Because he gave me hope. Why leave it off like that… why not just say like an adult that he has a girlfriend, it was nice to know you all the best? I probably would have congratulated him because I knew he wanted one.
I DID tell him that I didn’t want one (AT THE TIME we had that convo in 2019) but things can change in 3 yrs and I ended up seeing myself with him.
I just thought I had longer to say it to him because I had NO idea about the other girl (because why say you want to see me and do all these things with me when you’re already dating someone and planning to move?)
Wow. If it were my wedding I'd just let him embarrass himself. It's not funny, He and his parents will be amused but everybody else is just going to go “wow, that guy is an idiot”
dude cut them both out of your life and go to therapy this can‘t be healthy, why do you want to be together with someone who assaulted you multiple times. He clearly doesn‘t care about you if he did that and I wouldn‘t be surprised if BF and your „friend“ have something going on.
Guy best friend wants to fuck, im shocked.
Because he gave me hope. Why leave it off like that… why not just say like an adult that he has a girlfriend, it was nice to know you all the best? I probably would have congratulated him because I knew he wanted one.
I DID tell him that I didn’t want one (AT THE TIME we had that convo in 2019) but things can change in 3 yrs and I ended up seeing myself with him.
I just thought I had longer to say it to him because I had NO idea about the other girl (because why say you want to see me and do all these things with me when you’re already dating someone and planning to move?)
You knowww, this would be the cool reason, but all else is really sad.
Ah ok, thank you.
Wow. If it were my wedding I'd just let him embarrass himself. It's not funny, He and his parents will be amused but everybody else is just going to go “wow, that guy is an idiot”
dude cut them both out of your life and go to therapy this can‘t be healthy, why do you want to be together with someone who assaulted you multiple times. He clearly doesn‘t care about you if he did that and I wouldn‘t be surprised if BF and your „friend“ have something going on.
Sounds about right
I don't know if this is the right time to do this but one way to deal with that is to Lean into it.
E.G.
BF: You are not as perky as you used to be
GF: Oh no , do you want to break up so you can be free to find the perkiness of your dreams?
BF: ? ?
I don't know if this is the right time to do this but one way to deal with that is to Lean into it.
E.G.
BF: You are not as perky as you used to be
GF: Oh no , do you want to break up so you can be free to find the perkiness of your dreams?
BF: ? ?
I think a baby will straighten him right out