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Date: January 10, 2023
You keep saying you don’t think therapy will work but how do you know if you haven’t even tried? An outside perspective can help. They can guide you. You have got to stop using your unattractiveness as a crutch because honestly, the more you debase yourself the uglier you get to others. Confidence ups the level of attraction for other people.
In terms of just friends, push yourself to get out there. Join meet up and do activities with strangers. I understand it’s not easy to go from an introvert to socializing but it’s possible. You need to be willing to try.
Stop thinking your doomed to be alone for ever. It doesn’t have to be that way.
I give him the attention he likes when he asks for it.
Then it shouldn't be hard to do it when he doesn't ask for it too.
Gross
It really just comes down to acknowledging that people are different and that the behaviour which comes naturally to you may not come naturally to other people.
If you have to ask for something specific, it doesn't mean that the other person doesn't already feel the same way you do or that they are being inauthentic by following through, it just means they come from a different place and are now trying to learn how to speak a language you actually understand.
Nope, break up worthy!
Thank you so much for the support. I want to cry tears of joy at work right now!
Thank you so much for the support. I want to cry tears of joy at work right now!
Thank you so much for the support. I want to cry tears of joy at work right now!
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
You should've broken up the second he blocked you. That's an automatic relationship killer right there. This is how he will always be: shitty and uncaring. Your health is an annoyance, an inconvenience to him. He does not love you. You're dating a dumb little boy. Dump him.
When I had surgery, my partner was there 110% for me. He went above and beyond, he showed his devotion in everything.
Don't settle for less than you deserve.
Thank you so much for your response. My family wasn’t very supportive, my sister was but my mother and brother were not. my mothers response when the original thing happened indicates to me that if I told her what happened here she would say something similar. That I put myself in the situation. And maybe I did? I ignored red flags.
He ignored me all day yesterday and I was hoping he ghosted me, but he contacted me this morning trying to be sweet and I used him ignoring me as a springboard to act completely bat shit crazy over it. And then break up with him. He was still insistent about trying to meet in person to talk about it and so I FaceTime him and I deserve an Oscar for my performance. I think he took the bait.
So I think it’s going to be OK. My doctors appointment went OK and I have pain meds now.
Check your lease. Most likely him moving in is a violation of the lease. You can either talk to her directly or get the landlord involved. It’s not fair that you’re paying to support him.
Check your lease. Most likely him moving in is a violation of the lease. You can either talk to her directly or get the landlord involved. It’s not fair that you’re paying to support him.
Hold your hand up in the stop signal and continue talking. Just talk over the top of her. When you politely stop for rude interruptions they just keep on.
It’s strategy has worked for me.
Gamer here. Totally know about waiting for a game to come out and the excitement.
And having friends or family Sabotage game time.
You can have plans order food and bam someone wants your time and thet refuse to change to another day Its just a game you do not need to be waisting time…ect ect ect
Relationship is even worse..you spend more time playing games then you do with me.
A friends wife lets him have 15 minutes a week.
He learned to zoom through as fast as he can in games ..
Lol it gets worse
Tell her Saturday you can do it but Friday is your chill day
You can also try to get her into gaming.
Saying is couples that game together stay together…
Good luck!!
I have read all the comments, and a lot of people assume I just flat out told him to stop watching porn. I have not, since I know that's not how things work.
Im hoping to find people in a similar situation, who have overcome it. I would love to stop worrying about it, I never asked for it, and it's not fun. I beat myself up about it a lot. Also I have no hate against people who are in the sex industry, as long as it's ethical.
I do know that I'm as big as a problem as he is, and I'm willing to change, but I don't know where to start.
Also people who are dming me porn are just so weird, so could you please stop that.
Tell your boyfriend, I would either cut contact with her or go very low contact from now on, she let herself get feelings for someone she can never have this is on her, I'd also tell my boyfriend say she admitted it and think subsequently he should let her know they will never happen with or without you around, it's not being mean I think if he let's her know he ain't interested never will be yada yada will help her move forward, but even then I'd keep my distance.
You might be but that doesn't mean everyone else will be.
Going through a breakup right now for this exact scenario. We were together two years and still live together (yay, shitty economy!), but I begged and pleaded for him to start CARING. Imagine having to literally beg the person who says they love you to actually SHOW they love and respect you. We tried couples counseling, multiple long nights of heart-to-heart conversations, the whole shebang. And it'd get a little better for a week or two, but every.single.motherfucking.time it'd go back to status quo. I'd work 65-70 hour weeks, while he'd work 30 hours, and still be responsible for 95% of household maintenance. I'd walk up to him naked and ask for sex, the response would be “I'm in the middle of a (video) game with friends.
Finally broke it off two weeks ago. I still absolutely love him and I fucking desperately wish he would actually wise up and act like the 30 year old man he is, but I know it will never happen. Not permanently. It kills me right now, but long-term I know I am doing what's best for me.
Why is that insane?
It sounds like you might not be monogamous. Nothing wrong with that— polyamory can be rewarding, but it’s important you aren’t stringing along monogamous women. They’re both valid and legitimate orientations. I think you should disclose the kind of relationship status you want with these women clearly. Those who aren’t interested go, and those who are can stay if they’re still into it. And if none of them are interested, you can start dating with polyamory in mind intentionally.
I wasn’t rejected by him. It’s just a complicated situation
I have double the PTO that almost anyone I know has. My job is more flexible than average here. I just cannot fathom leaving my wife and our home by myself for weeks on end or how I would possibly justify that to her. I don’t even know anyone who’s done that and had their marriage survive. I know plenty of people who go away for a few days to a week, but spending half of your annual vacation time on yourself is selfish, imo.
I mean, you think your paradigm is right and I think mine is. That’s how different viewpoints work.
Tell her she had her chance and unfortunately she wasn't patient enough to see it out when you're both growing into adulthood and maturity.
I understand. You could be older than him- everything I said is still true. I have anxiety and shake during confrontation as well. I dated someone who would get annoyed with me for reacting “fearful” of him when he raised his voice. It’s not kind or fair behavior, but I loved him and thought I couldn’t live without him.
Turns out I am so happy I didn’t waste more of my 20s on someone who made me feel small like that. I wish you all the luck and strength, you got this.
He says he thinks he wants to spend his life with me but isn’t ready for marriage. But yes he said 5 years but every year he still says in 5 years. He’s still saying maybe in 5 years now. That’s what concerns me
I had a friend visit me two weeks ago. I drove 115 miles showing her sites in the city. You’re telling me I should’ve charged her $75? More than a full tank of gas? And I shouldn’t pay a dime? Sorry but if she was here posting that story I’m sure everyone commenting would tell her to tell me to fuck off ?
I guess i see about the 0.65 maybe being for purely the costs of the car but that is so steep. Also do you get paid separately for the time you spent driving to the airport?
Fair enough about the friendship commentary. Still don’t think $10 is more than fair but if I wasn’t already having issues with her I wouldn’t be here posting and wouldn’t be so reluctant to pay.
He works 6 more hours a week but she’s also a full time student
most of my friends are in at least one group like this lol. Im surprised so many guys are saying they've never seen it. The funniest I've seen is a group chat of a bunch of regional executives my friend got pulled into at some networking event. A bunch of 50+ year old guy discussing global marketing trends interposed with random instagram girls
The amount that you trust someone doesn't change whether or not they will cheat on you. Someone who you don't trust at all is just as likely to cheat on you as someone who you trust with your life. This is not a matter of how much you trust someone, but instead, it's about knowing that your trust will not change reality.
Sweetheart, you seem to think that this is just one little bump in the road that'll pass and everything will be okay. It won't. The vast majority of cheaters do not stop. If you confront him, as you should, he'll likely cry and apologize and cut off contact (or pretend to). Next thing you know a bit down the line, he'll be banging another of your friends, the same friend, or someone else.
He's been doing this for three months, likely even longer with other girls. It's not going to stop, regardless of how much you love him. You deserve better than this. Drop him and drop the friend who was happy to sleep with your boyfriend, she'll do it again.
This ^ Will provide me with more proof as to deleted messages. We only delete the texts we want to hide so if she’s deleting anything from their thread, that would be a huge indicator
It would be nice if your MIL showed you some respect and listened to what you were saying and then did as you asked. But she’s not! If she won’t listen to you, you absolutely need to get SO to speak to her…
Keeping the middleman out only works if there is respect on both sides, and it doesn’t seem like there is.
MIL is acting like this is her house, like SHE has the right to the final decorating say. MIL is not respecting OP, and while OP dealing with her would be good,MIL needs to see that if she ignores OPs wishes she is also ignoring SOs wishes and HE needs to make that clear
Check out the subs r/JUSTNOMIL and r/raisedbynarcissists – your poor wife will feel right at home there. And for the moment, your wife should just block her on her phone, so she doesn't have to deal with the nastiness for the time being. An about to burst pregnant woman doesn't need anything more that induces anxiety – having to give birth is bad enough already.
He can fuck his hand if he is disgusted by that. You don't need to feel insecure about this, contrary if you feel sexy then behave so. It can be your preference as your personal care & hygiene, and he needs to respect that. Seriously 30 yo and still behaves like mama's little boy.
How close are you with your boyfriends friend and fiancé? I ask, because weddings are expensive. For my upcoming wedding personally we’re only giving +1s to people in long term relationships & live together, as well as we’re friendly/like their partner. It isn’t anything personal, but we only want people at our day that we know, love, and want to celebrate with. At this point with the cost of weddings being insanely inflated, people are being more specific about “rules” like that. If as you’ve said you’ve only met them two or three times, well, that’s your answer right there. You’re not owed an invitation to someone’s wedding, and groomsmen aren’t always guarantee +1s. Sorry.
I’m seeing why you weren’t invited. You were angry and hurt that they didn’t invite you. They invite you but you think it’s an insincere invite. You get mad about that perceived slight. Then they go out of their way to make sure you feel included and you are even angrier. And. You’ve only met them 2-3 times. What did you want? They made it right. They couldn’t go back in time and invite you in the beginning. They made it right.
People lie, she lied, they fucked. The End.
I thought my bf was being outrageous for asking me to buy 4 lightbulbs for a light fixture at his house, that I complain is too bright and we have been together for 7 months. I can’t imagine him asking me to split his med bills
Agree. Dear god please make the partner the focus on the letter. Don’t write a letter that’s all about how bad you feel and how you have been impacted by your actions etc.
100%. I see this stuff sometimes in the infidelity support sub I give advice to sometimes. You can often pick up on the troll posts after awhile. As someone who experienced infidelity some time ago, pretty pathetic that people do this kind of thing for attention and engagement.
I never suggest the divorce card straight out the gate but this is unbelievable. Your husband has crossed a line here and I would personally be considering it if it were me, hope you get your cat back.