Hold her close and kiss her and try: “Hey my love, can I talk to you about something? So… I very seriously love feeling wanted by you and you turn me on and I want you too, very much, but sometimes–like just a little bit, in certain situations–I feel overloaded by touch.
Like sometimes when I'm trying to concentrate on something and you grab me, my head's just in a different place and my circuits get overloaded. I feel like I need a tiny bit more space to pursue you more. Just a little shift, not an overhaul–I love our connection, and I love your attention. I just want to create a little more space for erotic tension between us, space for me to come to you. Does this make any sense?”
And if she's not mad, then show her what you'd like to do if she gave you the space.
Yeah, not likely someone is just suddenly going to quit at 36 is it if they haven’t already is it?
“Making sure they get to appointments on time!”
Sure, for the one appointment they have every two months….
Did she really just delete her name and post???
Hold her close and kiss her and try: “Hey my love, can I talk to you about something? So… I very seriously love feeling wanted by you and you turn me on and I want you too, very much, but sometimes–like just a little bit, in certain situations–I feel overloaded by touch.
Like sometimes when I'm trying to concentrate on something and you grab me, my head's just in a different place and my circuits get overloaded. I feel like I need a tiny bit more space to pursue you more. Just a little shift, not an overhaul–I love our connection, and I love your attention. I just want to create a little more space for erotic tension between us, space for me to come to you. Does this make any sense?”
And if she's not mad, then show her what you'd like to do if she gave you the space.
yall way too young and immature for marriage
How do I (18m) stop my friend (18f) from being a dickhead towards me sometimes
You don't – you can't. You don't control her actions, behaviours, or choices – and she is choosing to say these things to you.
Why not ask her why she does that in the moment next time? “Hey, that's really hurtful, why would you think it was OK to say that to me?”
You're happiness doesn't take a back seat to his. You both deserve to be happy, even if it isn't with each other.
Keep your self-respect and break up with her….let her go after the guy she actually wants
Yes, we’re all extremely evil and all women do is lie. You should stay away from all of us forever just to be safe. We do this regularly, after all.