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Our first baby was 20 weeks on Sunday, so I’m probably quite well placed to help.
Firstly, don’t worry about trying to seem completely ready for a baby, nobody is. Both of you will have worries and concerns, talking about them is key. Silently pretending you’re ready will make both of you feel lonely. So talk, just have a conversation, ‘have you got any worries?’ Etc. Also, have that conversation regularly.
In terms of being there for her, it’s as simple as that, be there for her. It doesn’t mean you need to do everything for her, but making sure you’re helping out will go a long way. Pregnancy can be very easy, it can also be incredibly hard, it’ll probably be somewhere between, and some days are good, some days are bad. Just support her and make sure you’re offering help.
As for not having a father figure, don’t look at that as a negative, look at it as a positive. You have a blank canvass on how to be a good dad. Think about the sort of dad you wish you had growing up is probably a good place to start.
Finally, it will be hard work. So here are a final few pointers:
Don’t worry if you don’t have a massive wave of emotion and an instant feeling of love when your baby is born. It’s normal not to have that. Like romantic relationships, feelings can take a bit of time to come. It’s normal to have feelings of ‘oh god why did we do this’. Raising a baby is hard work, and sometimes you do long for the good old days pre child. Don’t panic – babies make all sorts of weird noises, breathe weird, seem to choke, it’s all really normal. If you can stay calm and relaxed it’ll help a lot. It will get better. Anyone that says it’s an exclusively wonderful time or disagrees with either of the first two points is either lying or has just forgotten. It’s a lot of changing nappies, trying to work out why they’re crying, and not a lot of sleep. It’s wonderful watching them develop though, their first smile, when they start giggling, holding things, that’s what gets you through it. You also get used to it. I struggled with the first few weeks, but it already feels pretty normal now.
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