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Bela Ford | Expect me to go live between 11:00am – 8:00pm (MDT), 29 y.o.
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Date: November 22, 2022
Hey buddy.. this is easy. The wife did the same. So, I had such a lovely dad bod, and all that decided to post a pic in a mankini and tagged her so ALL of our friends and family saw.. Of course, she got angry that I did that, and I just said I would post stuff when she posts stuff.
Idk I can’t leave her alone.
Sorry, but if your husband is 43 years old and still trying to prove himself or defend you by physically fighting another person then he IS a loser.
Well when you were three months pregnant, he all of a sudden was engaged? Timeline is suspicious and he was most likely cheating with you. But regardless, just send a text and say “You have an 18 month old child. I tried to meet up with you when I was pregnant, and you told me you were engaged. I felt awkward and uncomfortable approaching you after that. But you need to know this and I can't keep you in the dark any more.”
Me and my ole lady were just talking about that the other day when we were watching HOTD about how insanely over the top these writers get sometimes ??
What your girlfriend said to your daughter shouldn’t be forgivable. Protect your daughter. Choose your daughter. You’re the only parent she has left.
Get over yourself… Like being home for his Dad is important too. Like it's okay to be disappointed, but it isn't okay to invalidate his important thing.
Yeah, the best way to get people to respect boundaries is to ignore when they cross boundaries!
This honestly sounds like the plot of a romcom! Can you go into more detail about what she said about having a type, what it is and what you don’t fit?
It may be painful to think about so you may be shrinking away from doing it, but can you think through how it would go in a worst case scenario? If she turned you down, could you move on, could you handle it in a loving and mature way? Could she handle it? It sounds like your friendship is strong enough to survive.
He’s already thinking about hooking up with other people. “Regardless of what happens”? “At least until the kids are out of high school”? OP, you can’t be serious. You’re staying with a man who so clearly is looking for ways to leave you? God, why? To lead by example for your children? I would hope not.
(i do all the cooking and 70% cleaning)
Why do you do all the cooking and the bigger part of the cleaning?
Im a light weight and new to drinking so I know to only drink one MAX.
You're lightweight and new to drinking and you're drinking a beer a night. You're forming a habit.
So is it a little too much to drink a beer every night/every other night?
It sounds like you drink 7 beers every week. (or do you drink more in the weekend?). You're also using excuses ('I need this to relax'). Like I said before, you're forming a habit.
If so, would wine be better?
The only thing better than beer is no beer.
I mean she’s 19 so she’s immature, but if that behavior continues as she gets older, that could be a sign of not good stuff. My friend would do that sort of stuff and they had undiagnosed mental illness
I unfortunately think you know exactly what to do. If nothing else, your relationship should be over. It’s awful and neither of you respect each other.
I’d never give advice suggesting an abortion because I think that’s far too serious to be left up to advice anyone gives you. My advice on that is to put things into perspective and figure out what makes sense for you and your future. If you’re anti-abortion, great. It’s your life. But you make that decision knowing you’re going to have a child where you’re miserable with the father and the best decision there is to not be together. Staying together because you have a child would be a monumental mistake.
If you’re pro-choice, then again consider what I just wrote. Do you want to be tied to him forever? Again, you don’t even like each other. Now, I’m certain you’ll get a lot of shit for cheating and rightfully so. I just don’t feel a need to harp on it, because given the full context of the situation, you cheating is really just further proof of how bad the relationship is. There’s clearly never going to be trust here. No healthy relationship can work without trust.
In saying that, keeping the baby means that the best case scenario is that you break up and find a way to be good co-parents. If you stay together, you’ll just be parents who live together and are miserable with each other. Is that really how you want to live?
You’re also only focusing primarily on his post. You learned the truth. Use it to make the most logical decision.
Separately, there’s still the possibility that the pregnancy isn’t viable. We don’t know yet until you go to an OB. What we should also discuss is your birth control methods. If you’re on birth control and/or use condoms and this is a freak accident, it is what it is. If, however, you’ve been using nothing, it’s time to reconsider your life choices. Good luck.
Why is it unfair to ask your partner to be kind when you are disagreeing? I mean, shouldn't you be able to expect a certain level of respect from your partner even tho you are disagreeing?
How are we supposed to know? Ask her.
This person that you are in love with doesn’t exist. Other than it is a person you are dealing with that is it. The rest is fiction. It’s all manipulation. Cut her off and get back to real life. Having a virtual girlfriend is unrealistic to sustain. Plus her emotional blackmail (claims to be suicidal) is abusive.
You do realize people get off with others over video/the phone, correct? Didn’t come here for wise guy remarks.
No it definetely doesn't mean more than her and I'm gonna have the convo and see how far it goes if I decide to keep the beard. If it's to the breaking up point,it wasn't mean to be ig
You call off the wedding! Gold digger can find someone else to fund her life!!
She’s part of your kid’s family. She’s not part of your mom’s family. One does not mean the other.
I’ll say this as someone who has been in a relationship with that type of person that it’s okay if you want to just leave it. It’s incredibly stressful and you don’t need to be a hero.
I think the decent thing is to tell him, however, it’s ultimately your decision what you do. I just figure I would like to know if it were me
You didn’t cheat. Your relationship is controlling. and exhausting. Unblock Emily and block your (ex) girlfriend.
On his laptop, look for a folder named “Homework” or “Work Stuff”
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I don't personally use Facebook or Twitter and refuse to allow people to sign in on my devices to them. Call me crazy but it's my stuff.
What exactly was the betrayal?
In that case she can be the first one to earn more
Doesn't matter, many people would not feel comfortable with having sexual intercourse with a trans person. She knew that, yet still hid the fact. She knew many, fuck, possibly even most, would not consent, yet she chose to ignore it. That is legal nonconsensual sex.
Same way an 18 year old wouldnt want to have sex with a 16 year old tindermatch due to them being underage. Hiding that fact is very similar to this one, the 16 year old knew there likely wouldnt be consent, yet still went along.
You don't have to give a big complex reason. You can simply say, “This relationship isn't working for me anymore. I'm going to concentrate on working on myself and my goals. It would be best if we stop seeing each other and communicating.” You can do this via text.
Some people think you “owe” the person a face-to-face, but you honestly don't. It's kinder to be brief and direct and say exactly what you want.
Don't negotiate a break up. You are calling the shots. Don't be talked into a “temporary” break, or “staying friends” or “keeping in touch.”
Make it a clean, sharp, permanent breakup.
Bro she was a jerk to you all day long. She doesn’t appreciate or respect you. Can’t even hardly give you her time on a special day. You deserve so much better than this.
Don't wait 3 months next time.
Get a temperature on a person's dating attitude early on. .
Also, drop anyone the second they start getting vague and speaking incoherently.
It means they're lying about something.
He's too old to be acting like this.
He likely was testing to see how easily manipulated you are. Which is why he tried to fake you with the pretending to be interested in a relationship and then mentioning he was going on a date still.
He thought you were a fool that would all that bullshit..
Personally, I'd have cussed him out on the spot. And properly damaged his ego. Becuase I don't take kindly to that bullshit.
So walk away. And next time ask direct questions early on to see how a person feels about dating multiple people etc etc.
And then drop them.
I'm not wasting 3 months on a vague relationship.
Nonetheless, that’s her motivation to be with you? Still sounds pretty mercenary.
Thank goodness she has some other guy to provide romance. (/s)
“He assumed this, I did not tell him. The first time he brought it up I was thrown off and just laughed awkwardly, it kind of got out of control from there because I was (still am a bit) worried he’ll break up with me over this.”
op what are you doing? op if your bf is obsessed w taking your virginity then you are obsessed w lying to him. tell him now and get this over w.
He is fetishizing virginity though. A virgin can be 14 or 40. Sounds like she's not down for that fetish. Not every partner thinks condescension is sexy and alluring. Not every person is into the idea of being “submissive” in some aspect. Equality can be a massive turn-on.
Chemistry was induced by heavy alcohol consumption. Next time chose more wisely and don’t ignore the red flags.
Glad you blocked him! In the future, if a guy gets mad because you made out but won't sleep with him, don't waste anymore time with them
Yeah this could be the heart of the issue you're right.
She's pretty much fine with the status quo and I want more spice and frequency.
It's pretty much always been like this in that I've had the higher drive and never really been an 'at night' kinda guy.
I'm going to have to keep on talking to her about this….urgh.
Thanks for your input though, it's all been useful. Much appreciated.
Cheers
Thank you! I needed this reassurance
10% monstrous is a lot actually. That’s almost a day a week to live in fear, feel like absolute crap, walking on eggshells or all of the above. I don’t know your plans for the future but imagine potentially having little kids who would have to cope with this alongside you. My parents used to yell a lot and I’m still traumatized about it in some ways. Even then it was nothing like this. Genuinely sorry this is happening. It’s also time to start your exit strategy asap. Wishing you the best!
Yeah she is. I did said it to her, dw I'll make her see reason
That's true I'll put that in mind. I don't think it'll cost our relationship but it'll be rough for a while
Wondering if he read something about pheromones, there are a bunch of people on the InTeRwEbS who believe that you shouldn't shower too much bc it sTrIpS yOuR mAnLiNeSs.
OP, you really need to ask him. Something like, “hey, love, what's going on? I noticed you're not showering as much, is there a reason for that? Because I really love touching clean hair, I find it a turn on…”
My dad will pickup hitchhikers but never does it with me in the car.
That’s not a difference of values, it’s comfort level with who is in the car.
Your bf is rude and ignoring your real trauma.
I’m a dad that’s a little older than this guy and my kids are around OP’s age.
OP, go with this strategy of embarrassing the shit out of this creep AND more importantly YOUR MOM. Wtf? What she said is worse, because she’s supposed to protect you from scummy men like this.
Fucking gross. tell your mom MOST men don’t make jokes like this because it’s gross, quadrupley gross when it’s an 18 year old they’ve knows since they were kids, but gross enough without. If any adult i know spoke to either of my kids that way we’d be having words.
thank you so much, i worried myself sick over it. i haven’t been in many relationships to begin with so i don’t know as much as i would like to sometimes
People on reddit are weird. Your feelings are valid, I don’t see how being in a relationship and having that person coming home at 4am is normal just for starters? I most definitely wouldn’t appreciate if my partner did that to me. No you can’t control how someone dresses etc, but why can’t you be a little more respectful or modest in your relationship? If not just be single? Then you can wear whatever and hell, not even bother coming home! I’d definitely discuss how you feel…. That’s what you do in a relationship, and you learn to compromise because relationships take work. I find the clubbing scene very seedy and I can only imagine it’s much worse then it was when I went clubbing! Yeah.. I dressed to look good for myself, and for my friends, but I wanted attention from males as-well, let’s be real. People clubbing are on drugs and alcohol, not everyone knows who single either, it’s not the best environment.