I mean I would begin by never marrying someone who can't stand up to their family and say no you're not going to ruin my wedding with your asshattery. But that's just me being crazy.
Yea I don’t think that will happen. And I know the girls are only going to get worse as summer approaches. Idk if this is even enough to walk out of a marriage for???
I was being raw dogged by my now ex abuser so I really didn’t want a kid with him. I also thought there was a chance he cheated on me while we were long distance for over half a year because he was incredibly illogically weird about a woman he’d had sex with shortly before we were together.
They also refused to screen me first time I got an IUD when I graduated high school because I’d only had one intimate sexual partner, this was even after explaining I’d been raped repeatedly by my father before I hit puberty and that’s why I wanted the test.
That same place didn’t place it very well and it came out in about a year, the one I have now though very uncomfortable to get (despite topical anesthetic and heavy ibuprofen use before going) is overall more comfortable now and took a lot less recovery time. It isn’t messing with my periods like the last same copper IUD did, I think it was partly due to her being more thorough about measuring me and taking her needed time for insertion at planned parenthood.
I needed a break to grab the wall and calm down because my mind is hard linked to my body and I started panicking. That was equally shit to find out when I attempted suicide (stopped myself before I got too far) and couldn’t decipher between physical and emotional pain.
“This is not ok. I’m not consenting to this. You should not have scheduled it until you had my enthusiastic consent. I may be open to it later, but we really need more discussions first. This ends up breaking up a lot of couples—I want to be certain and ready.”
Feels like a troll post for karma
Yikes, you need to find a new job and your partner needs to find a new girlfriend.
Not without evidence for
Yeah he likes you and loves you but doesnt want to marry you. You’re not a fool, you couldn’t know this was how it would go. Even he didn’t know.
But, yes, if you want to get married, you need to find someone else.
Don’t try to talk him into it. The LAST thing you want is to marry someone who is not all in.
We're you two not living together?
I mean I would begin by never marrying someone who can't stand up to their family and say no you're not going to ruin my wedding with your asshattery. But that's just me being crazy.
Sounds like he’s being manipulative. Block him, then delete his number
Yea I don’t think that will happen. And I know the girls are only going to get worse as summer approaches. Idk if this is even enough to walk out of a marriage for???
I was being raw dogged by my now ex abuser so I really didn’t want a kid with him. I also thought there was a chance he cheated on me while we were long distance for over half a year because he was incredibly illogically weird about a woman he’d had sex with shortly before we were together.
They also refused to screen me first time I got an IUD when I graduated high school because I’d only had one intimate sexual partner, this was even after explaining I’d been raped repeatedly by my father before I hit puberty and that’s why I wanted the test.
That same place didn’t place it very well and it came out in about a year, the one I have now though very uncomfortable to get (despite topical anesthetic and heavy ibuprofen use before going) is overall more comfortable now and took a lot less recovery time. It isn’t messing with my periods like the last same copper IUD did, I think it was partly due to her being more thorough about measuring me and taking her needed time for insertion at planned parenthood.
I needed a break to grab the wall and calm down because my mind is hard linked to my body and I started panicking. That was equally shit to find out when I attempted suicide (stopped myself before I got too far) and couldn’t decipher between physical and emotional pain.
My pleasure! Fingers crossed for you!
“This is not ok. I’m not consenting to this. You should not have scheduled it until you had my enthusiastic consent. I may be open to it later, but we really need more discussions first. This ends up breaking up a lot of couples—I want to be certain and ready.”