Yes. This isn't just dumb it's insane. You're only 24 and you'll hit your stride soon. I know everyone talks about how doom and gloom dating is and how people aren't marrying and having kids but still don't do this. This arrangement isn't fair to you or the kid. Stop worrying have fun enjoy your 20s.
Your response seems reasonable but here I am trying to be a little selfish im saving my connection with my years long crush… I know if its going to end than I wont be able to save it too… But still being optimistic I will try my best… (No I am not running from the truth :()
I've tried dating guys my age and they all play games and just end up leaving anyways and it's because I truly love this man but now I'm kind of questioning things
Why aren’t you invited to the wedding. If my husband wasn’t invited to a friends wedding, I wouldn’t be going. Plain and simple. What kind of relationship is this?
Yep. If OP and this woman didn't go through the courts and make everything legit, there's a chance this woman could literally walk in and taken the child if she's on the birth certificate as bio mom. And a lot of cops won't stop her, they'll say it's a civil issue.
OP is getting a lot of bad advice from kids who haven't dealt with the ugly side of the court system.
Literally the rest of their lives. Kids always come first, especially when the kid was around before the new wife. If she doesn't like that, she shouldn't have married a guy with a kid.
You need to understand why I even posted this, it wasn't just some random guy who she decided to fling with, it's my bestfriend, so the fact I had her on “dibs” and “reserves” is irrelevant coz he is my friend! Otherwise, if some rando did it why would I even blame him? He doesn't concern me. I would not give it a second of thought out of my day bruh.
I remember when my wife called me a loser. Kicked her out the next morning cause I found out she was cheating on me. Don’t deal with that shit.
Yes. This isn't just dumb it's insane. You're only 24 and you'll hit your stride soon. I know everyone talks about how doom and gloom dating is and how people aren't marrying and having kids but still don't do this. This arrangement isn't fair to you or the kid. Stop worrying have fun enjoy your 20s.
Your response seems reasonable but here I am trying to be a little selfish im saving my connection with my years long crush… I know if its going to end than I wont be able to save it too… But still being optimistic I will try my best… (No I am not running from the truth :()
I've tried dating guys my age and they all play games and just end up leaving anyways and it's because I truly love this man but now I'm kind of questioning things
Why aren’t you invited to the wedding. If my husband wasn’t invited to a friends wedding, I wouldn’t be going. Plain and simple. What kind of relationship is this?
Yep. If OP and this woman didn't go through the courts and make everything legit, there's a chance this woman could literally walk in and taken the child if she's on the birth certificate as bio mom. And a lot of cops won't stop her, they'll say it's a civil issue.
OP is getting a lot of bad advice from kids who haven't dealt with the ugly side of the court system.
This is highly dependent on where they live. This is not universally true in all countries or all US states.
I feel bad for the child.
Short, sweet and 100% on point.
Did you laugh when you read it?
she was disrespectful, she was cursing me idk why
thanks tho!
How much longer does Tiffany have to come second
Literally the rest of their lives. Kids always come first, especially when the kid was around before the new wife. If she doesn't like that, she shouldn't have married a guy with a kid.
You need to understand why I even posted this, it wasn't just some random guy who she decided to fling with, it's my bestfriend, so the fact I had her on “dibs” and “reserves” is irrelevant coz he is my friend! Otherwise, if some rando did it why would I even blame him? He doesn't concern me. I would not give it a second of thought out of my day bruh.
Absolutely. Dream come true. Not.