I appreciate your perspective. He earns and spends his own money, and I do the same.
The problem is that he has no savings at all, he has only debt and is frivolously spending money on eating out and other random shit thereby getting further into debt. I pay almost all the household expenses by myself since he was a student until recently
. I thought we were working towards a common goal and a certain lifestyle only to find out I'm the only one doing that.
Dont shame her by telling it to him. Of you do that you would be a really bad friend. Let her distance herself until she has a new relationship of something. Dont play with fire if you dont want to lose him.
So he does shitty things, and you don't completely hide that you're bothered by the shitty things he does, and that makes it your fault.
He tells you that you want to cause fights because you enjoy them because you're such a terrible person. You know that you don't want to cause fights and you know that you don't enjoy them, but you figure he must be right anyway about you being a terrible person.
Oh, and he hates you and you're totally toxic but he doesn't want to break up with you.
I’m like 40% sure your wife has cheated on you. And like 70% sure you need to fuck your wife a lot more. And 100% sure that a solution may involve a gay assistant
this gave me a worthy belly laugh
I appreciate your perspective. He earns and spends his own money, and I do the same.
The problem is that he has no savings at all, he has only debt and is frivolously spending money on eating out and other random shit thereby getting further into debt. I pay almost all the household expenses by myself since he was a student until recently
. I thought we were working towards a common goal and a certain lifestyle only to find out I'm the only one doing that.
Dont shame her by telling it to him. Of you do that you would be a really bad friend. Let her distance herself until she has a new relationship of something. Dont play with fire if you dont want to lose him.
So he does shitty things, and you don't completely hide that you're bothered by the shitty things he does, and that makes it your fault.
He tells you that you want to cause fights because you enjoy them because you're such a terrible person. You know that you don't want to cause fights and you know that you don't enjoy them, but you figure he must be right anyway about you being a terrible person.
Oh, and he hates you and you're totally toxic but he doesn't want to break up with you.
All this makes so much sense.
If your don't get out of this, you'll never escape the endless cycle of being in an on-off-relationship with her
If he wanted more than sex with you he wouldn’t have broken up with you.
You were just a lay for him. Let him burn and never look back.
I’m like 40% sure your wife has cheated on you. And like 70% sure you need to fuck your wife a lot more. And 100% sure that a solution may involve a gay assistant
i got a friend whose wife has breast implants, dont think he's too fazed about it. he understands that she did it to boost her confidence