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Date: October 21, 2022

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  1. Maybe you are A sexual. Some ppl just like kisses and cuddles but have no drive for sex. Just need to look in the right places among those who have similar lack of needs for lack of a better phrase. There is nothing wrong with you, it's just your preference.

  2. I think that although he may be a bit of a square he has compromised with you. He just doesn’t want to be with someone that smokes. If you can’t handle that then you gotta leave for both y’all’s sake.

  3. why would you cheat ? why do you still want her around, no need to cheat just dump her and move on with someone that actually respects you and btw you should grow a spine and have a minimum self respect

  4. Gonna be honest this just sounds like a run of the mill affair. I suspect you won't like my post and will probably be angry.

    Plenty of people after they are already caught up in the emotional aspect of an affair suddenly seem great big problems in their relationships, problems that they also dismiss the possibility that they contributed too. Maybe he sucked, but I don't think you are a reliable narrator even for yourself.

    A lot of people see marriage as this kind of catch all for all their issues. They also have this notion that life is about being happy. It's not, and this guy isn't going to be and answer to that either, he will have other things that are not so great.

    You seem self absorbed, but then everyone who cheats does, the idea that your kids are happier is kind of a tell. I suspect you gauge your kids happiness by your own, which is also typical. But hey I could be 100% wrong here.

    The thing that is supposed to keep you from cheating isn't because your relationship is perfect or even good, it's because it's the right thing to do and you made a vow. All marriages have stretches where it's hard. Even the best ones. That's not to stay you have to stay married, but really going through the steps of divorce when the marriage is not working out pulls out a lot of your own bullshit. It's harder to pretend like you aren't part of the problem when you have a fallback fantasy that you can just bring up in your head whenever reality might intrude.

    Finally people who are quick to want to forgive themselves for doing things that hurt others are suspect to me. But at least some part of you knows that's BS which is a good thing, it means your not to far gone, or a sociopath.

    I suggest you get yourself a good counselor who pushes you and doesn't just reinforce your inner monologue. Or don't and just call me an asshole, then you can wait until this fantasy turns into reality and you are right back where you were before. Then I suggest you get yourself a good counselor who challenges you.

  5. You should be able to tell if a woman is remotely interested.

    That's hard to know if a guy is socially incompetent, as is my case.

  6. Yeah, okay but this is a valid reason to be angry. You’re not his maid. You’re not his mom. He needs to GROW UP. My husband and I split chores 50/50. If he does the dishes then I do laundry. If I vacuum then he mops. If I clean the kitchen then he cleans the bathrooms. ITS NOT HARD.

  7. It sounds like he is insecure, not you. Comments like that show immaturity. He also is kind of insulting you. Do you want to be with someone who makes you feel like this?

  8. Divorce immediately. There’s no valid excuse to cheat on someone and then lie and get caught.

    I’ve got Autism, I’ve got depression, anxiety, Just Right OCD, PTSD and you know what? None of that is a valid excuse to cheat.

    My grandma was bipolar and she never cheated. Her first husband did though. He was a piece of shit and blamed it on PTSD for marrying a woman in Vietnam and having 2 kids with her while still married to my grandma then left my grandma and my mom and aunt to get married to some other lady and had 5 kids with her.

    I’d wait til he left for work, have a bunch of friends and family help me pack everything and leave before he got back.

    You deserve better op

  9. The fact that you need to tell a grown woman that is proof you’re dating a selfish child. You deserve better.

  10. Just leave, OP. It's okay.

    This wasn't a real relationship. Not because of the distance, but because you can't have a real relationship without mutual communication.

    You deserve better. You can and will find better. What you need to do for now is take care of yourself, because you've been neglecting yourself for awhile.

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