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Date: October 6, 2022
It's not just a fear, it's reality with him. He doesn't want children.
Hair sticks to everything, and you don't have to be in close contact with someone for it to do so.
Look, I don't want to scare you OP, but IME (mid 40's guy, married twice + a couple LTRs over the years and several short ones) – being accused of cheating, or otherwise being “monitored” has been (again, in MY experience) a smallish red flag coming from my partner. Not always about current behavior, but sometimes about potential future behavior.
As in, of the people I've had a relationship with, the ones who were either unfaithful or otherwise left for somebody else – they were all the ones who monitored me, asked questions constantly, or even outright accused me of things. I've always been open, honest and communicative with my partners.
It's not an accurate sign of something, so don't take it that way. It's just one of those (IMO) small indicators of something, potentially. Talk to any of my friends and they've said similar things – those that protest too much have tended to go in that direction themselves, at some point. Either because they're masking for themselves (perhaps subconsciously, perhaps not) or because the more they start thinking you're untrustworthy, they more they believe it, which pushes them into doing something themselves because they're convinced YOU are.
The better question to ask is, why are you with somebody who rates your personality as a 6?
I got back with my ex in HS. We ended up getting married, having seven kids, and have now been together for over 25 years.
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She a mechanic? He's a momma's boy. Get him to drop you off at a bus/train station.
I have a very good relationship with my stepfather. I tried to do all the things he did with me with her, spending time, taking her out, talking…she just always shut me down.
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There is no baby. She miscarried 6 years ago. We weren’t even together then. But she let me believe that I was the father alongside someone else as she’d narrowed it down to two dudes and didn’t bother with the further investigation until later down the line apparently.
Damn, this was exactly my life. Get your spy cameras outta my house ?
So you’re attracted to douchebags? Oof, I wouldn’t want you to be my girlfriend.
I admittedly skimmed, but the only reference to BPD that I saw was in reference to the wife’s sister.
I’m cackling!
You need to get that out of your head because the second she finds out her sister is in your head you'll be done.
Why are people marrying this young? This kind of shit is bound to happen.
Ok wel let him worry about it bro
Interesting how there is not many comments about why he is not interested in sex or the reason he prefers to take of it himself. You moved in together so something clearly changed, might be in how he views you? Or maybe something you do is turning off? Either way he sucks for not talking about or just doesn't care about your needs at all
Mmm thanks…
Have you considered the ‘new boyfriend’ brand? This one seems faulty
It's not a troll post, I've always heard the saying “Your partner is not responsible for your happiness”
Lad, let me just tell you. I almost killed myself after my wife left me in 2017. It's not worth it.
You may have fallen apart, that's okay- Pick up the pieces and build a better man. One brick at a time if that's what it takes.
How are you sure he’s still asleep?
You’re blackout drunk – you can’t even remember your husband abusing you, much less if your 4 year old is still asleep while all this chaos goes on.
I ask this because for all you know, he’s awake hearing every sob, cry or scream from his mother. Sitting awake in bed (god willing he stays in bed) terrified and confused knowing he can’t help you.
If you can’t get out of your own head enough to see that these actions by your husband go WAY beyond just being your “kink”, then at least try to see things through your young child.
You do realize that going to the “parlor” is absolutely the same thing as cheating, right? So, you’re not somehow avoiding becoming a cheater if you go that route. I’m sure your wife would agree, just ask her.
Cheating just makes you a trash person. It’s called divorce if this is a dealbreaker. Don’t be that guy. It will forever change your identity to a “cheater.” The guy who cheated on his wife.
Beyond sitting down and have a real open, honest and probably awkward conversation, there’s not a lot of options here. You can’t soften the blow or gloss over how you’re feeling. Ask her what you can do to improve intimacy. You immediately go to what you do for her sexually, but what do you do outside of sex? For women it’s not “getting her off” that’s important, it’s everything else. Are you helpful as a partner? Do you help around the house, etc because it seems lame, but for some women just having an equal partner in all things is the most attractive thing. Do you take her on dates, do you initiate intimacy in other ways – cuddling, kissing, hugging without intention. Meaning, are you only doing these things when you are looking for sex, or do you do those with that expectation? Ask her if you’re not meeting her other needs in some way that is turning her off or making her want to push away.
I mean honestly, therapy is really you’re best bet, specifically maybe a sex therapist, would be ideal, but since it’s not an option, you have to do the work yourself.
Unfortunately, this is kind of on you as well since you knew she had a LL before marriage. She didn’t pull a bait and switch and she’s not doing anything different than she was. I guess you just have to decide what is more important to you, your wife or having sex elsewhere.
Exactly.
People on the internet like to suggest that you just make your boundaries known and cutt off anyone who doesn't accept them, but that's not always what real life is like.
In your situation, you can't see your grandmother without also having to see your mother, and you already know it would be completely futile to talk sense into your mother. You could try, but it wouldn't make any difference.
So, accept her for who she is and agree with yourself to not let her get to you. Work around her somehow and make sure you have some kind of support so you can vent to someone in case she gets too much.
literally no one is, pls be fr.
My gut says he’s cheating because everyone is trash BUT I do have a friend who prefers masturbating with a condom on so maybe your man ain’t lying. Godspeed.
It shouldn’t come to you as a surprise that the woman of my dreams has never slept with anybody and maintained innocence. She is not that. Back in the good old days women had a thing called morals, they wouldn’t sleep with anybody but the one man they intended to marry; is it so crazy to want to revert back to those good times and find a girl like that?
They’re both in the wrong.
People who do loyalty tests on peoples partners to prove that that person was unfaithful in some way are immature, jealous, insecure and almost always intend on trying to get with the person by attempting to break them up first so it doesn’t look bad on their end. Your sister was possibly more than likely hoping that she’d start the catalyst that ended with you breaking up thanks to her “proof” and hoping to be the rebound that ends up being your bfs gf.
Your bf? Yeah if I caught my partner messaging someone like that and they tried to feed me some bullshit excuse that they were just playing along because they thought it was fake, they’d have five minutes to explain why they didn’t let me in on the situation before they get told to pack their bags and leave.
Tell your sister to butt out of your dating life and tell your bf that he can go meet up with his “buddy” that is playing a prank on him and ask that he stay there until you’re both ready to have a discussion about your relationship.
The question isn’t related to age gaps though.
Thank you! I’m glad you commented! That’s exactly why we have separate rooms. We value our sleep, and if we sleep together, we won’t get any at all!
The thing is that we go to the same college. I tried to block him once but he went completely nuts. Blocking him didn’t make him exit my life and I still had to deal with all the consequences.
You're naive.
lol but he actually wants to be famous nobody ever has heard of these people
If you’re unhappy she picked you, break up. The time to decide you were unhappy with the situation is when it was happening not months later when you’re on a committed relationship. She didn’t disrespect you, you feel disrespected.
Either break up or move on but being mad at a 24 year old for dating multiple people isn’t a long term useful decision. Even if she regretted it she can’t undo the past and frankly I don’t know why she’d apologize for it. I will reiterate- your insecurities are going to ruin this relationship.
Usually friends matter that much to people
That's an intense overreaction to a hairstyle for an adult. I'd also be hesitant to continue a relationship with someone who not only flips out this bad about you restyling but also who communicates this poorly. A full day of silent treatment over a haircut? And then a disregard for her nonsense being hurtful? That's exceedingly childish. The world doesn't revolve around her and she should not expect to have control over your own self expression. It'd be one thing if she just said she didn't think it was flattering on you (that happens) but she acted like you cut her hair instead of yours. Does she have the same issue communicating about important issues and conflicts? Or other outbursts when you make your own decisions? Cause those would also be a concern. Might be time to consider if you should invest anymore time in this given what she's showing you about herself.
He needs to learn that consent is never assumed, it is needed every step of the way. Each and every time. If he can't grasp that, he isn't the right person for you. Sorry.
What if they don't touch themselves and just fantasize? Is that an immoral act?
A few questions to get started here:
Have you been intimate with this girl? Have you been on dates with this girl? Have you led her to believe that you might have feelings for her? Why is the age difference such a hang-up for you? Does she live alone? With Family? Etc?
(Just an FYSA) A 23y/o dating a 19y/o does NOT have negativity associated with it. Teenager, while true, is not exactly the same vernacular as young adult. While she is a teenager, in the eyes of the law and the eyes of just about anyone I know, she's not a minor. You aren't breaking the law here. 4 years difference is not that big of a deal.
Nah not much invested. Think I’m more attached to the companionship then anything else. Still feelings were involved and I was trying to better her life. Your 100% right though.
Sober up and grow up. Ffs, you sound like a child
You should delete the photos
You should delete the photos
No. No, no, no do not marry this guy right now.
Are you in a rough financial situation where you couldn’t afford a hotel, or it would be considered a significant cost? I just really hope he isn’t cheating on you, just hoping there is some explanation for his awful behavior.
Then I’d be stuck paying 500 weekly rent for 8 months mmm idk I feel trapped
What do you get out of this relationship?
You’re only three months in, this is the beginning. If you’ve already stopped having fun this is not the person for you
Sure, it's me who is myopic… Lol Of course it's unfruitful, I won't judge people as cheaters just because they have friends and want to spend time with them.