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Was it a peck? Or a full blown CPR maneuver?
I get what you’re feeling, but it was a mistake, and you’re acknowledging it, which to me shows genuine remorse.
Tell them they aren’t your sugar baby and their behavior is embarrassing. How entitled tbh
The sheer audacity of men never actually fails to amaze me
Sex and a maid
What is his reasons for not getting married?
Not only that, it's pretty disrespectful. I get that some men are not so focused on chores and might be messy, but I believe that most men are open to honest communication. If that doesn't work, you shouldn't be together. And if toy haven't tried it, it's pretty disrespectful of your husband to go around calling him your child.
Just ignore them you don’t have to talk to them their are hundreds of kids in school that you ignore everyday you can ignore 2 more
Thanks everyone for the good advice I wont do nothing,
Omg this is where my mind went too. Either it’s over or they are getting marrried. Someone else said shes pregnant and that’s easily a third option.
All men are different and all men do different things.
Ultimatum maybe? Tell him that you want to marry and if it is smth he doesnt want then it just doesnt work
Tell your friends. She isn’t a friend. Period.
You need to accept that ending this relationship is best for both of you. You need to be alone right now and get a handle on your alcohol abuse. Do not attempt to get back with your now ex. “I would never hurt her [except those times that I did]” think about how that sounds. For now, you need to focus on how to be sober and keep your kids in your life. Your separation is best for the kids; they should never be exposed to that kind of trauma. You may think the kids don’t know but they do. All of these instances of relapses are very good reasons for your ex to file for full custody so you need to clean up to show court that you can be a parent.
This is cute 🙂
You don't need to start a conversation.
How about you – and let me give you some mind-boggling, life-changing, maybe outright terrifying advice – literally ask him: hey, i think I like you, how about we go on a picknick together?
I can understand if this feels uncomfortable st first! But they, if you want a great relationship, you need great communication. And being honest and straightforward is part of that! You have nothing to lose!
I think he should have given you a heads up, but I don’t think he needed anyone’s permission. He did a gracious thing by allowing people he cared about to continue the creation of their family. Donating sperm doesn’t equate to having children. That’s not his kid. I’d tell him in a calm environment that you’re hurt he kept something so big from you. I can almost guarantee this was a turkey baster situation, so I don’t think you need to worry about anything cheating-wise going on.
I’m sorry this is happening, and I hope y’all reconcile in a way that makes you happy.
My ex would snatch the phone from me knowing there might be something on it, but he generally let me look thru it. But its his compute he does most his stuff on, and he doesn’t like me on his computer.
Now that I’m his ex, he won’t even let my touch his phone, and definitely not his computer. So fair to say he’s been lying about hiding stuff.
I'm going to be pretty blunt this entire thing is pretty gross, disgusting and weird to me. I'm sorry this happened, you can't just not think about it since you walked in on them. I don't know how not more people in your life takes more issue with this. Everyone deceived you or kept things from you that's not something you just recover from, they broke your trust. I also think your husband's mindset about losing kids is unhealthy, it seems to me in some way you already lost them because they have no problem lying to you for multiple years, all of them. The whole dynamic of their relationship is just gross to me, what if they break up? That' could mess up the entire “family”. As for me I would probably never be able to accept something like this, but I understand the need to do otherwise and that would probably be achieved through therapy. I don't think you should pretend to suck it up to be a “happy” family, there is already enough deception as it is
How many times will it take? She’s physically abusing him. How long until she abuses the baby in a moment of frustration? Everything about this post sucks, but the baby is innocent. He needs to leave the house and take the baby with him until she can control her own body while triggered.
4 years is a long time to get to know someone… I’m not convinced you really “don’t know her” enough to decide to marry her. I feel deep down you actually don’t want to marry her and you’re afraid to admit it. You owe it to her to be honest. Sounds like you don’t wanna marry her.
Screw her. Just find a different place (you may even be able to ask your property manager if they have anything available) and she will have to qualify to lease it solo. Worst case scenario, you pay to break the lease if she doesn’t qualify. Whatever monetary payout this requires is worth it to save five months of living with a manipulative cheating ex.
Tell your stepmom and cut him off, if it’s really as bad as it sounds
Yes, and if they're married it won't matter. You're talking about if they divorce
Do not add anyone to your title unless you are married. If you break up she will get half.
It doesn't matter. We could make plenty of assumptions and any one of them could be just as likely as it is nothing more than a simple lunch with a friend who is moving away. The OP's discomfort with the situation is perfectly normal and understandable and her boyfriend should respect her boundaries.
If a lesbian cheated with a man is it cheating? What a stupid, ignorant post.
oh never mind what I said. You would want to end your current situation before exploring if there is still something there with the ex. You might just be looking at the ex and projecting or wearing rose-tinted glasses, you know?
Holy shit. Do you realize that you just suggested he let his dog get his again?
Step.1 is get the dog out of the home immediately.
Don't forget it.
My daughter's friend was recently proposed to at her graduation. Terrible timing.
Don't use an existing special day and use it to propose. It changes the meaning of the day for that person. Pick another day, even the day before or after, for the proposal.
No. Just no. This is some ridiculous power play. Well maybe. Did you ever ask why he is so so insistent on wanting to eat off of your plate and or utensils?
it’s illegal in Texas
To get better, people often need help to identify problems and tools or alternatives to make things better. Therapy is the best way to do that and he won’t go? How else does he then propose to make things better? Or is he fine with how things are currently? And if he’s fine with it, are you?
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Girl he was sending nudes and videos of him masturbating and sexual messages to another woman. How is that NOT cheating?
Creeper was trying to alert you to your creeper cheating boyfriend. Dump him and move on.
Nope I actually hate that aspect of him and want to punch him. But can’t help but notice that he gets shit done. He thinks ahead, organizes things and gets things done. The way he goes about it is ruthless but most women want a man who is a doer. I’m not attracted to the asshole tendencies though. I think I can find a way to build that side of my bf.encourage him to be more assertive.
Man flu, it's a pretty big deal.
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Yeah she has some clear stalker vibes going on.
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. I get what he’s saying but I don’t necessarily think that means reasonable hours.
Normally, no, it doesn't. Given his sis has her own firm, she should be able to give him and you more insight into what having one's law firm will involve.
What about your own career? How would you like your family life to look like?
Furthermore, given your ages…. what would the timeline for kids ideally look like?
The things she said – were they true?
Keep trying to talk to him. Maybe ask him to hang out just the two of you like fishing. He may feel overly pressured by having so many people around him.
the only men and women I know who he need to keep lists have hoe-d it up so much, that they needed the list to contact trace their STI. is this really want you want in a long term partner? a dude who loves hooking up and keeping evidence of his trophies so much, he won't delete it even now? how long before the relationship sex gets old and he wants to collect more trophies?
GTFO!!!!! You don't want your child caught up in this mess
Yeah, she was going to cheat.
Unless there is some insane reason to do it then don’t.
Your brother-in-law is a predator. He groomed Ellie and has now baby trapped her.
Your sister should always keep a very close eye on the kids. Who knows what that sicko is capable of.
He’s happy because his perverted behavior gets to dominate the lives of 5 people directly and others indirectly. He feels like a big man.
I get it. I was her first a while when I was much younger. Have you said that you don’t feel like she engages anymore unless it’s to prepare what she’s going to say? About herself? I know that’s hard but it’s possible she’ll hear you. She’ll get defensive. But. She’ll also hear your voice every time she goes on the mememeee bender. My best friend pointed it out to me and it made an enormous difference. Not just with her but for the rest of my life. I still cringe just saying that I was her.
Wouldn’t the hospital be required to report this?
So he wasn't sexually attracted to you but he was fucking you? This dude doesn't sound like he's going to be a catch tbh. It's one thing to have a preference but this seems pretty fucked up to me
Yikes at the fact that he was almost in his 30's just when you were barely not a minor anymore
Didn't you know? The Love Guru starring Mike Myers was the real life story of when Mojo jojo decided to be a relationship counselor?!
Please find a therapist. Just for yourself right now.
Yes he would. I’m better then her.
Is that why he stopped doing things with you to be with her because you know….he's happier with her? You also never dated this dude. This is a true crime obsession you have going on. He doesn't like you romantically if he did he would've made a move but HE chose the girl that makes HIM the happiest. N didn't steal him HE chose her.
We are not sure it’s OPs child…………
As someone who gave up her education for a boy she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with: absolutely fucking not.
Do you think he left this for you to find? If so, it could be a red flag of narcissism. He’s treated you well and now it’s time to begin chipping at your self esteem
Whatever helps you sleep at night.
DTMFA
She’s acting like a teenager, you’re supposed to be able to have an adult conversation with each other.
Also it’s strange to me that you’re in couples counselling when you haven’t been together a year yet, how long have you been doing it?
If you’re not ready after 2 months of talking to someone, you either take a step back and stay friends or leave them alone. You don’t string them along and expect them to stay strung. And if someone isn’t ready to be dating, they should find better things to do than lead other people on. The time frame plays into how he’s being manipulative
He's on dating websites just to find some new friends…
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…. that he can also have sex with.
I too think it's a myth for the most part. The only times I've heard guys say they liked using a condom is if they were worried they were gonna cum too fast with another person. But if you're jerking off alone why would you want it to take a long time?
You are a unicorn of sorts on apps.
You need to tell him, and sooner rather than later.
our relationship does have some issues, I'm not denying that. but almost all are because I went through hell as a child. this is the only issue that isn't because of my past.
I live by myself and listen to a lot of music/videos when home alone (which I know is a bit of an excuse) sitting in silence can be anxiety inducing. At work I’m successful at putting my phone away and only checking it a few times but at home it feels like I can’t move from room to room without it.
Instead of trying to bring him down level up with him
I assume you will choose your girlfriend over your friend, because you're obviously going to have to choose.
Yes yes yessssss!!!!! All of this! What’s the hobby?!
Right, its the uncle who is sick. Not the chick… makes total sense.
I saw one text message, confirming his tinder account was activated while we were dating for about 5 months
he texted a girl that he used to hook up with, and she never answered.
How is that not cheating?
Just because girls want nothing to do with him, he doesn't make him any more loyal. He has been trying to cheat at every opportunity he can. If he hasn't gone through with it, it's because other women don't want him, not because he is loyal to you.
Damn you make it seem like 23 year olds are super old sheesh
Seems really selfish of you. Should just break up.
In which part of the time you weren't even adults.
Dating time in highschool really shouldn't count.
When you say he maintains friendships with essentially exes, what do those friendships look like? Do they cross any boundaries?
I'm not at all for pressing people into doing things they don't want to do. But if hanging out with your girlfriend sometimes is the thing you don't want to do, you should probably not be in a serious relationship.
dude shes not your girlfriend. she doesnt have to tell you shes fucking other people. she made it clear she wasnt interested in you like that and you didnt stop. let it go
I question if she really had a miscarriage or an abortion. But if she is telling the truth then you have every right to feel upset.
Yeah you’re right. I would say the same thing.
I just feel feel for her because she’s deeply insecure and has no one there for her, so I can kind of understand what she thought the attention would do for her, even though it was horrible and wrong.
What bothers me most is that she could lie to my face for months while doing all of that, and turn it on me when I confronted her.
It’s just so much to think about and I would never do this with anyone else, because loyalty is so huge for me. Just something about her is keeping me from just cutting her off.
No I don’t think so. I think I was extremely kind, patient, and loving and I dated an actual sociopath. I think it has really wrecked me actually. I dated someone who never loved me and is a chameleon, he never shows any true emotion. So yeah I guess you know what I’m the one who is at fault for not leaving. I stood by his side through a lot when I didn’t need to. He went to jail for making a death threat to a government official, guess who was the only person to support him? I could easily have found someone else, I have never had any criminal record, in graduate school, have a solid job. I’m loyal, honest, and empathetic. He saw it as a weakness and a way to manipulate me. I would smell alcohol on him and he would gaslit me and use my fragile state against me having me question myself. Only to later find evidence that he was actually drinking. He had a whole identity of being a “sissy” for 5 years where he was online, meeting men, going to sex shops, etc. and I had not even the slightest idea. It was traumatizing to find it all out. And yet I still forgave him and put his feelings first.
My father is on his death bed from a neurological disease and I’m very fragile from it, instead of supporting me and being loving, he has used it against me to spin a narrative and control me. It’s awful. It’s so awful. I’m not at fault at all, I don’t need to be told I am because that’s how I ended up staying for much longer than I should have. I’m angry because this proves to me that he really did never love me. I don’t think he is actually capable of love. I truly think he is a sociopath and compulsive liar.
I held on because I hoped that the person I thought he was would materialize. But I see who he truly is and it’s scary.
No time like the present. I can't see making the decision and then waiting around for weeks.
It's like you are afraid you are going to hurt her in some way. Maybe so, but no more than the rupture of her hymen. Just simply tell her you need a sexual relationship and that is not this. Don't let her talk you out of anything.
Hereafter, she will either go take care of the problem, or she won't see it as such a big deal that you rejected her for virginity.
Yes, I'm agreeing with you on that part and also saying that what OP's wife is proposing is selfish and not right.
When you are actively defending a perpetrator, you are putting other women at risk too. She stopped her boyfriend, hence protecting him. And now, other women will go through the same shit she went through.
he should go back to his doctor if his medication isn't working.
i have in the past got relatives to set up wills, etc. by asking them for help with my own will (everyone should have one! even if you've only got $10 to your name) but idk if that will work in your case
So with the category being near, if not the largest viewed one, your confident and comfortable applying and calling out nearly all men as a pedophiles?
You need to internalize what I’m about to say.
The woman you thought you knew was a lie.
The actual person she is is someone who cheated on you, repeatedly for months, and then lied to you about it everyday for years.
It’s not your fault that you believed her. It is, however, your fault if you stay with her and hold onto this fantasy that she isn’t, actually, a horrible person.
Leave her. In 5 years, you’ll realize that’s the best decision.
I don't know if he is lying. I'm trying to be supportive and take him at face value. And since I'm having an issue with validating his feelings I'm really trying to believe him.
Also, it wasn't over jewelry (that was with my mom). With my grandmother 3 things happen. I have two other posts going into details about all of that.
I hope you don't take that person's comments to heart.
Marriage is absolutely not a “lifelong union” if one spouse disrespects those vows by mistreating the other. I don't know what your husband did to you specifically, but being “treated terribly” for half a decade by your partner is more than enough reason to leave. You did NOTHING wrong by choosing yourself.
This is extremely common for people who have been mistreated by a partner, especially if the behavior was abusive. Guilt is normal. It sucks, but it's normal. I still struggle with guilt for leaving a partner who raped me multiple times years ago, and for leaving a person I dated for 3 years and planned to marry, who cheated on me repeatedly.
Just my personal opinion but sometimes I think we feel guilty in situations like this because we spent so long putting someone else first that it feels unfamiliar and weird to put ourselves first. It feels wrong because we're not used to it. But that's not disrespecting your vows; it's finally respecting yourself over someone else who disrespected your vows.
lol, yes go no contact for a while. these people are bad for his mental health
he doesn't want to eventually support another man's child.
He wasn't fake af. He told you directly how he feels, and you refused to understand that.
When people are into you they make an effort to see you. They can't wait! So excited ? she is using the “I'm not into you excuses starter pack”
Let me put it that way. If it was mandatory by law, or if everyone man would simply do it regardless of their trust, then the world would be a better place, as no man would be deceived into raising someone else's child.
This is an insult and an accusation only if you decide to see it as such. Again, if this is what decided not against her, but as something he will do regardless of everything that might happen, it is perhaps even a good thing.
There are man that trust their partners and ended up being deceived. It doesn't mean you shouldn't trust your partner, but it means that doing paternity in general is a good idea. You can argue a perceptive person will get his suspicion anyway. Yes, but some people aren't exactly the sharpest in that regard.
This is so stupid. Why does something as small as this need a Reddit post? “Honey, sorry I had a headache and was having a bad day. I shouldn’t have done that”
Dude, I'm not gonna lie, I'm a woman and your story made me smile. Unless you were consciously entertaining “sexy thoughts” while you were being waxed (and I believe you weren't), of course the erection is an involuntary response from your body. Nothing wrong with that, and I would absolutely not consider that as a form of cheating, technically or otherwise.
What if you have an erotic dream (you can't control those either), would that be an issue too?
Your wife probably needs some reassurance from you because she's feeling insecure for some reason. Sit down and have a talk with her, maybe when her anger wears off she can see this for what it is.
I am trying to quit. It was a couple of moments of weakness. I should have known better.
This sounds like emotional incest w him/mom. Really disturbing and im proud of you for getting tf out of that relationship. Keep a ring camera and stay safe please
I had a son to someone who cheated and we split up. My next wanted to get pregnant, and I told her I was going to wait until we got married. She wanted one then, so then she badgered me to get engaged. I would watch her with her pills and never trusted that she would take them so I started wrapping up which pissed her off. So I knew she was tossing the pills. She wanted bareback and anal was always a yes to her, so we always prelubed her. So I would finish off anally because of this. This is why I have a strong suspicion of why he is doing that. She then cheated, I knew it was coming and then booted her out of MY apartment and she was pregnant within a month, baby trapping her next victim.
“How do you know that?”
She trusts his word…sure….
He deleted it off his phone so obviously theres no waaaaay he could've backed it up or sent it to a different device or forward it to a friend.
No he told her he did and just deleted it off his phone!
Because that's the only place it could've been…clearly..
“How do you know that?”
She trusts his word…sure….
He deleted it off his phone so obviously theres no waaaaay he could've backed it up or sent it to a different device or forward it to a friend.
No he told her he did and just deleted it off his phone!
Because that's the only place it could've been…clearly..
These are the wildest posts.
OP: lists a dozen solid reasons this guy is manipulative, immature, sketchy, kinda gross
Also OP: Oh but he’s just the most amazing guy! What a man! He is totally amazing! We are in love!
You're absolutely free to go on a date with this guy and inder no obligation to mention your not very serious relationship with a guy who he might be friends with. Also, you could if you'd like to. But people don't own other people.
Do be careful, however, that your interest in this friend isn't heightened because of the possible betrayal you imagine you might be inflicting. Make sure you are evaluating him on his own merits.
Picking you up doesn’t necessarily make sense if he has to drive you back but I would imagine you could make plans in your town as well?
If he only wants to do things where he lives / at his house she may be right. But you don’t say if you’ve tried to make other plans near you.
My BF and I live several hours away from each other and we generally take turns on if we’re at my place or his.
If we feel like grabbing a hotel we can meet in the middle.