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I was still grieving for my dad 10 years after he died, obviously not as bad as when he first passed but it can take years. You have to find a 'new' normal which takes time. Take as long as you want, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your needs are not less important than his. Stop being worried about disappointing him. Stop worrying about hurting his feelings.
This is also a problem with some kinky people. Once they divulge their kink to their partner, they only ever want to have the kinky sex they enjoy, forgetting that their partner doesn't enjoy it as much as they do.
Also, by NOT speaking up, you're essentially telling him that you enjoy the rough sex too.
“Honey, I really love you and I love having sex with you, but the sex has gotten too rough, and I simply can't take it anymore. I didn't speak up before now because I didnt want to disappoint you, but now I'm constantly sore and in pain, and I don't want to get to the point where I dread having sex with you. I'm not judging you for the fact that you like rough sex, I'm simply saying that we can't do it very often because I physically can't handle it. I think we're going to have to save it for special occasions from now on. How do you feel about that?”
Given what you've said here regarding “other issues in the marriage” and that you've spent not just a course of months, or a year, but eight and this is still how you feel and are treated? I'm surprised you've waited so long.
There's certain boundaries you don't cross and given that Kelly also looked uncomfortable…..it's very not-OK to mess around joking about people's fertility, ability to have children etc and honestly this dynamic sounds pretty unfriendly and toxic if this is all considered “fine”. If anything it seems like the guys are getting together and the wives are just “tag-alongs” that aren't really keen on being there either.
Only you can know if, in concert with your “other issues” this justifies a Divorce or not and I would surmise that you've already spoken with him about whatever these are – as well as having spoken to him about this incident as well and each time it's led to an unconstructive result.
If that's the case? Well done on tolerating this all so far, I wish you luck on your journey to either enjoying time to yourself and/or finding someone who actually respects you as a person, wife and Woman all.
If you had a daughter would you encourage her to give it a chance with someone who has domestic violence on their dating record?
If it was your mom would you encourage her to spend time with a man who was a violent offender in the past, even though he hasn’t taken any accountability or admit remorse and lied to you about it for over a year?
Put the woman you care about in the same position and then give advice, would you tell your best female friend that this type of man is worth her attention??
Why do his feelings trump hers? He's not allowing her to grieve her own way. I should have sympathy for that?
She carried the child. She had to go through far more than he did in the process. He only sat on the sidelines watching. I'm sorry but her feelings take priority to me. I'm not saying to trample his feelings in the process, but she fucking deserves what's within her reach if it makes things a little bit better for her in her time of need.
Also, he's trying to save a buck, not saying he's too torn up to go. He's still wanting to go on the cheap vacation. It seems like it's just about money and not at all about grief to him.
He's not considering her grief at all in the process here. Kinda hard to feel sympathy towards him at all for that. But sure, I'm heartless for putting his wife's feelings over his. Gotcha.
Literally 2 months ago you made a post about your boyfriend going off on you for using “his” pots and pans after you and he moved in together. Your post history and comments suggest your partner is controlling and inconsiderate. Your comments all reflect fear of setting him off. I get that he’s your high school sweetheart, but this man has no respect for you or your things.
I was still grieving for my dad 10 years after he died, obviously not as bad as when he first passed but it can take years. You have to find a 'new' normal which takes time. Take as long as you want, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your needs are not less important than his. Stop being worried about disappointing him. Stop worrying about hurting his feelings.
This is also a problem with some kinky people. Once they divulge their kink to their partner, they only ever want to have the kinky sex they enjoy, forgetting that their partner doesn't enjoy it as much as they do.
Also, by NOT speaking up, you're essentially telling him that you enjoy the rough sex too.
“Honey, I really love you and I love having sex with you, but the sex has gotten too rough, and I simply can't take it anymore. I didn't speak up before now because I didnt want to disappoint you, but now I'm constantly sore and in pain, and I don't want to get to the point where I dread having sex with you. I'm not judging you for the fact that you like rough sex, I'm simply saying that we can't do it very often because I physically can't handle it. I think we're going to have to save it for special occasions from now on. How do you feel about that?”
Given what you've said here regarding “other issues in the marriage” and that you've spent not just a course of months, or a year, but eight and this is still how you feel and are treated? I'm surprised you've waited so long.
There's certain boundaries you don't cross and given that Kelly also looked uncomfortable…..it's very not-OK to mess around joking about people's fertility, ability to have children etc and honestly this dynamic sounds pretty unfriendly and toxic if this is all considered “fine”. If anything it seems like the guys are getting together and the wives are just “tag-alongs” that aren't really keen on being there either.
Only you can know if, in concert with your “other issues” this justifies a Divorce or not and I would surmise that you've already spoken with him about whatever these are – as well as having spoken to him about this incident as well and each time it's led to an unconstructive result.
If that's the case? Well done on tolerating this all so far, I wish you luck on your journey to either enjoying time to yourself and/or finding someone who actually respects you as a person, wife and Woman all.
Where are your family and friends in all of this? Tell your family so they can help you get out of this abusive relationship.
Sleep with her pillow next time. Establish dominance.
If you had a daughter would you encourage her to give it a chance with someone who has domestic violence on their dating record?
If it was your mom would you encourage her to spend time with a man who was a violent offender in the past, even though he hasn’t taken any accountability or admit remorse and lied to you about it for over a year?
Put the woman you care about in the same position and then give advice, would you tell your best female friend that this type of man is worth her attention??
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
The writing is on the wall. Get an attorney. She's shown you who she is, time to believe her. Good luck.
Why do his feelings trump hers? He's not allowing her to grieve her own way. I should have sympathy for that?
She carried the child. She had to go through far more than he did in the process. He only sat on the sidelines watching. I'm sorry but her feelings take priority to me. I'm not saying to trample his feelings in the process, but she fucking deserves what's within her reach if it makes things a little bit better for her in her time of need.
Also, he's trying to save a buck, not saying he's too torn up to go. He's still wanting to go on the cheap vacation. It seems like it's just about money and not at all about grief to him.
He's not considering her grief at all in the process here. Kinda hard to feel sympathy towards him at all for that. But sure, I'm heartless for putting his wife's feelings over his. Gotcha.
Hey all, sorry if I don’t reply. Your comments keep getting deleted here lmao.
Literally 2 months ago you made a post about your boyfriend going off on you for using “his” pots and pans after you and he moved in together. Your post history and comments suggest your partner is controlling and inconsiderate. Your comments all reflect fear of setting him off. I get that he’s your high school sweetheart, but this man has no respect for you or your things.