You want to keep the friendship? I wouldn't even be able to get a crush on a boyfriend of my bestfriend. Did he flirt with her or something? I don't think that happens out of nowhere sorry.
Maybe she was stuck, and he was just trying to get her free? In all seriousness, OP save the security footage and get yourself a lawyer and an STI test.
You could try couples counseling to learn to communicate better with one another. Also possibly look into screening for PPD, if you feel your insecurities how gotten worse for you after delivery. You should consider individual therapy for yourself. Work on your self esteem and self worth. You are worth it OP, reach for some help to better yourself and your relationship.
OP said they spend “most of their spare time” with him and his daughter. Her bf's main priority is his daughter, as it should be. OP is living independently, and still has to take care and look out for herself. If that's selfish, so be it! People should be selfish sometimes instead of codependent.
I'm not going to argue with you anymore. We clearly have incompatible views about it so I'd like to break up ?
I mean they’ve had open conversations about their kinks, so I doubt they’re that vanilla. And vanilla and starfish are quite different anyway.
Starfish is either a woman who isn’t that into it, is having a fawn response(just doing it to appease the dude), or she has some other issue going on with that dude. It’s objectively a bad thing and a big sign that she doesn’t wanna be having sex
Vanilla sex can involve a pretty active woman and is some of the most fulfilling sex for people. I think pretty much any type of sex that doesn’t involve props/toys/costumes, and is P in V, is pretty vanilla. But vanilla sex can be absolutely electric if the chemistry is good. And kinky sex can be boring and unmemorable if there’s no connection
This is great advice. Username doesn’t check out. Slightly disappointed
You want to keep the friendship? I wouldn't even be able to get a crush on a boyfriend of my bestfriend. Did he flirt with her or something? I don't think that happens out of nowhere sorry.
If you got pregnant 2 months before his 21 birthday and your kid has 8 months now… How old is your spouse again???
Maybe she was stuck, and he was just trying to get her free? In all seriousness, OP save the security footage and get yourself a lawyer and an STI test.
We’re actually good. This is a thing that has only happened twice. It just so happened to happen two nights in a row. Thanks for the advice.
Best reply. So well put.
You could try couples counseling to learn to communicate better with one another. Also possibly look into screening for PPD, if you feel your insecurities how gotten worse for you after delivery. You should consider individual therapy for yourself. Work on your self esteem and self worth. You are worth it OP, reach for some help to better yourself and your relationship.
OP said they spend “most of their spare time” with him and his daughter. Her bf's main priority is his daughter, as it should be. OP is living independently, and still has to take care and look out for herself. If that's selfish, so be it! People should be selfish sometimes instead of codependent.
I'm not going to argue with you anymore. We clearly have incompatible views about it so I'd like to break up ?
I mean they’ve had open conversations about their kinks, so I doubt they’re that vanilla. And vanilla and starfish are quite different anyway.
Starfish is either a woman who isn’t that into it, is having a fawn response(just doing it to appease the dude), or she has some other issue going on with that dude. It’s objectively a bad thing and a big sign that she doesn’t wanna be having sex
Vanilla sex can involve a pretty active woman and is some of the most fulfilling sex for people. I think pretty much any type of sex that doesn’t involve props/toys/costumes, and is P in V, is pretty vanilla. But vanilla sex can be absolutely electric if the chemistry is good. And kinky sex can be boring and unmemorable if there’s no connection