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Date: October 18, 2022
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Therapy is an empty way of getting help, Seriously. You're only making me feel worse about myself, Thanks for nothing my dude.
Still not getting therapy anymore. I'll most likely be blocking you since you don't seem to chipper on actually lending help and want to berate me for decisions I make just like my family did to me. Peace.
buzzword roulette ??
“my /current/ wife” sounds like you have the answer you’re looking for already, lol.
I would not believe a word he says. He is a liar and a cheat. Leave him and sue him for support for the baby.
Good luck, OP. I am sending you hugs.
She's completely not over him, in her mind when you two have sex she's thinking about him having sex with her, picturing him not you.
She clearly doesn't respect you especially after doing this 4x.
You need to leave this relationship since it will only cause you some serious damage.
Cos he said his issue with me was that I seemed to not understand how hard life is for him right now. Like I was insensitive. That may have led him to seek attention somewhere else. But I stopped messaging already after I apologized
I’m so sorry that your family instilled the disease into you further. I have no further advice that other people haven’t already given. Just know that there are strangers rooting for you.
Also, in the future when you are on your own (and presumably have a dietician/therapist) just be sure to not spiral into the other direction. Food is fuel, food is good, but you shouldn’t binge because you weren’t able to before. Much love and a speedy recovery to you ??
You don't necessarily need to make it end amicably. What you need is to get out of the relationships. You don't want him to expose your pictures and that's understandable so maybe try to trick him. If you are not worried about being hurt tell him that you don't necessarily want the relationship to end but you're worried you can't trust him while he has those pictures because you feel like one wrong move and he'll post them. Have him delete the pictures and then go into his trash on his phone and permanently delete them. Then leave the next chance you get.
If you at any point are worried for yourself physically just run run away
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You're fiance is only 7 years? The fuck. /s
Not from my experience they don’t
What the fuck das that audacity!!!??? Please dump this garbage woman
i hope you don't want children because if they end up brown like him he will not be happy
It doesn’t sound like he even likes you that much. You need to find someone who will be supportive of you emotionally. And isn’t so stingy if you’re down on your luck. Like what the fuck is his problem?
Agreed. Sex is the bait to get marriage. I bet she's already had sexy with others.
Your friend sounds 14 not 24
I really don't think it's insecurity since i know for sure that i'd still really not like this guy even if didn't know my girlfriend by any mean.
As i said it's the fact that she talks to a guy that i like so little that bugs me out
A relationship can be very giving, and it can be very taking. You don't have to cater to societal norms. Either way I advice against finding a relationship just for the sake of finding one.
You are so young this is a great opportunity for self-growth and finding out who you are really meant to be. It does suck that you two aren’t compatible, but that unfortunately is what happens when you get together that young. Better to find out before you got married or pregnant accidentally etc. Try to look to the future and imagine what you want your life to be like, and then go make it happen. Try new hobbies, hang out with friends more, if you aren’t in school, take some classes you’re interested in, spend time with your family, and just generally keep busy. That is the best way to deal with grief.
Calling her reasons ridiculous and abusive is just your judgement. That attitude will make having a long term relationship difficult.
OP will have to work with the wife and figure out why she feels the way she does.
Insulting her won't help OP and never helps a marriage. Telling OP it's her problem won't fix it either.
All your comments are just personally cathartic and about your own self serving nature.
When she reaches for you, grab her hand, chuckle at her, kiss her, and say, “not right now, but definitely later!”
It's difficult to come to terms with the fact that she's no longer the woman you loved. You love what you thought she was, but what you found tells a different story.
It sounds like you know what to do, you just have to tell yourself you are making the right choice. You can't just stop loving her, but you can start seeing her for who she really is and eventually you'll accept it.
Fuck you have low standards if that's the kind of man who is the most perfect man you've ever met.
Whoops, I misread that, thought she sent her sister away not her husband
Although I think my points still stand and op should drop them both
Its manipulative, just ignore her as best you can and try to get on with everyone else really well, especially the other ladies.
when she loses her temper as whoever runs the programs/events that she be removed.
In fact do it now as a precaution to her behaving badly!
What makes you say that he might be cheating on me?
Reading the first post you definitely felt like the safe option. Her way of doing everything safely. She has other men to do the wild and crazy things with but its not you and never will be. She has you in a glass box. All dressed up and pretty to show the world that shes with a good guy. A good safe guy. But 4 times a year, she breakes out her true self (she's probably ashamed deep down of that self) and that true self can never come out with you.
It's pretty harsh man and you have every right to feel those emotions. But you will always be in that pretty glass box.
So several issues here.
Firstly his cold shoulder attitude is abusive. Sure go silent while you calm down, but 30 minutes maybe an hour should be enough for anything short of a massive fight. If you’re relationship is going to survive he needs therapy, and needs to find a way to deal with his problems without extensive cold shoulders.
Different parenting styles – you should have come to an agreement already (9years is more than enough to have sorted this out) about what is expected, what appropriate consequences for breaking the expectations are, and how to adjust them as your son grows (ie as a little kid a week grounded – depending on what that means in your household, might be too much, but as a teenager, it might be appropriate)
You say this current argument is over your son ‘giving attitude’ – so what do you mean? As there is levels here. From being grumpy and unable to process his emotions (just like his dad) to being verbally and even physically abusive to one or both of you (or other people).
Now if it’s the first, or similar, then yes a week is not appropriate, but if the last or similar, then sorry but a week is not enough, and you both would have failed as parents to allow it to get to that level.
Just tell him the truth about how you feel and that you are seriously thinking of ending things. Seems to be the obvious answer.
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So in terms of harm reduction, many newbies, barely knowing the place or each othert is not safe, especially if they go for medium to high doses. That doesnt mean that it cannot be a beautiful experience. Yet the textbook would say 'No'
Juat shit on his pillow and leave Then everyone's happy.
I can’t provide detail regarding the detainment without giving away our identities. But there’s no question it was wrongful detainment. The country he was in is extremely corrupt and it was a truly horrific situation.
Then her request is coming from a purely selfish place. She wants to ruin him for any other woman to make him less attractive in case it doesn’t work out. It doesn’t matter how “minor” being a vasectomy is for women. There’s a non-0% chance that the surgery goes wrong and he is impotent or in pain fit the rest of his life. It’s not common but it happens sometimes. Why should he risk that just to appease her idea of him proving his love for her when they are separated?
I never asked for a rating! And I don't expect the entire world to believe that I am a perfect goddess either. The context here matters. All I wanted was to be HIS 10/10 based on unconditional love. Not on the world's standards.
When I got married, I had my mom walk me down the aisle, and then later danced with my dad, then my step-dad. If anyone had opinions about this, I never heard about it.
She needs to understand her son is learning how to treat or be treated by her and her husband. Her son deserves and needs a stable and loving home. Even if that means they aren't together anymore. He's not just verbally abusive, he's physically violent. One day he might turn and hit her. She needs to get out as quickly and safely as possible. But it's hard when she can't or won't leave him.
bc I've talked to my husband about working ft and he says it would be okay, but I need to teach him how to take care of the house/dinner/kids
Uff….weaponized incompetence? Even if you were a stay-at-home-parent so far….he's an adult, he's a parent himself. He can figure things out too.
But the dynamic of me teaching him something that no one taught me makes me upset
I'd sit down and simply split the bigger things, and then, let him figure things out himself. He'll manage.
You don’t be ok with it and say hell no!
I dunno, I do this to my husband, but he doesn't complain. I'm just not that into texting. It has nothing to do with my feelings. And often I'd dead exhausted on work trips since I have to be “on,” so I fall asleep before we talk.
Not telling you to let it go, by any means, but giving your another perspective. Don't take it as a sign he doesn't care.
Genuinely, why are you doing any of this? Why have you not just gone to the courthouse and been done with it as you said you wanted, because what you want is all you’re thinking of right now.
You say you’re going through the wedding for your fiancée, but devaluing every bit of the experience. Do you think she can’t tell how much you hate every minute you’ve had to spend “dealing” with a wedding? Do you think that makes her feel special? Do you think, perhaps, she may not be sharing her full feelings with you because you’re treating the entire thing as a burden and something you need to grit your teeth through and protest the entire way?