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Date: October 27, 2022
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Aren’t you a man? People can be shitty.
Don’t get back with this kid. While your parents shouldn’t be ignoring you, as that’s abusive too, they’re 100% right to tell you not to see him
Yes and my partner is the sole earner. He wouldn't lend her that much money. Quite frankly, neither would I. It's credit card debt. Not a great sign that she needs a loan to cover debt.
I wouldn't say I'm struggling to be healthy, there nothing healthy about me. I want to die every day and I can't get rid of that feeling.
I see you, man. That vibe is evident in your post. That's why I'm tough loving you right now. Suicidal ideation, even if you don't have a plan or necessarily intention, is an EMERGENCY! That's your psyche imploring you to get into action.
I need to know what to do going forward
I'm telling you exactly what you need to do. You've already done the first step, which is to forget about any relationships for the foreseeable future. This is you time. The next step is to get into INTENSIVE therapy, immediately. Like, full court press. You have to figure out what is causing this depression and get it under control before any other aspect of your life can fall into place. Get comfortable with discomfort…it's gonna be a long ride.
You don't have to feel like this, man. Nobody does. Let that sink in. The worst depths of depression come from hopelessness. There are things you can do.
You only keep focusing on your own money. How is it better for ‘us’ if it’s your own money? You shouldn’t be concerned if it’s his or yours. Or if you need to depend on him.
Your independence isn’t valuable for having children. Your first priority is being a mother. If you are hard up for money then you must work but that’s not a benefit to the child.
So now you went from affording two children to not really being able with your new story.
When stories keep flip flopping you will never get an answer.
So will you regret having one child? Probably because you still wanted it. But were you willing to make the trade offs to do it? Only limited time will tell.
He definitely has the app on his phone. Apps will send you useless notifications to try and get you to engage. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. I don't really bother deleting and redownloading apps all the time. If I enter a relationship I just deactivate my account/kill notifications to it. If the relationship lasts long enough then sure I'll go and delete it.
He still has the app on his phone for sure. If he's lying about having it that's unfortunate. Maybe he just hasn't deleted it yet and worries you'll jump to conclusions. Or maybe he's a piece of shit who knows. Not really enough to go on I think.
Yeah, dump him.
This sounds harsh but please don’t raise a son with this “man”. He can’t be a good father if he isn’t a good husband and if you let him raise this child with you he will corrupt any sense of masculinity and personality that he will grow up to have. He locked you, his healing postpartum wife, out of the bedroom you share so he can have a hissy. He pulled his shenanigans at the hospital around witnesses. He will escalate. Don’t put you or your son through this. Call the lawyer.
I just want to remind you him saying “he wasn’t able to finish since the start of our relationship” is him gaslighting you. ❤️ I hope you’re doing what’s best for you babe!
100% this
Tell him if he’s threatened by a girl carrying milk, that’s on him. ??♂️
What do you do? Kick both their asses to the curb, that's what.
Name 3 ways your life is better with him in it than it would be without him