You're trying to change the nature of this relationship entirely and that's something you'd need to vocalize very clearly to him. He'd need to balance the loss of the friendship with the potential benefits of dating you. Use your words and talk to him.
Forgot to mention something important. We went through a rough patch about 2 months ago and she wanted to take a break but came back a week later because she missed me.
Or you could slow down before bringing your kids into this situation? Since it's likely to deeply destabilize them if it doesn't work out.
I would tell wife about the messages and read her reaction. That will be how to find out for sure.
Thank you! I just reached out and told him that I was hoping for it to be just the two of us! Let's see what he has to say ๐
You're trying to change the nature of this relationship entirely and that's something you'd need to vocalize very clearly to him. He'd need to balance the loss of the friendship with the potential benefits of dating you. Use your words and talk to him.
Yes, if heโs so abusive the landlord notices, yes.
Forgot to mention something important. We went through a rough patch about 2 months ago and she wanted to take a break but came back a week later because she missed me.