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Honestly, if I had a partner like you, I’d make and effort to let you know that I loved you and missed you whenever you needed it.
OP you have to tell his wife. It’s not right. If you were in her position you’d feel betrayed and want to know. Yea, you messed up by allowing it to happen but telling the wife can be the first step to really making up for it.
Nope. You got drunk, you lost control of yourself, and then you tried to sweep it under the rug. That last one is where you truly failed the test. You showed him that you’re willing to try to continue to deceive him in order to evade responsibility. As a result, he’s concluded — rightly — that he cannot trust you.
I guess you had better give up booze. You can’t handle it. It makes you do stupid things, and then rely on increasingly murky ethical decisions to get out of the trouble you caused while drunk.
Bet you his wife found out and has kicked him to the kerb, so now he's come back to you. You know you both were in the wrong here. And you know you can't trust him not to do the same to you, that he has done to his wife with you.
I had two thoughts came to mind when I read this. The shaggy song it wasn’t me. And the line from Woody woodpecker if we had gone straight to the police this whole thing never would’ve happened. Yes I’m old. I think your husband is a fucking liar, and he got scammed, and he isn’t being truthful with you.
Love this last part!
you think im having intrusive thoughts about someone because im saying someone with mental illness should be shown the bare minimum consideration from their spouse?
As if people in non-age gap relationships are perfectly happy all the time? Nothing to do with the age gap, but the personality of that man.
It's none of your business. At all.
Yeah, that statement sure sounds like he is losing feelings. Of course, he would be the authority on that, not you or me.
It's ridiculous that OP's friends act like this girl can't help what she says. She's been nothing but rude but finally when OP spoke up then she's just 'joking' and OP is taking it 'too seriously'.
DARVO at its finest. Reversing the roles, making OP the bad guy for having healthy boundaries.
OP does not need friends like that. This is the kind of friend that spreads rumors and talks shit. It would only get worse if OP apologized. OP needs to take a stand and purge this negativity and jealousy from her life.
Trying not to be crude but if you aren’t having sex with him he’s likely hav sex with someone else. If you were having regular sex and now there is none then there is a huge issue. Was there was some type of dramatic incident that occurred and that’s why because if not then this is not normal behavior
This has to be a scene from a dumb comedy movie right
Understood, pretty sure hubs feels the same! But it would be nice to give him the version of me he fell in love with
This is the one! She’s most likely been more open than she’s been letting on anyway.
I did this in November. I told my ex that I wanted things to be over and that he had thirty days to leave. Give him an eviction notice (you can download templates online) and check your tenants rights laws in your state – you may have a give notice on the 1st of the month or something. Document that you handed him the not.
If he is violent, you will need to get the police involved.
I wish you the best of luck.
That’s ok I’ll call it violence for you
Because she doesn't want advice!!!!
I get that. I just didn’t know if this was weird considering things are stable and there’s no issues. Honestly, I just have my concerns as many do on this subreddit. I’m young and I don’t know if it should even be something I directly ask him yet.
As long as you didn't burn down a forest or anything during your gender reveal it will all pass it time.
That sucks because this could have gone other way too, if you'd given her money and she used it to OD, your mom still would have blamed you. Sounds like you couldn't win.
TBH, I think this would be weird coming from someone he’s never met 🙂 why not ask to meet him for coffee first and you’ll see how you feel? Because you don’t even know how you’d feel about him IRL.
Thank you for responding. More background info for your response. I was cheated on by the girl who took my virginity. When I cheated on my current partner and the women I charity I was 18 and hadn’t coped with my past feelings while using drugs to numb myself and I ended up going along with an older woman’s fantasy while she paid me and bought me stuff however I only ever kissed her and honestly emotionally did not entertain or grow distance from my partner. After about a month the guilt killed me and I came clean. At this time I also went cold turkey from all the drugs and alcohol I was abusing.(that was around our 1-1/2 year mark) been I’ve asked her if she wants/ feels it best I just let go of and even am fortunate to have multiple living arrangements available. However every time I discuss me moving out she then guilts me and makes me feel like even more of a pos for leaving even if it’s months advance hypothetical suggestion. While she tells respondes to my concerns about our relationship by yelling at me to get out or she’ll call the police when I have not pressed her in any way.( ps I’ve slept in my car on freezing night as well as been physically and verbally assaulted by her and her mom )
Wow I wonder why he didn't want to introduce you to his family. When a partner tries setting up boundaries like this, listen
I had to re-read the ages after I finished reading this slog. Both of you pass for 16 year olds!!! Grow a spine Jesus Christ.
Don’t try to go outside of him to establish some relationship with these people. That would be a terrible betrayal. It doesn’t need fixing, it’s fine the way it is. Don’t force communication.
Go talk to the gym. Tell them the situation that she was your gf got caught cheating and now you're canceling your payment for the memberships. She can take over payment on hers if she doesn't want it to cancel, and they can bill her since it's in her name anyway.
We're talking brunch, so lunch time, but with breakfast food.
I don’t see this as break up material. I wouldn’t even necessarily call it quits on the kinks. Her friends were probably going on and on about their sex life, and she got caught up in the moment and chimed in. She would have done that even without kinks being done probably. She was wrong and at her age should have known better. Made that very very clear to her, and that the consequences of her doing that has damaged some trust and confidence that is going to take a while to repair if ever, and under no circumstances is this to ever happen again because there will be some major consequences and damage to your relationship if it happens again.
I love him a lot and enjoy being with him everytime we are together. When we get to see eachother every 2 weeks we always have so much fun together and we know that we want to be together for a long time. I don’t feel like lust has anything to do with me being disinterested in him because I still lust over him but it’s just joining him on the action through the phone is too much work. We’re always excited to see each other when the time comes and we plan things to do all the time. He’s become my best friend and he knows me more than anyone and it’s the same way around too. BUT i have had a lot more experience than him sexually and I know that he doesn’t know how to use his THING and so it’s enjoyable to be with him it’s just that his game isn’t that good. I’d rather just cuddle with him and talk and hold hands and stuff
he admitted that he did show my pictures to him and I told them those were private and were only meant for him to see.
If nothing else (even the age gap), this should have told you everything you needed to know, along with his friends asking if they could “have a go” like you're a bicycle.
He's using you and sharing your intimate photos with all his buddies.
C'mon, you're smarter than this.
So to you – and obviously to her- physical attraction and love aren't connected….
To OP they are! Because he loves her he even seems to find her attractive although she had changed.
While she didn't find him attractive anymore.
I always came out of finding my men attractive, when I was about to stop loving them. aybe this is what has really been happening. And this may be why OP is so hurt and worried.
Your brother is an asshole. Did he deserve to get slapped? Maybe, maybe not. Should he have used words before resorting to violence? Yes, of course. Did he commit a crime? Yes, he did. Slapping a racist is still aggravated assault.
Your boyfriend knew that he was more physically powerful than your little brother, and so he used that to teach him a lesson. It was a fine thing to do in the moment. But what’s going to happen the next time he comes over? What about the next family dinner? What will your parents think? Even if your boyfriend was 100% in the right, he wanted to hurt your brother and did it without thinking.
Have you and your boyfriend ever had a big fight before? Has there been a time where he has felt that you disrespected him? Because if he would so quickly hurt your brother for insulting his race, he certainly has the potential to do the same to you for insulting his masculinity or some other slight.
The dangerous guy who is violent in the world but incredibly gentle with his partner is mostly a romcom fantasy. The truth is, people who use violence to get what they want, or even just get their point across, are much more likely to do the same to their intimate partner.
wish you the best!
Why are not taking no for an answer? Do you believe I’m joking, that I’m playing hard to get, etc
nope sounds like he owes you and your son a better person who doesn’t take out his frustration on his wife and kid . you want your son to think this is how he should treat his wife /partner when he’s older ? Or to think it’s ok for someone to treat him that way. Because it’s not ok for him to treat you like that. If he doesn’t want to discuss and work through (he’s showed u he doesn’t ) the straighten that backbone and walk you and your son out of that.
They post this, word-for-word several times a week.
Despite everyone agreeing with their therapist/friends/family, they persist.
This is how people end up in unfulfilling marriages with a piece on the side. One should want a partner who fulfills you spiritually, intellectually, and physically.
Ok I see, I was not aware of that 🙁
Still, I feel like this is something that needs an intervention. I don't think we should just move on from this. How should I talk about this?
It seems the two of you are past the point of no return. You may need some counseling help to work out an orderly separation.
Man just hard won a spar OP agreed to and suddenly he's a bully.
Tell that boy bye. He's no good. Sex is not the reason to stay with someone
I skimmed it and didn't realize. But you're right, it really isn't fair.
Its no secret that the first year is typically the easiest for relationships. Everything is fun, easy going, there are no issues, both of you are just happy to be together.
But, as time goes on, the true nature of your partner gets revealed.
You might connect with someone enough to start a relationship. But sometimes that person is not capable of maintaining the relationship… and that is a critical piece of the puzzle.
This would be it for me:
I can’t ask to talk to him, because unless it’s about what he wants and I’m saying it all with a smile, he’ll just call me deaf, tell me he’s sick of my shit, and insult me until I leave. It feels like I’m being punished with a timeout, essentially, until I give up whatever I want to talk about.
For myself, when someone behaves like that during conflicts, the relationship is not worth saving.
You want someone who still treats you with respect at all times, especially during conflicts. Being with someone who intentionally hurts you out of frustration… not worth it to me.
I am a frim believing that relationships longevity is not determined by how well things are during the highs… its determined how the couples handle their conflicts with proper resolution…. Like the depth of the worst parts, resolved through their communication. Good times are easy, low times are the real challenge.
So, I think that your partner is missing a lot of characteristics that can lead you to something long term and healthy.
I feel like you will be in store for loads of disappointment on one hell of a bumpy ride.
I think you get off this ride and find someone who cares about you more.
For whatever reason I cannot view comments on this post, I can however through email see someone asked if he has a father figure, yes he has one and it is odd because his father is a veteran, a prison guard and a Pastor as well
I hope you are able to solve this issue. I put my wife through this for almost 18 months. I was going through some mental trauma and would only be intimate when she brought it up that we weren't doing anything, barely any affection. Thankfully for me, she spoke up about it, and I realized I could be on the verge of losing the person I love the most. I am truly thankful she put up with it as long as she did.
Holy shit, this is her modded out hobby car and you expected her to give it up to shuttle around her nephews around? And you lied about buying it back later?
I wasn't really on anyone's side here because ripping up the room is quite the overreaction, but damn, you're making me take her side.
I agree. I really don’t see the problem
So, honest question, where do you see this relationship going? Marriage, house, kids? He’s not responsible enough with money for any of that. Don’t combine your finances with his in any way. Split costs 50/50 is fine, but don’t co-sign any loans or leases. And buy the car you can afford on your own. Let him him borrow it if you must. He can kick in for insurance and repairs, but it should be in your name only. Someone with this much debt shouldn’t be taking on more debt. Paying it off should be his top priority. I honestly don’t know how you try to build a life with someone so unconcerned about being on safe financial footing.
I know she paid for her en-suite but to just completely destroy it out of spite is wrong too. It cost her a lot of money to get it all Installed and she throws it all away after an argument.
Definitely not an overreaction, people in relationships deserve to know something serious as that and your gf and her friends defending is just awful and shows how awful they are as people. I don't know any of these people yet I feel digusted.
Then there's the whole aspect of what if your gf cheats tomorrow, they'll hide it too and you'll be none-the-wiser, being deceived on a daily basis with a POS partner.