We both suffer from depression now and then. I'm medicated and in therapy. He refuses any medication and is only in couples therapy now with me because I said I was in crisis and we needed immediate help. I'm not sure why he neglects his teeth specifically. I've tried asking before and he got very defensive. I'll try asking in a different way.
Personally I don’t think dating your friends ex’s is ever a good idea unless they specifically say they’re okay with that and are on good terms. It’s messy, people tend to carry hard feelings.
OP, please read this. When you and your bf disagree about what you should do with your body, he will use trickery, physical force, physical restraint and IMPRISONMENT to ensure that you do what he wants. Please never return to a shared home with him.
What triggered this? Did he have an early mid-life crisis? Obsessed with fitness in himself, in you and even his friends. Did he have a health scare?
I’ve heard that athletes sometimes have trouble cutting back on physical fitness because it produces euphoric effects- sometimes the body’s way of dealing with the pain of exercise.
Not a doctor but from your description it sounds like this is taking over his life.
It would be worth exploring these things with him.
He's dating someone a full 7 years younger and now you know why. Women his age would call him on his crap.
You only started seeing each other and the first thing he did is brag about getting a BJ off you. This dude is gross. Dump him. If he gives you any issues, starts texting you, following you around, let HR know.
Others have said this – don't date coworkers. I did the same when I was 21-22 and it is the worst when it's over. The dude is a hero for getting in your pants, you are someone that rhymes with oar. Just don't.
We both suffer from depression now and then. I'm medicated and in therapy. He refuses any medication and is only in couples therapy now with me because I said I was in crisis and we needed immediate help. I'm not sure why he neglects his teeth specifically. I've tried asking before and he got very defensive. I'll try asking in a different way.
Sounds like a gold digger, I think she did you a favor by dumping you
I'm sorry…..
I seem to have missed the part where you have a fucking gun to your head.
….so your lazy ass is putting up with this shit why again?
I'm sorry…..
I seem to have missed the part where you have a fucking gun to your head.
….so your lazy ass is putting up with this shit why again?
Personally I don’t think dating your friends ex’s is ever a good idea unless they specifically say they’re okay with that and are on good terms. It’s messy, people tend to carry hard feelings.
OP, please read this. When you and your bf disagree about what you should do with your body, he will use trickery, physical force, physical restraint and IMPRISONMENT to ensure that you do what he wants. Please never return to a shared home with him.
Wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't the first time either.
Exactly. If I were OP's coworker I'd be noping out as soon as the cake was cut.
What triggered this? Did he have an early mid-life crisis? Obsessed with fitness in himself, in you and even his friends. Did he have a health scare?
I’ve heard that athletes sometimes have trouble cutting back on physical fitness because it produces euphoric effects- sometimes the body’s way of dealing with the pain of exercise.
Not a doctor but from your description it sounds like this is taking over his life.
It would be worth exploring these things with him.
Absolutely no second chance to this dude.
He's dating someone a full 7 years younger and now you know why. Women his age would call him on his crap.
You only started seeing each other and the first thing he did is brag about getting a BJ off you. This dude is gross. Dump him. If he gives you any issues, starts texting you, following you around, let HR know.
Others have said this – don't date coworkers. I did the same when I was 21-22 and it is the worst when it's over. The dude is a hero for getting in your pants, you are someone that rhymes with oar. Just don't.
Maybe. She loves cooking, and I've been looking for an excuse to try. Maybe down the line, she can control my calories more directly. ?
You'll have to address it to him. The answers won't fall out of the sky. Be more direct and ask him how he really feels about you.