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It sounds like two problems and the first may cause the second. I would hazard that you’re frustrated/annoyed/fed up with him and his lack of help. And seeing him as lazy and unhelpful makes him unattractive and lowers your libido. I think it’s worth bringing up how you feel stressed and overwhelmed and that you need more help. And honestly my sex life improved so much when I started reading some seriously smutty books. At first I would have felt embarrassed buying the books but now I feel freedom in telling others about them. But that is where e readers come in handy. Message me if you want any book recs!
You have tried talking with her about it, she does nothing, so time to leave.
You say you live together, is it your place, her place or a joint place.
If yours, pack her shit up and tell her to get out. If hers pack your stuff up and leave. If joint, pack your stuff up and pay your part of 2 months rent to the landlord directly.
As you say it’s not that she is cheating, but she has no respect for you. And a relationship is built on trust and respect.
'Equality right?' Dude, what? Why are you under the outdated impression that men have to pay for everything? I feel a little bad for your girlfriend if this is how you feel about her sharing her feelings about marriage.
Aw hunny he is gay. It’s ok to walk away from a sexless marriage, he will come out in his own time but you need to worry about you. Tell him you need more and cant try to make it work any longer. Don’t make it about him, tell him at this point you are doing this for you and you need sex to feel fully fulfilled in a marriage, which I mean duh, I feel crazy after a week or two without it, I can’t imagine not having sex with my husband for that long and still thinking we’re in any kind of relationship more than just best friends. I hope you can find happiness.
There is deeper issues than her just missing you when you go away. If she completely shuts down then all you can do is try to not let her drag you down too.
I probably don't need to say this, but talk to her about it and set healthy boundaries. Let her know that her actions aren't acceptable at all and something needs to change.
At a guess, it could be that he was already a little lukewarm, and his parents' opinions were enough to sway the decision. And/or there could be money involved. If he was in line to inherit a bundle, his parents might have held that over his head to get their way.
Unless you ask him, and he actually answers, you may never know. I'm sorry, this really sucks.
Whether you are insecure or not is not the point. He has chosen his friend over you. I would not stay. There is no space for you regardless of the situation, and I have read many posts on Reddit about people sleeping with their best friends. So let him be and have her.
nah girl don’t continue this marriage any further. you told hin multiple times to stop talking to her, and he says that he will, but yet he still continues talking to her. he doesn’t respect your concerns. 10/10 they did have sex. let home-wrecker Laura have him and divorce his ass, don’t allow yourself to continue going insane over this. you deserve so much better OP.
It sounds like two problems and the first may cause the second. I would hazard that you’re frustrated/annoyed/fed up with him and his lack of help. And seeing him as lazy and unhelpful makes him unattractive and lowers your libido. I think it’s worth bringing up how you feel stressed and overwhelmed and that you need more help. And honestly my sex life improved so much when I started reading some seriously smutty books. At first I would have felt embarrassed buying the books but now I feel freedom in telling others about them. But that is where e readers come in handy. Message me if you want any book recs!
Time for you to leave her.
You have tried talking with her about it, she does nothing, so time to leave.
You say you live together, is it your place, her place or a joint place.
If yours, pack her shit up and tell her to get out. If hers pack your stuff up and leave. If joint, pack your stuff up and pay your part of 2 months rent to the landlord directly.
As you say it’s not that she is cheating, but she has no respect for you. And a relationship is built on trust and respect.
'Equality right?' Dude, what? Why are you under the outdated impression that men have to pay for everything? I feel a little bad for your girlfriend if this is how you feel about her sharing her feelings about marriage.
There’s nothing wrong with what she did. The two of you weren’t exclusive.
Aw hunny he is gay. It’s ok to walk away from a sexless marriage, he will come out in his own time but you need to worry about you. Tell him you need more and cant try to make it work any longer. Don’t make it about him, tell him at this point you are doing this for you and you need sex to feel fully fulfilled in a marriage, which I mean duh, I feel crazy after a week or two without it, I can’t imagine not having sex with my husband for that long and still thinking we’re in any kind of relationship more than just best friends. I hope you can find happiness.
Sounds like a call for therapy.
There is deeper issues than her just missing you when you go away. If she completely shuts down then all you can do is try to not let her drag you down too.
I probably don't need to say this, but talk to her about it and set healthy boundaries. Let her know that her actions aren't acceptable at all and something needs to change.
At a guess, it could be that he was already a little lukewarm, and his parents' opinions were enough to sway the decision. And/or there could be money involved. If he was in line to inherit a bundle, his parents might have held that over his head to get their way.
Unless you ask him, and he actually answers, you may never know. I'm sorry, this really sucks.
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You’re not wrong!! Was very quick!! Felt like I was sucker punched.
The quickness of it all has me wondering if I’m chasing the emotions of it all or if I really care for her.
We both kinda love bombed each other. Buuutttt the things in common, the interests, the life goals, also the patterns and what not were kinda trippy?
When I really give this whole thing a thought, I do care. When she crosses my mind I and hoping she is safe regardless of our outcome.
I really think she thinks I would end up hurt by the whole situation:/
Sooooo seems real? but I do have my guard up:P
Be very careful and do not get her pregnant, unless of course you want that then its all good.
Whether you are insecure or not is not the point. He has chosen his friend over you. I would not stay. There is no space for you regardless of the situation, and I have read many posts on Reddit about people sleeping with their best friends. So let him be and have her.
I'd probably trust my partner and see him as her friend
nah girl don’t continue this marriage any further. you told hin multiple times to stop talking to her, and he says that he will, but yet he still continues talking to her. he doesn’t respect your concerns. 10/10 they did have sex. let home-wrecker Laura have him and divorce his ass, don’t allow yourself to continue going insane over this. you deserve so much better OP.