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Date: October 6, 2022
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Neither of y’all have communicated enough to each other.
Baby girl you’re so young. Please please please say goodbye and politely walk away. Choose you. You have so much of life you’re yet to experience and explore and you do NOT need to take this man along with you. Trust your gut. Most importantly, prioritize yourself.
I don't meant to come for you or anything but it seems like this is beyond the weed. I was in a 4 year relationship since I was 16 as well, my boyfriend felt very strong about 'no smoking' with both nicotine & weed but it was never a problem because I felt the same & I knew this about him since before we dated.
I understand you for wanting to experiment, I later on did with my following boyfriend & ended up hating it even more afterwards… I don't regret it per say but I do realize now that I was gaslight into “being more okay” with it & even trying it out when he knew I wasn't for being with someone who did it especially on a regular basis. When we started dating he said he quit, & he did, only to pick it up again after & tried to keep it from me many times. Ultimately, this subject was probably the biggest reason why we didn't work out. He simply didn't respect my boundary & it led to a lot of fights.
Point is, you knew he was against it from the beginning & you can't really expect him to loosen his view on it because you want to experiment. Again, nothing wrong with you for wanting to but it really depends on what you want more in the long run. If you are considering not wanting to be tied down at a young age, know that it's okay to feel that way but it also means you could be sacrificing any future you have with your boyfriend. Again, all comes down to what you want out of life.
If you want to break up, that’s your answer. but if you’re worried about always being the one to do that, I would spend some time figuring out what you want before your next relationship.
The way you describe it, this is a guy with a solid job, healthy social life, doesn’t villify his exes, and troes to have an equal relationship. Lots of people want people specifically like him so don’t waste his time because of your own baggage with ending relationships.
Okay this is bothering me. You’ve referred to finances as a “can of worms” like 4 times now.
STOP IT. Discussing finances with someone you want a future with is not ‘causing problems’ or whatever they think.
If you cannot be transparent with the person you’re exclusively a partner with then you are not their partner/equal to them. You should not be having sex with this guy AT ALL.
What if you do get pregnant? Who’s taking care of your kid’s bills? Not this guy. Pregnancy and birth (in America) can have huge medical bills tied to it. This is not the guy, no matter how much you want to have kids he will squander your hard earned cash.
Also, you should get a prenup with whoever you marry. Everyone should! If you stay home he should be contractually obligated to make sure you’re compensated for your time/career sacrifice (in the event of a divorce/adultery)
Omg I lol'd sorry but I needed that laugh…thanks actually
Yes I agree, I just feel an urge to talk to him about it but I don’t know how
I told my now husband the exact same thing when we were both 24. I also wanted marriage by 28 and kids by 30 cause I am worried I may have fertility issues. It wasn’t a threat or an ultimatum, I just wanted to know if we were compatible. If not I’d need to know then to avoid any heart break in the future. We got married 5 months ago at 27 after being together for 8 years(: super happy and ready for the next step.
bf told me he would cheat if he had the opportunity
Our relationship is fairly good and healthy despite this issue
Are you familiar with the meme of the dog saying “This is fine” while the house burns down around him?
office ecosystems are minefields.. remember the pizza she had. remember it. once a week for about a month buy doughnuts for everyone. build a small rapport with them. ask them if they brought their lunch if they didn't. have pizza delivered to the office. they type she likes. apologize to them in private. then wing them off the doughnuts. drop down to two times a month . then once a month.
His parents can't force him to come back, really… he's 18. If he applies for student assistance then his parents don't have any real authority or financial leverage over him.
Maybe things are different in your part of the world but as far as I know, you can't apply for student assistance for the year, once the year has started. Those types of things usually have strict application periods and deadlines.
Also, with financial assistance, his parent's income may affect his ability to get it and getting a loan outside of the university assistance program would need a guarantor, and not many people outside of a person's parents would be willing to guarantee a 10s of thousands of dollar loan for an 18 year old.
Life isn't as simple as your 18 now, you can do whatever you want, A was essentially forced in a practical sense unless you're expecting an 18 year old to find a job that can sustain his needs (food, rent, toiletries etc.) and put himself through school (tuition, textbooks etc.) with like 5 minutes notices.
But all in all, if A really was a danger to others, the situation worked out for the best.
Yeaaaaa end this. He’s homophobic, has homophobic family, gaslights you, and does not support you.
He’ll do anything to make me stay, even if we’re both extremely unhappy.
That’s toxic. He’s toxic. Run. Don’t walk, don’t gracefully try to end the relationship, get out while you fucking can.
It is much better to be heartbroken and alone than heartbroken and a fool in a relationship with someone who knows he can manipulate you over and over again. Right now he isn’t taking you seriously because you’ve forgiven him easily every single time something has happened. It’s time to leave.