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Asking to save money together: Fair. Her wanting to travel: Fair. Your asking her to not go? Begging even?: Not fair. You’re not married or have shared account. Her breaking her agreement with you about money: Not fair. She clearly told you what you wanted to hear but broke your trust and went against it.
You can’t tell her what to do. You can take this as a sign of who she is: she wants to do what she wants, and isn’t ready to make long-term commitment-based decisions. It’s probably not about YOU- it’s about saving money and not traveling with her friends, who somehow convinced her to go after she told you she wouldn’t. Maybe you being a bit older is a factor here, but looking back- I wish I had traveled more in my 20’s, too.
If you want to build a life with her by including her in your long/term financial goals, awesome. It’ll only work if she truly wants the same things and shows you she means it. Telling you isn’t enough. But it seems like she’s isn’t there with you.
Either keep things open, but separate (in terms of money) and accept that she’s not quite in the same page as you, or cut your losses. All require you to NOT tell her what to do.
Trust me, she is showing you.
I mean you need to express to him that you are equally upset and need his support too, not just one sided where he cries, snots, and gets back rubs… he needs to know you need reassurance, back rubs, and equal sympathy & reassurance too even though you don't directly show that your upset via the same expressions as him. Get his mom died when he was a teen and he has a mile long list of bad shit happening yada yada, but there is a time where has to realize that living through all those occurrences has only made him stronger and that he doesn't have to resort to crying & sniveling over it constantly. Remind him what didnt kill him has made him stronger and that you need that “stronger” man to be there for you. It's cool if he wants to do that on his own time and get it out of his system, but you definitely need the same especially after your body was processing the miscarriage and dealing with all the discomfort while your body is trying to get back to its equilibrium. Yeah, he always wanted to be a father but there will be other pregnancies in the future if thats what you two are planning on, a family and all that. I really hate sounding like a toxic guy by saying this and im sorry it gives that impression, but he needs to be a man. He needs to express how he is feeling, maybe cry a little, dry up the tears, and move on & be the rock that is there to help you with what you are feeling whether it's physical, mental, or emotional.
When he is on holiday remove any shit that is yours from the flat , I would also take one sock from each pair that he has to annoy him
Break lease , pay the fine and move on
Never tolerate an asshole
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Okay, but these obstacles are the things that give you a chance to strenghten your relationship. It's about working together to solve it, everybody fights at times or says things they didnt mean
You don’t need his permission. He’s being insecure and controlling.
He's 25, been married almost 5 years, I assumed you dated for a while before the wedding and you're wife #2?
Girl what?
I say this as somebody who absolutely loves sex and has been the unicorn in open relationships as well as in ffm threesomes.
This manchild does not want an open relationship. He specifically wants to cheat but doesn't want you to. I can almost guarantee he's reading some Andrew Taint garbage, and trying to figure out how he can manipulate other women into having sex with him while keeping you “faithful.” He is nowhere near mature enough for a relationship, much less an open relationship (difficulty increases exponentially with more partners if you don't have good EQ about it).
I know you love him but he is not a good person. Imagine this wasn't you and reread your own posts and comments.
Also his wife maked him feel rejected. Why does he has to reasure her?