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He is 45 years old. He knows it’s wrong. He doesn’t care. Fixing the uncle isn’t OP’s job. Calling the police and protecting his son is.
How should you proceed?
You should stop spending this much time and energy thinking about what someone who is not your partner thinks or feels about you. You should probably also end your relationship, your partner deserves better. ?
Always tough. Once you are both calm, ask him to set boundaries with you so he knows you care but also can't deny your needs. Afterwards make sure to connect before you disconnect by doing something he truly enjoys before spending time apart.
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Moving forward how am I supposed to reinforce my boundaries?
Sounds like maybe you two haven’t been together very long, so set up a boundary right away that If they scream at you like that for something you didn’t know (sticking your tongue out…) then you will not tolerate it.
Stress to them that you’re willing to work with them to avoid things that trigger them, but you have to know what those things are first. Otherwise your relationship will be like navigating land mines all the time.
If you don’t set this boundary now I think it sends the message to them that they can lose their composure like this anytime over anything at all and you’re expected to just fall in line. That’s no way to be.
Embarrassing af for you lmaoooo
“He isn’t aggressive anymore” yes he is he just knows he has to pretend not to be a for a while because it freaked you out. This guy has so many red flags it’s unbelievable
How long were you guys together for?
Why should nt he? The boyfriend was accused in front of the family.
I think it was only right that it was addressed with the group.
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He isn't likely to change. You can tell him it hurts your feelings. It won't matter. The best you can probably do is work on not taking any of his words to heart. Seek counseling. Get to a point where you understand that he has a problem, and his behavior has nothing to do with you.
I was given a monthy one when I had my jaw surgery. Helped in keeping track of everything 🙂
He’s my first serious boyfriend and I am his first serious girlfriend. Does this change anything? Every other bf I had before was in middle school/ lasted a month.
I think she is just looking for some friends. The fact that she bought a present for your son and wants to have play dates including your wife sounds like she might be lonely and is hoping to expand her friend circle. You are all of similar ages. I would encourage your wife to be more friendly with her. It seems innocent.
He love bombed me in the beginning , used to call me daily for an hour in addition to messaging practically the entire day, also would call late night. So yes, I did have expectations
Walking around someone's child with nothing other than boxers (which yeah, people can see your junk in) is inappropriate. Some people don't view it to be so, but you should listen to your gf and hear why this makes her uncomfortable.
I’m so sorry she’s done this to you and I’m sick that she’s hiding behind her diagnosis and seems to have less than no remorse for cheating and was waiting for when she could monkey branch. “See where it goes” means see if it’s worth leaving you for you’re the backup the financial stability unless he’s better. She doesn’t love you you’re the second option, that’s not love. I’m sorry you’re probably going through an awful lot but I promise you, you deserve better than someone who doesn’t love or respect you
Finally a dude on Reddit that knows when to keep his mouth shut.
OP, you are correct, nothing good comes from this. Admit to anime pony porn or pregnant midgets or something simple like that.
What I will never understand is why they are posting it here instead of sending it as a synopsis to Harlequin.
Hell, even turn it into an ebook and sell it on Amazon yourself.
Got to be more profit in this than you get for karma on a throwaway.
And cucumbers?
She says that she is satisfied with me, but why would she bring that up without a reason then? Like, Who nonchalantly pulls something like this into conversation about hurt feelings?
You don’t need to feel empathy for your boyfriend at all. You didn’t do anything wrong here. This happened way before you and your boyfriend even met, it was a one night stand, and you no longer talk to the guy? Your boyfriend needs to grow up and get over it. Everyone has a past. We can’t always control whether our past hook up know our current ones, and that’s not something he should be holding over your head. And it’s toxic for him to be bringing that up during arguments…
Sorry for the long reply I can’t give you a direct answer only some things to mull over.
Op, I feel your pain, I am 31 and have been in your place for the last 5 years both with caretaker, and work life balance , I have some advice and some considerations.
The first thing I would say is Caretaker fatigue is real and will create a toxic mess for the relationship if not handled. There is a reason the safety brief before takeoff says if the oxygen asks deploy put yours on first then help others, the same thing applies here if you don’t make time for yourself to take care of your needs and allow your spoons to regenerate then there will be nothing to give your partner. I know this is hard for me every time I tried dedicating time to hobbies, going to the gym or changing my diet so I could be healthier I got nonstop complaining about how it was impacting my partner.
This leads to the second piece of advice: Healthy boundaries don’t ignore and downplay your partner’s disability but there needs to be healthy boundaries to protect your sanity and help encourage a level of independence for your partner. To be clear I am not at all saying your partner needs to do everything on their own but You have to take care of yourself so that you can take care of them, and that means your time needs to be respected so that you don’t in the long run end up neglecting your partner.
Third Children: this is a tough one and I will never tell people weather or not they should have them, what I will say is don’t let this be a carrot that is dangled in front of you or her. If this is something you want and she isn’t sure then don’t force it but if you stay you have to be okay if they don’t happen, and if they don’t you can not be resentful of her. If you can’t do that do everyone in the house a favor and go to therapy or you need to have the tough conversation.
Fourth: This is your relationship and nobody but you and your partner can understand or make the decision to stay or leave, that said you both deserve the best chance of happiness in life, and the ending of a relationship is not a failure and should be celebrated when ending at the right time. That does not mean that this is that time or that there is not a real chance for happiness and fulfillment, if you can find a way to deal with your caretaker fatigue, develop healthy boundaries, decide and are at peace with the decisions on kids and I am sure the many other things in your relationship there is a real chance of happiness, I know I found it in my relationship( which for disclosure is ending because my partner came out as gay and wants to be with a woman not due to issues in the relationship).
I would recommend therapy both individually and couples, as a therapist can and will help you work through setting healthy boundaries and avoiding ultimatums and making sure there is a partnership after it takes two people willing to work for a relationship to survive. There is a real chance for the relationship to last, but there is also a real possibility that the relationship devolves into a toxic mess and it is going to come down to self care and therapy, and @30 years old there is also no shame in starting over, sometimes disabilities are more than we can deal with it isn’t fair and there will be people who judge you for leaving and those who judge you for staying, but the reality is there is no moral value to the opinions of others as long as you can look yourself in the mirror.
Just my experience man, never knew a senior dating a freshman that wasn’t creepy. Been sayin so since I was a freshman myself.
he does still have the app based on the notifications, but if hes telling the truth about the notification contents, ive gotten those before due to inactivity. it sends you an annoying amount of “youve got likes!/someone super liked you!/log in before your account is hidden!” notifs. uninstalled today bc it was annoying me
She's a rapist. Biological clock or not, most women who feel their time is running out to have children don't rape men. She raped OP and this “biological clock” theory has nothing to do with her being a literal rapist.
“95% of families that have a child up end divorced?”
Bruh you serious?
It could really have gone both ways IMO
How did the second and third conversations go? You brought it up and she agreed? Was she hesitant at first? Did she say no and then “a lot of talking” and then she said yes?
He will not be happy unless he makes you think you are so disgusting no one else would want you. This is a dangerous and sad road to go down. Leave him asap! It will only get worse. He only treats you well enough so you find yourself questioning whether you should go. GO!
Invent time travel, go back in time and tell your past self to not cheat on your best friend.
You are about to lose two important people in your life and ruin a marriage. You may as well get it over and done with sooner rather than later.
Even asking me who was the bitch that send me the vids.
You should really thank her, she was looking out for you.
i was about to say, the bar is in hell hahahha
Yikes UpdateMe!
Do you have plans of confronting Faye?
Exactly
It depends on what you mean by “troubling past”.
Is that code for him stomping boundaries when it comes to other girls? A history of cheating, flirting, etc?
If so, that's why you're having a difficult time as most would.
If he has a history of those things, most people would have a problem with them going out with friends without them so much.
Any specific books?
Well I didn’t know he was double dipping then when I found out I told the other girls and left.
What should I have said boundary wise?
I think it's a bit extreme. As another commenter pointed out she well take care of me the following weeks were I'm unable to walk. Now maybe if she doesn't want to help me there, I might reconsider our relationship.
I mean of she were to get pregnant or injured or something like that I would do it for her in a heart beat.
I'm I missing something? Why are we getting downvoted to oblivion? Someone explain the reason why you disagree with my opinion and others with similar opinions.
You're not happy about your weight gain. So, take his comment and use it as fuel to drop the 20lbs for yourself.
What you do wrt your dude is a separate issue, and could be a different kind of shedding unwanted weight.