I'm curious, has she or you father mentioned anything about you not allowing him around your own kids? I'd be surprised if they haven't already tried to cross that boundary.
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First of all, it sounds like you have some issues to deal with. Don’t take it as an offense… we all have issues. Find a mental health counselor or therapist to help heal yourself. Wanting someone to save you is never a good dynamic, in anyone’s life.
Second, you said in your comment that you being a sex worker is a fetish for him and it turns him on. That’s kind of a red flag to me… but maybe that’s just me.
Am I really the only one who thinks he might need to go to the hospital for a check up to make sure it's not some type of cancer? Or he might already know, is very scared to tell you and can't hold it in for that long. I don't think this is laziness. It might be an underlying (medical) issue here
And that's exactly what lands you in jail and ruins your life. All for what? A woman? He has is own child from a previous marriage FFS. He should have thought of her. Anger is all well and good until it makes you do something stupid and lands you in trouble. He never had a police record before but now he does. For a very stupid thing. What good is that? If he had maintained composure and calmly called the police to say she spat on him among other things, it could have been her going to jail that night.
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Hey bro focus on yourself and your job and your bros your family will come when the time is right you can’t let this bring down your dream of it happening better she does it now rather then later.. ong you got bro maybe find a hobby get into fitness try rock climbing is very cool and the environment is super cool a lot of cool people there too you got it bro promise you this is a blessing in disguise you got it
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I'm curious, has she or you father mentioned anything about you not allowing him around your own kids? I'd be surprised if they haven't already tried to cross that boundary.
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First of all, it sounds like you have some issues to deal with. Don’t take it as an offense… we all have issues. Find a mental health counselor or therapist to help heal yourself. Wanting someone to save you is never a good dynamic, in anyone’s life.
Second, you said in your comment that you being a sex worker is a fetish for him and it turns him on. That’s kind of a red flag to me… but maybe that’s just me.
Have you met this guy in person???
Am I really the only one who thinks he might need to go to the hospital for a check up to make sure it's not some type of cancer? Or he might already know, is very scared to tell you and can't hold it in for that long. I don't think this is laziness. It might be an underlying (medical) issue here
Hahahah perhaps it is amigo, perhaps it is
And that's exactly what lands you in jail and ruins your life. All for what? A woman? He has is own child from a previous marriage FFS. He should have thought of her. Anger is all well and good until it makes you do something stupid and lands you in trouble. He never had a police record before but now he does. For a very stupid thing. What good is that? If he had maintained composure and calmly called the police to say she spat on him among other things, it could have been her going to jail that night.
From http://www.gov.uk:
**You can use reasonable force to protect yourself or others if a crime is taking place inside your home.
This means you can:
protect yourself ‘in the heat of the moment’ – this includes using an object as a weapon
stop an intruder running off – for example by tackling them to the ground
There’s no specific definition of ‘reasonable force’ – it depends on the circumstances. If you only did what you honestly thought was necessary at the time, this would provide strong evidence that you acted within the law. **
Report it. You're not in the wrong here.
Hey bro focus on yourself and your job and your bros your family will come when the time is right you can’t let this bring down your dream of it happening better she does it now rather then later.. ong you got bro maybe find a hobby get into fitness try rock climbing is very cool and the environment is super cool a lot of cool people there too you got it bro promise you this is a blessing in disguise you got it