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Languages: en,es
Birth Date: 2004-04-18
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
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Date: January 15, 2023
Anyone who cheats is a piece of shit. Anyone who tells others they would kill themselves if they don't to xyz are a piece of shit.
Love the 2nd tho
I'll give you an upvote. Not because I agree with you (I don't). But because conversations benefit more from diverse, contrary, nuanced views than mob mentality.
That said, I don't think that she's making too much of it. Women are taught from a young age that much of our value is tied to our appearance (why do you think the makeup industry exists? Or the hours of getting ready to leave the house?) Our culture makes it very clear that our bodies are our currency.
Compound this with the general shame about vulvas. The amount of fear and trust that goes into showing a body part we've been taught to be ashamed of (“cross your legs!”). And the person who we most want to like it doesn't say it's beautiful… But like a stack of pancakes. Especially at OP's age, where showing people her vulva (after years of it being taboo) is still a very new thing. She's going to vividly remember that moment for decades, and never be confident that her private parts aren't embarrassing.
OP is entitled to her feelings. And your lack of empathy shows a lack of understanding about the female experience.
That said, I agree this sub is often too reactionary. And trying to break up what might be an otherwise great relationship over one bad joke is a bit much. I assume the bf wasn't trying to be cruel. Throughout our lifetimes we all make jokes that land poorly, and say things that don't reflect our real feelings. I say dumb stuff all the time. And because his intentions weren't bad, and he likewise doesn't understand the female experience, he's genuinely confused about why she's so upset. I'd explain the reasons I'm hurt, but cut him a little slack for his shitty apology. He's just a bit of a moron.
I also agree that OP will find life much easier if she doesn't get quite so upset about these types of things. She's entitled to her feelings – but life is full of people (often accidentally) saying things that hurt our feelings. Learning to let these barbs go, rather than dwelling on them, is better for long-term mental health.
Tell her to try exercising good sleep hygiene (Google it) to address her “insomnia.”
She needs to do things differently if only because she’s keeping you awake.