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Room for online sex video chat Chiknisassy
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Date: November 28, 2022
You will thank yourself for getting rid of this loser. You feel Iike he’s manipulating you because he is. You didn’t want a relationship and he insisted because you’re the only person he thinks he can swindle into giving him the time of day. He is going to drain you emotionally and financially for all you’re worth – the sooner you’re out of this, the better. I promise he won’t get better, and if he did it would likely be a selfish ploy to manipulate you back into the relationship and then it would be back to square one all over again.
I can’t even count the number of times I’ve seen this exact dynamic play out and 0 times has it ended well tbh
It's a reasonable request by him in my opinion and it's also reasonable for you to not be with him if you do not want to live with that request. Both of you are fine. Neither of you are being controlling. And… there are nearly always things like this in relationships. You need to figure out if it's really that big of a deal (I suspect you're more concerned about the controlling issue than being able to use weed, and I am speculating here because that is how I would feel and think). 55 yo me – after having gone through these things in relationships says…and many will disagree with this but here goes…I'd comply with the weed and alcohol request and when I go to Amsterdam I'd go without him, take my bestie and white lie for the sake of my relationship and enjoy some weed and booze, have a grand time and head home happy and never say a word. I think it's ok to have some harmless secrets in a relationship and I'd chalk this one up to a harmless secret because it won't hurt him. But that's me. And before you do something like that, you need to ask yourself how you'd feel if he did that to you – if you'd be ok with it, then move forward. If not ok with him having this type of secret then you should not do it- it'd be something you shouldn't do.
My first husband enjoyed weed and I hated it – so he stopped when we got married. Later I learned he'd smoke with his bestie once a year when they got together. Back then if I'd known I'd have been pissed (that was young me). Now, I'm glad he did. It didn't hurt me, he was honoring the spirit of our agreement which was I didn't want to be married to someone who was doped up or hurting their health; reality is that an occassional smoke out is not going to make you perma-high or kill you. So my advice is be “honest-ish”.
“well your the one who wanted the kid” and I told him just because I wanted my baby doesn’t mean I shouldn’t get a break sometimes
Sounds like this isn't about the shower, but runs a LOT deeper. Did you push him to have a kid? Were you both careless about bc? Why did you have a baby together if he wasn't 100% for it?
Let me say again; I also said;
I’ll go against the grain here. If she values being drunk out of her mind and unable to walk, you could have saved her from being raped, getting behind the wheel of a drunk driver or anything. So I think you had intent to be controlling? No. You just wanted her safe.
But in a real world hive mind, you are perceived as controlling because you laid a hand on her. Therefore, i’d say if her values don’t align with yours, aka drinking to get pissed to the point she can’t remember the night before, then perhaps find somebody different.
It could have been approached better. Learn from it. But don’t let these people call you abusive or that you assaulted her. Trivialising real victims of assault helps nobody.
But here you are, not educating him at all. Raising your pitch forks and implying this dude gets no second chances. How is it that me, a man, which you for some reason loathe, can tell him that what he did was wrong without villainising him, yet you, with your self proclaimed hierarchy of emotional intelligence is the one kicking him whilst he’s down?
Amazes me, man.
None of you even asked him how his girlfriend feels about the situation, just jurisdiction this, man bad!
Why a Doberman? Have you had one before? Have both of you had dogs before?
Honestly it sounds like he doesn’t have what it takes to be a pet owner regardless, and the two of them will never get along. The dog doesn’t trust him and now he doesn’t trust the dog. Personally I’d keep the dog and get rid of the guy, but that’s me.
yeah, i cant understand how she cannot grasp this.
I came here just to see the “what should I do” at the bottom ?