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Date: November 23, 2022
You’re right, thanks for making me open my eyes. I was really short sighted on that topic.
I'm approaching 40. On or around my birthday i make an effort to get one of those paper burger king crowns to wear day of because its fun.
How would not marrying him put you in physical harm?
Speak to a lawyer. One who can counsel you on specifics of having kids, buying a house and finances when not married (do your research on a lawyer, don't just pick AAAAA Lawyer because they come up first in a search).
You already got your answer regarding how she views relationship. She literally had an affair with a married man twice her age. So i don’t think marriage vows mean anything to her. Don’t marry this girl. Personally id breakup over this.
Together almost 8 months, have been friends for over 3
I have to agree with something a few other commenters have said; it doesn't matter if it's in your head or not. I will, however, take an understanding of the fact that you'd like to seek actual advice and potentially work on your relationship instead of jumping the gun and just leaving him. Everyone on Reddit is quick to jump to that decision immediately, as if it's truly as easy as just saying the words and walking away. Frequently, it's really not that easy, especially when it comes to one's mental state and strength. Trust me, I know.
You should consider communicating this feeling with him. Probably not through a normal conversation, you mentioned he comes off as annoyed when you've talked about this general subject in the past so that wouldn't be conducive to a meaningful conversation. Partially because he may not actually be annoyed. Instead, it could be a trauma response from your previous experiences, incorrectly interpreting his state as annoyed so you'll be less inclined to say anything else about it. It's a defense mechanism of sorts, and common with PTSD and/or anxiety.
I would recommend writing a letter, it would give you the opportunity to take your time to get your words right. Maybe mention in the letter how your therapist thinks it's most likely an aspect of the PTSD, and it doesn't necessarily mean you actually believe he's actively cheating on you (even if you do. This is more to try and pad his ego a bit so he'll be more inclined to finish reading the letter). How he responds to the letter, if he reads it, will probably give you the answer you need about whether or not it's worthwhile to keep working on your relationship. Create a list of what you would personally find to be acceptable as potential responses, or more importantly, create a list of what isn't acceptable. Then, you just have to decide for yourself, and stick with your convictions.
You should expect a very similar reaction when your bf finally talks with her. It sounds like her overstepping boundaries and being overbearing is a consistent theme.
Don't be surprised if she cries all day and/or tries to get other family members to make you feel like you and bf are the bad guys. You don't have to be aggressive about it, but you need to be very firm in describing your boundaries and your bf needs to back you up 1000%. As other commenters mentioned, any wavering on either of your parts will result in no net change in her behavior.