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So I’m catholic and from my understanding that isn’t a requirement… my cousin who was baptized a few years back has my mom has his god mother and an uncle as his godfather, unless there was some change I am unaware of, I think that they are misunderstanding, or there is some ulterior motive to get you guys married in church under the guise of the godparents thing.
I think you’d need to cut down first rather than just stopping straight away. If it’s been years then it’s an addiction. Speak to your wife and discuss slowing down your usage with the intention to stop. There are also places to go for support whilst doing this. You have to ask yourself is it worth losing your wife over.
I thought it's something serious, but she has just been in relationship with person your family wouldn't like cause ethnicity and religion. Why does this matter again?
Ethnicity itself us irrelevant, unless you are racist. Culture and religion can be very toxic, but just because some is involved in them in theory doesn't say anything. Values represented by your region of heritage and religion need not be shared by an individual(even if they are practiced by their parents)
Finally, really? Most young people date whoever seem interesting. This btw helps to get to know about reality of relationships and then make better decision in the future. You have both left their partnets for each other so don't be stuck-up.
You always look at someone's actions not words. In saying that though, he has no right to swear at you like that. When are you going to open your eyes my dear? Take off your rose tinted glasses.
He doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you. You are not his priority at all. He doesn't give a ? My dear …. why are you with him? … like seriously, why have you settled to this low standard? Of all the men in the word, you've settled for this one. Give me one good reason why? Please don't say it's because you love him …. dig deeper and find a reason.
You seriously need to do some self love and work on your own self confidence and self esteem. You love him more then he loves you. I also think you love him more then you love yourself and that's not ok.
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This sounds like an oppressive, abusive relationship where the BF has virtually trapped her financially and she may not think she has a way out. He is completely taking advantage of another human being. She is essentially his slave. It doesn't matter if they are married or not, it is wrong.
You need to be single for a while – I'm talking at least a year.
You left your ex for a reason. You weren't happy with something – whether that was in the relationship or in yourself is unclear. In any case, that unhappiness will remain until you take some time to get to the bottom of things. And that's a journey that is best taken alone.
Date yourself, love yourself, explore yourself, and then see what romantic options will suit you best.
His anger is justified. He got with someone who consented at the time and she's now accusing him of being a rapist, which is one of the worst things to be accused of.
Go get your masters!!! He's choosing his life for him, and not even considering coming for you! He can find a job anywhere… he's a man. Especially in Europe. You can't. You're a woman in a third world country trying to get higher education & a job. You want to support yourself. I think that support starts now.
Can u expand about how you mention this would make u concerned to even get married? As in, you think he should worry about this family behavior annoying him for life, or do you mean as in a red flag in the person he is marrying?
I've been in therapy for a year now and learning what it means to have boundaries and also finally I feel REALLY comfortable with my boundaries and know how to enforce them, I don't need to let everyone know what my boundaries are because they are for me, etc…. so I'm interested in your take on this.
I think they should Grey rock him and hire a bouncer and when the family complains afterward I would refuse to respond about it.
you mention that you still can't satisfy him. is it because you wouldn't want sex still? i get that you did that under some different conditions, even the condition that you didn't love him, but do you think that might be different now?
perhaps it's time to at least see if the two of you can resume a marriage relationship. he doesn't seem to be ignoring you or treating you badly…he is very much still a friend to you and even likes you enough to cuddle with. perhaps it's his turn to fall in love with you also.
It depends on your relationship with her and whether she is open to hearing what you have to say. If she's not ready to listen, there is little you can do. Her decisions are not yours or your mother's to make.
You… get to know each other. You talk, you gauge if there is any chemistry, if you both want, you hold hands, you kiss, have sex. Anything but declaring yourselves officially a couple.
Hate to break it to you but they 100% fucked and idk why you are believing the version of the story from someone who already established they were lying to you and broke your trust. And you stayed with him for 3 years? Jesus this sub has the most depressing content
I'm going to guess your relationship is a relatively new one, and it sounds like your girlfriend is more in need of a good friend right now than another boyfriend.
Her previous relationships are obviously still very much in the foreground of her mind. Not necessarily because she longs for them, but because she hasn't yet processed how they made her feel at the time and how those feelings still affect her to this day. While it's entirely possible that you're an insecure person or has an issue making other people's problems about yourself, I think that's besides the point here.
Your girlfriend is still reeling from whatever feelings her previous relationships left her with. She's doing the the right thing by working on this with a therapist, but that doesn't mean she's ready to commit to another relationship just yet.
Tell him he will be crippling your ability to care for him in his retirement if he torpedoes your education. There will be no marriage and if he stops your studying he will we no parental support from you.
Go about it by 100% respecting her boundaries and earning her trust. Honestly, it does sound like a gray area. She has now explained how it affected her. Your apologies are sincere. You have new boundaries. Take things slowly from here.
So I’m catholic and from my understanding that isn’t a requirement… my cousin who was baptized a few years back has my mom has his god mother and an uncle as his godfather, unless there was some change I am unaware of, I think that they are misunderstanding, or there is some ulterior motive to get you guys married in church under the guise of the godparents thing.
I think you’d need to cut down first rather than just stopping straight away. If it’s been years then it’s an addiction. Speak to your wife and discuss slowing down your usage with the intention to stop. There are also places to go for support whilst doing this. You have to ask yourself is it worth losing your wife over.
I thought it's something serious, but she has just been in relationship with person your family wouldn't like cause ethnicity and religion. Why does this matter again?
Ethnicity itself us irrelevant, unless you are racist. Culture and religion can be very toxic, but just because some is involved in them in theory doesn't say anything. Values represented by your region of heritage and religion need not be shared by an individual(even if they are practiced by their parents)
Finally, really? Most young people date whoever seem interesting. This btw helps to get to know about reality of relationships and then make better decision in the future. You have both left their partnets for each other so don't be stuck-up.
You always look at someone's actions not words. In saying that though, he has no right to swear at you like that. When are you going to open your eyes my dear? Take off your rose tinted glasses.
He doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you. You are not his priority at all. He doesn't give a ? My dear …. why are you with him? … like seriously, why have you settled to this low standard? Of all the men in the word, you've settled for this one. Give me one good reason why? Please don't say it's because you love him …. dig deeper and find a reason.
You seriously need to do some self love and work on your own self confidence and self esteem. You love him more then he loves you. I also think you love him more then you love yourself and that's not ok.
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This sounds like an oppressive, abusive relationship where the BF has virtually trapped her financially and she may not think she has a way out. He is completely taking advantage of another human being. She is essentially his slave. It doesn't matter if they are married or not, it is wrong.
your gf doesn't want you to go on ANY HOLIDAY WITHOUT HER.
She then also said she wouldn't be happy if I went away with guy friends, but would be more ok with that since I am straight.
She is being very double standardy.
It doesn't matter if your bff is male or female. she basically said you aren't allowed to go anywhere without her.
You need to be single for a while – I'm talking at least a year.
You left your ex for a reason. You weren't happy with something – whether that was in the relationship or in yourself is unclear. In any case, that unhappiness will remain until you take some time to get to the bottom of things. And that's a journey that is best taken alone.
Date yourself, love yourself, explore yourself, and then see what romantic options will suit you best.
Once divorce is finalized. Completely cut them off from ur life.
Esp Ellie.
Let her be alone with Jacob and eventually miserable. What she did was unforgivable.
Jacob is trash and will eventually see. But smh I feel so bad for ur sis
You could look at alanon if he's using and stealing to use im sure you can find a community of people who have dealt with the same thing
His anger is justified. He got with someone who consented at the time and she's now accusing him of being a rapist, which is one of the worst things to be accused of.
Go get your masters!!! He's choosing his life for him, and not even considering coming for you! He can find a job anywhere… he's a man. Especially in Europe. You can't. You're a woman in a third world country trying to get higher education & a job. You want to support yourself. I think that support starts now.
Can u expand about how you mention this would make u concerned to even get married? As in, you think he should worry about this family behavior annoying him for life, or do you mean as in a red flag in the person he is marrying?
I've been in therapy for a year now and learning what it means to have boundaries and also finally I feel REALLY comfortable with my boundaries and know how to enforce them, I don't need to let everyone know what my boundaries are because they are for me, etc…. so I'm interested in your take on this.
I think they should Grey rock him and hire a bouncer and when the family complains afterward I would refuse to respond about it.
you mention that you still can't satisfy him. is it because you wouldn't want sex still? i get that you did that under some different conditions, even the condition that you didn't love him, but do you think that might be different now?
perhaps it's time to at least see if the two of you can resume a marriage relationship. he doesn't seem to be ignoring you or treating you badly…he is very much still a friend to you and even likes you enough to cuddle with. perhaps it's his turn to fall in love with you also.
It depends on your relationship with her and whether she is open to hearing what you have to say. If she's not ready to listen, there is little you can do. Her decisions are not yours or your mother's to make.
“I have repeatedly asked you to stop. If you cannot exhibit enough self control to stop asking me out, I will be forced to end our friendship.”
You… get to know each other. You talk, you gauge if there is any chemistry, if you both want, you hold hands, you kiss, have sex. Anything but declaring yourselves officially a couple.
Hate to break it to you but they 100% fucked and idk why you are believing the version of the story from someone who already established they were lying to you and broke your trust. And you stayed with him for 3 years? Jesus this sub has the most depressing content
How long have you been together?
I'm going to guess your relationship is a relatively new one, and it sounds like your girlfriend is more in need of a good friend right now than another boyfriend.
Her previous relationships are obviously still very much in the foreground of her mind. Not necessarily because she longs for them, but because she hasn't yet processed how they made her feel at the time and how those feelings still affect her to this day. While it's entirely possible that you're an insecure person or has an issue making other people's problems about yourself, I think that's besides the point here.
Your girlfriend is still reeling from whatever feelings her previous relationships left her with. She's doing the the right thing by working on this with a therapist, but that doesn't mean she's ready to commit to another relationship just yet.
Tell him he will be crippling your ability to care for him in his retirement if he torpedoes your education. There will be no marriage and if he stops your studying he will we no parental support from you.
Go about it by 100% respecting her boundaries and earning her trust. Honestly, it does sound like a gray area. She has now explained how it affected her. Your apologies are sincere. You have new boundaries. Take things slowly from here.