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Is the student above the age of consent? Even if they are, dating a student would likely be professional misconduct. And even if you wait until they graduate to date, it may get you a reputation which follows you around at work.
It may be you are just not enjoying your relationship and having some female attention has made you more aware of this and built this interaction into something more than it is.
I would separate the two issues. Do you want to stay in your relationship? If you do, then look into how you can improve things.
Do you really like this student enough to make it worth waiting until they graduate, breaking up with your partner and maybe having work problems?
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If you have it in you, and you think it will be productive and he will take to it, then absolutely try to help him. Leaving him should be a last resort, one that you don't even consider until you can't avoid the option anymore, I am happy to see there is still some fuel left in the tank and the situation isn't that dire just yet. You are a good girlfriend and a good person, what you are doing goes beyond what many people would do if placed in a similar place, don't ever lose your kindness.
Tell her “just cuz boobs popped up doesn't mean I was sitting there, in my head, silently enjoying them. Just cause I'm a man doesn't mean I'm salivating over the boobs, or shamelessly staring at them. I'm not some trigger happy easily excited teenager. Was there something in my body language that made you think I was ogling the boobs?”
Get inside her head and figure out why she's so convinced. Don't judge, just be patient. Prepare for tearful revelations as she bares her soul to you. Give her a hug and reassurances.
If, when you to talk to her, she raises her voice, insists that you were staring at the boobs, and you begin to feel like you might get suckered into an argument, say “I need a minute to calm down. When I come back, please don't raise your voice.” Then, get space, and try again later.
(If she is still belligerent after your best efforts, I got nothing cuz that's when I'd give up tbh.)
Beyond that, don't call other women hot, or compliment their boobs, or talk about how big their boobs are. It'll hurt your gf's feelings, and she might even see it as disrespectful, plenty of girls see it that way.
Your gfs behavior isn't cool, but I can't give you advice on how to change her behavior. I can only give advice on how to hopefully disarm this scared woman you love. And hope she'll get a clue about who you are as a man, and stop feeling paranoid that you're some lookiloo male stereotype.
When you're both calm, ask her not to insist that you were staring, because you weren't. Ask her to explain /why/ she felt like you were staring. Maybe you took a long time to respond and she thought you were transfixed by the boobs? Maybe you were gazing with a glazed look, and your mouth kind of hanging open and your eyebrows raised? Lol I have no clue. Maybe she's just paranoid and thinks all men are mega lookiloos. Maybe her mom or dad raised her to feel that way, or maybe she's seen lots of jokes about it in the media.
Personally, I don't really care if my bf is staring at other ladies, as long as he's not doing it when I'm right there. But I'm sort of bisexual so maybe I'm a bit bi-ased. GET IT?
Anyway good luck.
As the book says, he’s not that into you. If he was, there is no way he’d go 2 days without a text much less 2 weeks and he would never go 6 months without seeing you. It’s only 4 hours. That’s nothing. I’m really sorry but I would start dating again. He isn’t the one.
You are a good man.
Unfortunately it really sounds like you guys have tried hard to stay together but you're not just not compatible anymore.
Fair enough, just be aware sometimes that mentality made in jest can incline us to 'go with the flow and assume it will work out' a little. I just want you to see it was your own instinct and decision to take action as well as his own issues that informed all of that, not luck and chance and etc.
And yes, absolutely. Joke is he will likely at some point try to throw even that in your face though that will yet again reinforce why it was a good idea haha.
Exactly this! I've been with my partner for 20 years. Do you think in 20 years I've never found anyone else attractive? That I've never had small “crushes” on other people?
There's a big difference between recognizing that someone is attractive and acting on that attraction. Relationships take work, and the husband and friend here violated all the trust that OP had in both them when they ambushed her with their request.
Yeah, you need to go no contact and get a fucking restraining order on that shithead. Document, screenshot, go to the cops.
So we are renting as squatters kind of, so we don’t have lot of rights in that sense. The company wont cover a lot, if anything even. I do have insurance that will probably cover the costs.
I only knew about the flood when another housemate came home and told me. My bedroom and bathroom are upstairs and the kitchen is downstairs. I tried to clean it and i got pretty far. But i think i was too late to save his room. And there were some places left wet because i did not have a lot of supplies to clean it. I only had 1 roll of toilet paper left or something. When he came home he continued cleaning, and i came to help again some minutes later. So to answer your question on who cleaned it: we both did but in hindsight i could’ve done more.
About the items that might be damaged, he did not really give an answer about what kind of damage. The only thing im sure of is the door plinth/baseboard. It got soaked and it will probably start to rot.
I hope I answered all your questions clearly.
My husband was very well aware of my feelings. That's why I made him get a vasectomy before we divorced.
Like I told OP, women don't hide kids from great men. There's missing reasons everywhere here.
I honestly don’t understand why you’re still with him. I mean… I get it but I don’t…
Why do you want to be with someone who treats you this way? Take Sarah out if it. Look at how your boyfriend is treating you. Is this really something you want to put up with?
And now let’s look at the Sarah part, why do you want to be second fiddle in your own relationship to someone who is going out of their way to make you miserable. Let her “win” and cut your losses already. This is only going to hurt more the longer you stay. Please have some self respect and leave. Love isn’t enough to make a relationship work and you deserve more than what you’re getting.
He said it was perfectly fine if it wasn’t my thing
I want to give you some really good advice here. I too was married to a man for 17 years who threatened divorce at every argument and to kill himself if I ever left. I stuck it out for 17 miserable, impossible, heartbreaking years. When his youngest was over 18 he went to an out of state conference and finally having enough I ran. He kept his word and shot himself in the head along an interstate one state away from our home. Do not waste years of your life on this man! Do not put yourself into a position where he feels the need to take you with him! Leave now! Leave and be happy. Leave and find a healthy relationship. Leave and live. You cannot fix him. You cannot reason with him out of his destruction. What he does is ONLY in his control. Yes, it’s manipulation and it will destroy any love, respect, and affection you have for him. Leave now! Pack a bag and go.
It would have been incredibly rude for your host NOT to offer you clean clothes to change into and to wash your muddy clothes.
What did your Bf think you should have done? Turned down the clean clothes, and been uncomfortable all night in your wet, muddy clothes? Jesus.