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Date: November 30, 2022
Is happiness all that matters?
I’m a disabled adult. I live at home with my parents, and they care for me.
When you have a chronic condition, you do hope to gain or regain enough ability and independence to hold down a job, live apart from your parents, do normal adult things. I want these things for myself. Being disabled doesn’t make that normal human desire to grow up and become an adult vanish.
In many ways, it’s a good goal to have. You keep it held above you like a lantern, something to reach for, a breath of hope. After all, what else is there? You literally can’t give up. There’s no escape from the disability. You can’t opt out or quit. You can’t even lay down and die. There is no option but to carry on, and with that comes the necessity of looking to the future.
As a partner, you need to be realistic. Look at the care that your boyfriend requires. He will always need that much care. Whether he has a job or not, someone will need to feed him and change him and help him move about. Are you up for that?
He is going to deteriorate. That’s a sad truth about all humans, it’s just more apparent in your boyfriend. Are you game to be present when he gets worse? Sickens and dies?
You aren’t a bad person if you decide it’s too much, too hard. You aren’t bad if you decide that you don’t want that life. Be honest with yourself and with him. It’s far better for both of you that you are, rather than you committing to be his carer and backing out later, when he has fully committed himself to you.
I'm telling you I have definitely watched and entertained the kids for 48 hours while I did my usual yard work and cooked and cleaned so my wife could have a break. It is hard work, but not nearly as hard as you're making it out to be. I'd do it every day if someone else paid the bills.
This is new territory for us as we'd both been working full time until recently. How is this dynamic supposed to work?
Hi! Im trying to DM you but an error pops up. Thanks for the advice. There are ways to solve his issue. He just doesn’t want to take that road. He is scared to be in jail, but the jails in this country is just like a simple room and totally safe, and he will just stay there 2 nights max and his check issue will be cleared then he can start fresh (stay legally and get a job). There was also a period before his visa lapsed where he can look for jobs as his profession is in demand here in this country, but he really wanted to run a business instead of being an employee again.
This person constantly trolls r/oasis
This person constantly trolls r/oasis
It was a thank you present , she doesn’t celebrate Christmas but I took her to a small getaway in the mountains.
I feel like i'm doubting myself, what if i did say it? I'm pretty sure i didn't. and it's not like he doesn't want me to stop talking to her, just not rely on her as much as i do. what if i'm the problem? i was talking to my mom on the phone telling her all this and she was yelling at me to stop, that he's doing this on purpose.
unfortunately, my mom is severely allergic, so i wouldn't be able to take her, even tho she is in my name
I do sincerely love him.
Then you have a weirdly skewed idea of what love is supposed to be. If the person you love doesn't make you happy, I'm sorry that's sick. you're doing very well since the anorexia seems to be in the past, please don't replace that with an addiction to someone who's cruel to you.
While it is a large gap and at your age unlikely to last, the way you started doesn’t sound fishy to me. You met naturally and you were the one initiating. Enjoy it while it lasts but make sure you don’t start changing/compromising too much to make him happy.
What do you mean you send her money? You don’t live together?
If you believe that than you're more stupid than you initially appear.
Because you deserve better
I think you’re severely underestimating how long it will take your sister to get things going in her life. In theory I’m sure within a few months someone could get all that done, but the description you gave of your sister makes it seem like some of these goals might be a struggle.
I guess my question is considering it will likely take her a year+ to get everything out together and figured out, does that change anything for you? What if it takes 2 years? 3 years? That’s a long time to move away from your girlfriend. Or for your sister to live with you.
how could I possibly I go on without the spam alerts about my cars insurance or me winning $5000 amazon gift cards..
I mean seriously though, why are people so stuck on holding on to everything to the point that having a clean/tidy phone or computer or just life in general appears to be someone hiding something??
Like it doesn’t make sense to be, but then again I’ve never needed to hide anything so idk
Firstly. Not everyone is good at gift giving, or likes have an obligation hanging over their heads to buy something because it is Christmas or Valetines Day. Keep that in mind in future to manage your expectations.
Secondly, it's not a bad thing to communicate with your partner about your wants/needs if it seems like they are getting it. Don't drop hints or hope, or assume anything. Everyone is different, and no one is a mind reader. So, if you want something, say so.
Having said all that. I recognise your name (and checked your history to be sure). Just break up with your BF. Doesn't sound like he really wants to be in a relationship. So why stay with someone who puts in so little effort?
Send him home and let him deal with the boys ALL weekend. He's not acting like a father or husband and may never. At least if you send him home, HIS parents can look after him and you'll get a break at the weekend.
You don't have to live together just because you are married. This current situation is not fair on your kids or your parents whom I doubt wanted him to move in ,in the first place.
Sorry, but at some point, you have to take responsibility for your own misery here. You should never married someone with such glaring problems present. Stop choosing this life for yourself.
Your title should be My husband (50M) raped my sister (32F) when she was obliterated
Exactly what I was going to say! I bet this isn't the first time he's done it, just the first time he's been caught!
The difference between meeting at 50 and 70 is very different from meeting at 21 and 37
The 50 and 70 yo are closer in life stage than a 35 and a 50 or a 21 and 37.
It's the life stage that's the problem and there are successive changes very quickly the younger a person is.
Get 5 decades under your belt and bar any life altering disaster you are unlikely to change.
Younger people are changing all the time.
What you should do is divorce him and if your sister chooses, support her in pressing charges as a witness to the crime. That’s what you should do.
The friend that told me, has mutual friends with my friend’s girlfriend and they were also on this trip with her. Apparently that is where he got the information from. I see no reason for him to lie about that to me
It's probably that he doesn't think of sex the same way you do. He thinks of sex as a fun activity that can be divorced from emotion or feelings. You're more like me in which that is NOT the case and sex and feelings are very intertwined.
I think you just need to see if you're able to come to terms with the fact that you two view sex differently, and if he is able to respect that and be completely monogamous for the rest of your lives should you remain together.
He probably doesn't understand that even asking is hurtful to you, and you need to have a conversation with him, explain this to him and ask him if he can commit to dropping any idea of non-monogamy forever. Hopefully he will agree and apologize for hurting you and that will go a long way towards healing you.
As soon as somebody says this it’s basically over even if you prolong it
She left for a reason
Damn I used to say who I thought was the love of my life the more we got serious about marriage and kids the more she would bring the idea “I’d like to be single one day, find myself” it was always in a passing way. She ended up cheating on me. I’m so grateful I walked away from her. I’m sorry your going through this but I think your wife is probably on her way out man
Literally do not make babies with this man. What the heck.
It was a gift. You can wear it as long as you want.
As someone who’s co-owned a business for decades with my life partner, she asked a valid question and you triggered. Is that the kind of boss you are? Would you fired an employee for bringing up a logistical issue because they lacked support for your vision of ease?
You seem confused. Feminism is being pushed in the west but it’s actually the problem. Society and the family structure is falling apart as you see here.
Yes. It’s incredibly common but no, it’s not wise.
You seem confused. She’s been selfish the whole time. Hence his disconnection from her.
Saying you know X with whatever is meaningless. There is no room for actual examination of realistic consequences. There is no such thing as no tradeoffs. Time for a job, is less attention for the child. Do others do it. Yup. ?♂️
Nope. Only brought up feminism because some seemed confused about the origins of this problem.
I agree with the sister.
Ask her what she would need to make that transition easier. Sex is a lot more mental, a lot more emotional, for women than it is for men, and setting the stage can be a critical part of the process. “Foreplay begins at breakfast,” to quote the anecdote. So ask her how you can help lay the foundation.
Pay attention to her answer. If this really bothers her, she'll have some ideas. If she doesn't have any, well… Now you know.
Don't accuse her of cheating. Obviously, I barely know you, and I know nothing about your girlfriend except that she exists, but there's nothing in your recitation which suggests she actually is cheating. The fact that she has lost sexual interest in you does not automatically mean that she has gained sexual interest in somebody else. Besides, it's not like you need that ammunition. If it turns out that she has lost interest in the relationship cannot be salvaged, “You lost sexual interest in me” will totally suffice for motivation.