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Date: October 10, 2022
4 days ago you made a post about being 19f in the dating scene so which is it
The real question is , how has she not worked in 20+ years when in her previous post she was a 19 yr old female talking about dating
You clearly crossed a boundary. You don't cuddle with someone of the opposite gender when he's in a towel. This a boundary that most monogamous couples would have unless stated otherwise. How would you have felt if you came home and saw your boyfriend cuddling up a girl when she's half naked.
It's not unreasonable for him to ask for a paternity test. You should do it just to clear it up for him. Are you worried the results would show otherwise? Then you should apologize for your behaviour, discuss boundaries for your relationship and compromise.
Does he have a job?
Is he normally this emotional? It honestly sounds like a bi-product of the pain killers they have him on at the hospital.
I was once on some pain killers while waiting for a surgery and started sobbing to my wife that I was going to get fat during recovery because I wouldn’t be able to workout for two months and she wouldn’t be attracted to me anymore and leave me. We laugh about it now.
I’m not normally that insecure. It was just the meds.
I'd bring it up, that's pretty weird. She shouldn't feel so entitled to your money, and if she does you might be looking for different kinds of relationshipsm
No, this is toxic behavior and no one deserves to be treated like this.
Lol ever heard of “ Play stupid games you will win stupid prizes” not ever guy is a cheater and not every women is a cheater’s. Not everyone wants drama in their life.
Bullet dodged!
This sub has a karma limit so I doubt it
Do you think that her being an enabler reflects on how he was raised and that he's unable to change? Seems like if she babied him & didn't correct her kids then they haven't and wouldn't be able to recognize they're in the wrong
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I know, and I am ashamed but it’s really hard for me. I don’t really have any social circle at this point. I’ve tried to do it, but I was terrified to cut the last person who can actually be there for me irl.
If you realised your sisters worth you would have cut this creep out of your life the moment you found out your husband was a predator.
This is not an issues with two sides to be carefully evaluated, like PlayStation vs Xbox. For most people, this is a simple right vs wrong argument. You both took marriage vows. You agreed to forsake all others. He now wants to rewrite that to his convenience, at the expense of you. For most people, that would result in a simple “no thank-you, here are the divorce papers”.
It WAS sleazy hotel sex. You were not in love. You were selfish, unfeeling and frankly dumb for spending 3 years being the side piece of an asshole and hiding it from his girlfriend. Do you have no morals at all? Tell. Her.
PastLives, your exGF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your exGF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
PastLives, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
Because her friends said so!
Fucking run dude! This is a sign!
You’re 24! You brain has barely finished development and you think you’re ready to marry this girl? Do you know who you are and what your values are? Do her values perfectly align with yours? Do you both want the same things in life? Can you see yourself being happy with this woman for the rest of your life?
If it were me, I would not do it bro. You know what my wife told me when I apologized for not getting her a nicer ring? She said, “I don’t care about that, I wouldn’t care if you offered me a ring out of a crackerjack box. We have the rest of our lives for that, I’m just happy you want to spend it with me.” And bro let me tell you, that kind of love is the kind of love you marry.
So I’ve been with my husband almost 10 years. I learned about 3 years in that he slept with his ex while we were “talking”. It sucked to find out, but I can also acknowledge that we weren’t in a relationship. I moved past it pretty quickly because we weren’t exclusive.
It’s a personal choice you have to make for yourself. Will you hold this against her forever? Will you always feel mad at her? If so, then you need to leave. It hurts learning about this stuff but it’s not fair on either party if the wedge will always be there.
He was with this girl before you right? What’s the issue?
As soon as we hooked up for the first time she hasn’t hooked up with anyone. We hooked up a week before becoming exclusive.
im definitely judging you because you emotionally abuse him so you are the fucking garbage.
Has it? Will he never be as adoring again then because he used to love me so much and look up to his dad as his biggest role model. That can’t go.
So you mean there is NO possibility he intentionally decided to do something dumb for the hell of it out of jumping the gun?
So what's your question? You have to have one of those here or the mods delete your post. o_O
I don’t know what that has to do with anything. He knows I’m not one to just take anyone back after something like this
Ohh he pulling that card, my ex wife isolated me so I can talk to her if I want.
He making a fool out of you, and if they ain't already meeting to fuck they are on there way there.
Sit him down and lay all the cards on the table and stick to it say.
I'm very uncomfortable with you talking to a women you use to be intimate with, I've also seen that messages have been deleted as I looked before you offered so I know that your talking about sometimes you don't want me to see,
I don't care if you don't like me looking through your phone, I wouldn't have too if you was trust worthy.
I'm giving you two choices, stop all communication with her block and delete her number, or I will block and delete you..
If he still refuses says he can have friends yada yada he not doing anything wrong,
Then end it.
Become there having an affair… and on there way if they haven't already to having a physical one.
So tell him that and if he don't you need to walk away because that means your relationship isn't as impossible as this old married women
I am so sorry you are going through this,there is absolutely no excuse for cheating. It sounds like you have checked out of this relationship. Before you found out was he a constant disappointment, not reliable, not grateful and taking you for granted? Were tou expecting it, did he exhibit any suspicious behaviour,has he done it before? I am sorry for all the questions, I am just trying to brain storm with you maybe you could find your answer in one of those questions. I qm also thinking that maybe because you have been his rock for a very long time you endured alot so it toughened you up. again I am so sorry, you deserve love, and loyalty, my heart goes out to you, and I hope from the bottom of my heart that you pull through, you are very strong and brave.
The man is 24, not 50. 'won't change' tells a lot about your life experience or lack thereof and how shallow you are as a person.
It doesn’t have to be an accusation. It can be a “I don’t want to have the doubt in my mind.”
No girl does? And this was going on for a week or more.
Sex is one of the most ultimate ways you can show trust in someone, be vulnerable with them – I feel. It’s your gift to them and theirs to you.
So the fact that he betrayed that trust – didn’t respect your wishes/consent or your body. I would never open up to him again, sexually or platonically.
“I’ve seen worse” is not really a standard I would hold for letting someone be that vulnerable with me.
He has shown you he doesn’t respect you in the most visceral context.
Please. Respect yourself and leave.
Sounds like the girl was jealous she wasn’t getting all the attention and embarrassed you on purpose.
She should drop their contact to only a professional level. No extras or outside conversations. Personal information will come up in conversations even at work but she should keep them short.
Time to stop calling them. Don’t put your child through what you’re going through.
Both my pregnancies have been shared with my sisters and my family managed to celebrate both wonderfully.
my advice is leave her alone.
Does your wife know about the cam girl?? To many people including myself, talking to someone online and nutting with them is DEFINITELY CHEATINGGGGG. So you’re a cheater. Hot. She will definitely find you more attractive now
I have already told them a long time ago that I wouldn’t be coming to events and accepting that my partner is constantly excluded, I also have minimal contact with them. The issue is, they keep continuing to reach out and send the same invites over and over despite me making my stance clear
No that’s not normal and based purely on my 0.000001% knowledge of the human body and how it works that sounds like a heart problem that a doctor should be checking out
I'd like to add a four. Joking about cheating.
My fiancé and I first talked about the future of our relationship after 1 week of talking. The first conversation about timelines and expectations was after a few months of dating. The first very serious talk about marriage, children, etc. was after a year. Talking about it early on doesn’t mean you have to do it early on. We got engaged after 4 years together and will be getting married on our 6th anniversary.
NOT AUTOMATICALLY 50-50!
Oh yes the far more equitable 55 / 45 split. Really pull out the big guns with forensically verified video evidence of cheating and you might even manage a 60/40!