Which is why I have written he might leave unless she does what is possible to have children, not necessarily actually succeds at having them. It might fail, but it might not and he wants to know he did everything he could. If it is posdible fir IVF to work and she refuses, it is of course, her right, but as I mentioned her husband might leave her, because of that.
I'm sure they are both young and immature and that's a factor, but it sounds like she's poorly dealing with a concern she's having. Maybe physical touch is her love language and she wants more cuddling or wanted him to hold her in bed. I think she's being unreasonable about asking him to get rid of it but maybe they can use this as an opportunity to improve communication. I think he needs to ask her why it's upsetting her so much. Often when people get triggered its coming from some childhood insecurity.
26 years ago, I fell in love with a ring that cost somewhere north of a $100,000 at the Cartier store on Michigan Avenue in Chicago. I tried it on at the time, but I didn't have anybody I was about to marry. I never forgot that ring.
When I did get engaged, 20 years later, I wore a $20 ring that came from the gift store at the place my husband proposed. Our friends at dinner that night were impressed. A few weeks later, we found a duplicate of the ring I loved for vastly less than a $100,000. Two orders of magnitude less, as a matter of fact. The stones aren't mined diamonds, but you can't tell that from across the room.
The point is, my husband and I are mostly financially compatible, and we don't fight about needing rings that are grossly outside of our budget. We are both creative, and we are able to figure out solutions. I didn't have to give up the ring I loved, and he didn't have to spend more on a ring than he spent on a house.
Consider how you two solve this problem. It's going to matter in 10 or 20 or 30 years.
So you want from a “loving mother us against the world” to dropping your son for a shag with his friend. Nice one.
In all honesty you shut the hell up and listen to him. Don't give him a pity party of you being lonely and was happy someone was finally interested in you. You hurt your son. You knew you'd hurt your son. You lied to his face and missed important things in his life and rather then trying to make it up to your son you moved on with your life. He lost his friend and his mother. “me and my son against the world” until someone is interest in you and you drop him.
You seriously need to deal with whatever he has to say to you. Take the criticism, take the anger he may still hold for you and his friend.
Ask him why it's ok for him to touch your games for a console that you share, but it's not ok for you to touch a freaking pot that belongs to him, that you where using for dinner for the both of you. Your relationship is not healthy. 7 years with an emotionally abusive asshole needs to have an expiration date. You need to be single to find out who you really are. Your boyfriend(?) Doesn't have respect for you at all.
Why does every grievance with him end with the silent treatment? That's abuse. He has you trained not to disagree with him. Do you want to live this way? Always “keeping the peace” while he walks all over you?
Holy fuck your post history.
OP you need to take a good long look at your life. You imploded this relationship yourself and refuse to take responsibility.
Get help. You're going to be repeating this pattern over and over and over again until you do.
You can't even hear anyone. Your post history is just you having tantrums at people because literally NO ONE agrees with you.
find therapy. Find free therapy if you can. Fuck it, read some books about it.
I have already blocked her
Which is why I have written he might leave unless she does what is possible to have children, not necessarily actually succeds at having them. It might fail, but it might not and he wants to know he did everything he could. If it is posdible fir IVF to work and she refuses, it is of course, her right, but as I mentioned her husband might leave her, because of that.
I'm sure they are both young and immature and that's a factor, but it sounds like she's poorly dealing with a concern she's having. Maybe physical touch is her love language and she wants more cuddling or wanted him to hold her in bed. I think she's being unreasonable about asking him to get rid of it but maybe they can use this as an opportunity to improve communication. I think he needs to ask her why it's upsetting her so much. Often when people get triggered its coming from some childhood insecurity.
No like this is legit how i acted at 13 yrs old and off my meds. I wouldn’t expect anyone to put up with that.
26 years ago, I fell in love with a ring that cost somewhere north of a $100,000 at the Cartier store on Michigan Avenue in Chicago. I tried it on at the time, but I didn't have anybody I was about to marry. I never forgot that ring.
When I did get engaged, 20 years later, I wore a $20 ring that came from the gift store at the place my husband proposed. Our friends at dinner that night were impressed. A few weeks later, we found a duplicate of the ring I loved for vastly less than a $100,000. Two orders of magnitude less, as a matter of fact. The stones aren't mined diamonds, but you can't tell that from across the room.
The point is, my husband and I are mostly financially compatible, and we don't fight about needing rings that are grossly outside of our budget. We are both creative, and we are able to figure out solutions. I didn't have to give up the ring I loved, and he didn't have to spend more on a ring than he spent on a house.
Consider how you two solve this problem. It's going to matter in 10 or 20 or 30 years.
So you want from a “loving mother us against the world” to dropping your son for a shag with his friend. Nice one.
In all honesty you shut the hell up and listen to him. Don't give him a pity party of you being lonely and was happy someone was finally interested in you. You hurt your son. You knew you'd hurt your son. You lied to his face and missed important things in his life and rather then trying to make it up to your son you moved on with your life. He lost his friend and his mother. “me and my son against the world” until someone is interest in you and you drop him.
You seriously need to deal with whatever he has to say to you. Take the criticism, take the anger he may still hold for you and his friend.
No one’s dna is worth procreating this many times
Ask him why it's ok for him to touch your games for a console that you share, but it's not ok for you to touch a freaking pot that belongs to him, that you where using for dinner for the both of you. Your relationship is not healthy. 7 years with an emotionally abusive asshole needs to have an expiration date. You need to be single to find out who you really are. Your boyfriend(?) Doesn't have respect for you at all.
Why does every grievance with him end with the silent treatment? That's abuse. He has you trained not to disagree with him. Do you want to live this way? Always “keeping the peace” while he walks all over you?