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Date: October 25, 2022
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You two have polar opposite views. For whatever reason, she is getting satisfaction/validation/excitement/self-esteem/happiness/whatever from this and she is adamant about it too. For any relationship it is better to try to understand where the other person is coming from, i.e. the reasons for their behavior, attitude, beliefs. If you want to stay with her then do that. There is a saying: Be curious, not furious. Listen without judgment.
what was the picture of? Also dates dont lie
Lmao nice bait
??? oh noes…. ? anyway..
Go nuts. At the end of the day you have no power unless you give it to yourself
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So we met on a dating app and have been dating for 2 months now, she's honestly the sweetest kindest person I've ever dated but I feel like things might be moving too fast?
So I'm 30, a homeowner and have a career, it took me a long time to get where I am, she's 25 and on a student visa in this country to do what sounds like a REALLY diffficult masters, she also works part time, I'm very impressed by her.
She's really been there for me already, I've been like snowed under with work deadlines, home rennovations etc and I had a shitty situation in my friendship group where I was essentially betrayed by a so called friend, she was so comforting about it.
So she's vented to me also about her studies and other stuff and I've been there for her, its all going smoothly. But then she was complaining about her roommate and I asked her when her lease is up, she said by the end of the year, then a few days later out of nowhere she said while staying over “I wish we could be together EVERY day” I found this to be cute but then she went to say how she'll move into my place at the end of the year because “there's no point me moving into my own place for 3 months” and I asked her why it would be 3 months and she said that most couples move in with each other after a year so she wouldn't be renting alone for long anyway, so I politely but firmly put my foot down and said “ok it just feels like you're deciding this for me? it is MY house and I'm not ready to even discuss living together yet, we've only been dating for 2 months” and she apologised and said she just thought when I asked her when her lease was up that she thought I was hinting at us living together. So we cleared that up.
Then a couple of weeks later, we went away for the weekend, my birthday present to her, she told me she was worried she was pregnant, so I was calm about it, I knew this would be very unlikely because she has the implant and I never cum inside her. I waited calmly as she did the test and then we tried to move on with the day but she then told me if it would have been positive she would have kept it, I then said “well its your body and your choice” then she tried to get more of an answer out of me and the thing is, on our first ever date she asked me if I ever wanted marraige or kids and I said yes in the future with the right person, so its not as if I'd left my intentions unknown but anyway I said to her “I'm relieved it was negative because I'm not emotionally, mentally or financially ready to be a parent at the moment and won't be for years” and she said “okay yeah same here really, I was thinking 2 years” and I said “why is there a timeline? you're only 25, for me it's more like 5 years! but I can't even think that far ahead, we barely know each other we need to let these big milestones happen naturally and over time” she then started crying and said “I understand but, I'm really disappointed in your reaction, as a 30 year old man with his shit together I thought you'd react more responsibly” and I reiterated that I'm just being honest at where I stand. We moved on.
It's just like, she keeps asking me when we're gonna have sex and keeps reassuring me her implant is working (she saw a doctor to get it looked at) and that she's now okay with me wearing condoms etc, but like, I just feel overwhelmed, like I can tell she's just perhaps a bit insecure but like, I feel like the magic and the spark might already be very damaged now? Just knowing that she has a timeline in her head and at such an early stage, she keeps using the L word and posting like a million pictures of us on her socials and I just feel like I'm still barely catching my breath.
I don't want to project onto her my past relationships, when I've invested emotionally then been hurt, I don't want to push her away but equally like, I want things to be chill, fun, and slow.
Because she’s crazy, my friend
He's playing games with you. I've known guys like this. They're trying to mess with your head so that it tilts the power imbalance in their direction. He wants you to be chasing him, it gives him control.
My big sister always said “never let a man tell you twice that he doesn't want to be with you.” As hard as it was to live up to, I swear this advice has served me well.
Ditch the fool. You deserve better
Has she said anything about it aside from not being sure how to feel?
You didn’t pick when your graduation was, they could move the wedding. Walk that stage, you earned it
You can trust someone while still being pragmatic about what is possible. You can think of it like a seatbelt, I 100% believe I will not get into an accident, but I still think it's smart to protect myself against the possibility of one.
How's that medicine