXACTLY MY POINT
If I have to explain you are lost.
RIP
You should stop wasting your time. If that's truly the only reason why she broke up with you, then you're dodging a bullet.
You cant control what other people feel around you, but you surrounded yourself with people who see you for your actions.
Looking at your profile, 95% of it is you posting on hookup subreddits and looking into kinky stuff with strangers. You're obviously someone with a very high libido and these ''friends'' gravitate towards you because of it.
All they see is a baker thats not letting them have her bread.
Actually no, it’s not that hard for a decent guy to be friends with a girl – for years – without expecting sex and wondering why he’s not “good enough for a hookup.” Gross.
Is this what marriages are bound to become at one point or another?
Definitely not, Ive been married over 20 years and my wife and me still want each other sexually.
The top comments in here are good advice. The grass is always greenest where you water it.
I feel angry at myself for not realizing how big it was before doing it. That something which seemed small is destroying something that was great. I really hope to grow a lot but I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel since I can't take back what I did. Like I don't have a way to wipe the slate clean for myself and that's terrifying…
Naaah…you two had a conversation about this and he communicated how he felt – he said it was fine.
Unless he said it's only fine in the first month of the relationship, you had no expectation of knowing it suddenly was not fine.
This is a communication problem on HIS part. He told you one thing then added rules when it conveniences him. That's not how this works.
You did nothing wrong in this situation, now you know how he feels going forward, but you shouldn't feel bad.
All tha6 being said – you know you are in a relationship why were you playing with fire by kissing someone else, those types of risk (approved or not) are simply not worth it.
So hopefully you BF can learn better communication. If so, judging by your response, this will be a successful relationship.
I would add that your kids are young once. You’ll never regret the time you spend with them whether that’s just play time when they’re young or taking them to practice or camping or whatever. I can’t think you’ll look back fondly on some video game. I’ve never been a gamer but I’ve definitely shelved other hobbies to prioritize my kids.
Except she didn’t mention is he is paying off an equal amount of money towards debt. She just said she pays more of the household expenses because she doesn’t have debt which seems to imply he is actively paying off debts. Which if they are married, are kind of her debts too.
So you want to daddy other people’s children and get back with a toxic ex who was “unbereable” bc you don’t like being lonely…
You do realize how this sounds right? Not ..Necessarily smart, does it.
You’ll regret this decision. Latest when ur old and have kids with someone u can’t stand.