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Date: December 26, 2022
Thank you! I didn’t know. I thought you just weren’t supposed to put soap inside the vagina not on the labia as well. I’ll adapt this to my personal care routine
Your wife is out of line. You want to hang out with YOUR FAMILY. Having anyone else there changes the dynamic. Your dad is sick, and this bonding time with your parents and siblings really matters to you.
We had a chat a few minutes ago. She's starting to get it.
I think it’s really crummy of your wife to a)be offended that this isn’t a trip for her mom;
She got this finally.
b) lead your mom to invite your MIL – and your wife totally orchestrated that;
She won't admit to it but she likely did lol.
c) further invite an aunt & uncle that I’m presuming she knew you didn’t want there;
I honestly have no idea why she even brought them up. It made zero sense. Yesterday, I specifically said “Please don't bring your family. I just want to spend time with my parents and siblings. I don't even want my own uncle and aunt who go there all the time” (my uncle loves to play the guitar and just stares at people while he sings, it's WEIIIIIRD).
d) being mad when her attempts to circumvent your wishes failed.
She's not mad, she's more offended as to why I don't want to hang out with her mother. She obviously doesn't want anyone not liking her precious mother. I can understand this one. This has been an ongoing thing to be honest. I typically refuse to go to her house and she's like but whyyyy, my mom is such a good person. I can't bring myself to air my grievances because I don't want to talk shit about her mom, but in all honesty, I really don't like hanging out with her. Great person, but love from a distance as I see and interact with her a little too much.
Ask her why she’s afraid to be around your family without her mother in tow. Maybe she feels excluded at your family gatherings and wanted someone to hang out with.
It's not really that. My MIL recently beating cancer has created a soft place in her heart for her mother so I think the idea of me not liking her is something that hurts her. I can understand that but that doesn't mean that I have to accommodate for her all the time of course. She doesn't like it when I set up boundaries. The mother in law also lost her mother recently and the other daughter left the house so she's been super lonely. I got my MIL an Amazon Echo Show so my wife wouldn't drive to her house every single day and now we have her at the dinner table every night on video conference. Sometimes I'll walk into the kitchen and there she is on a call that my wife walked out of and I'll be in my underwear or I'll burp or say something really stupid as a joke and shit, there she is. It's become a little too much. Maybe I need to tell this to my wife more seriously.
The solution might be to go with your kids and without your wife.
That won't work. Zero chance of it happening for a thousand reasons haha.
The problem isn't that simple. I really don't know if I have it in me to break up with her. There are obviously good sides to her. Also, I don't know, the guilt of maybe I didn't try enough. I've been trying for so long, maybe one more time?
I'm just lost mentally and I cannot get out of the rut. Can't break up. Can't work, no motivation whatsoever. Cannot do anything basically apart from sitting and just smoking and wasting my time on tv.
Well, I (44F) wasn’t diagnosed until about 2 years ago. Women are under diagnosed or misdiagnosed with primary anxiety. I had always been able to get my shit together eventually but it took so much effort. I had no idea it could be easier til I was on meds.
So for you, “just fold the laundry!” Is simple. For me, it’s more like “okay. I need to fold the laundry. What if I don’t have time to put it all away though? And where will I fold it? First I better clean off the top of the dryer. Oh wow, look at that lint, I better vacuum that up. Ugh, the vacuum is upstairs. oh look, those books need to be rearranged. god I suck. I’m so lazy. I’m a horrible person. I didn’t get the laundry folded”
It’s exhausting and overwhelming.
My partner has untreated ADHD and he’s the most willing person if I ask him to do something but it just flat out doesn’t occur to him otherwise. Your laundry example is perfect actually. He literally just lays his clothes down in a pile in his laundry room. I once spent a whole weekend washing everything that was in the laundry and reorganizing his dressers and closet and such. Lasted a week. He just can’t bring himself to put away his clothes 25 feet from the laundry room.
Anyway, there are non stimulant meds, stimulant meds, CBT specific to ADHD, and lots of mitigation strategies.