You don't sound nice in this post. You sound hateful and judgemental towards her.
I don't doubt that she may be a little snappy or rude. I do, however, ask that you stop and look at things from her perspective. She's your friend. Instead of dropping her. Ask her what's wrong. Communicate with her. Talk. Tell her that you miss being close friends with her. Don't run away and put this friendship in the garbage. Work on it. Save it.
Everyone says to respect sex work but I just don't – I'm sorry but I think it's fucking disgusting and there's no respectable career path there.
So you don't ever go to strip clubs? Never watch porn? Never look at nude pictures?
Look I get not wanting to be in a relationship with sex workers, but I can't respect people who have disgust for it yet still use it. No idea if that's you – but it's true for a disgustingly large group of people who don't respect sex work.
People who will dump their long -term partner because a one night stand gets pregnant, and then make plans to get married because the one night stand's parents are conservative are pretty hard to find in 2023. Can't picture anyone reading this and thinking 'Oh let me take note of all this great advice in case I end up in the same situation.'
exactly
Just like any wife would do, clean up the shit her husband is too lazy to do! God bless you for being the glue that keeps your marriage together OP!
You don't sound nice in this post. You sound hateful and judgemental towards her.
I don't doubt that she may be a little snappy or rude. I do, however, ask that you stop and look at things from her perspective. She's your friend. Instead of dropping her. Ask her what's wrong. Communicate with her. Talk. Tell her that you miss being close friends with her. Don't run away and put this friendship in the garbage. Work on it. Save it.
Everyone says to respect sex work but I just don't – I'm sorry but I think it's fucking disgusting and there's no respectable career path there.
So you don't ever go to strip clubs? Never watch porn? Never look at nude pictures?
Look I get not wanting to be in a relationship with sex workers, but I can't respect people who have disgust for it yet still use it. No idea if that's you – but it's true for a disgustingly large group of people who don't respect sex work.
yeah, that's not cool
The smart play is to block her and move on. I know this isn’t what you want to hear.
Send her home in an uber. She doesn't need to spend the night.
People who will dump their long -term partner because a one night stand gets pregnant, and then make plans to get married because the one night stand's parents are conservative are pretty hard to find in 2023. Can't picture anyone reading this and thinking 'Oh let me take note of all this great advice in case I end up in the same situation.'